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I work in an office and I'm 18. I've been working in an office for about 1 and a half years now. And I am constantly told that I dress to old for my age and that I need to dress younger. No, you guys need to piss off. I want to wear smart trousers and shirts and blazers. Black work heels and fitted work dresses. I dont want to dress younger, or "dress my age". I like the way I dress. I spent money making sure I had nice workwear and I feel that I can't even wear it anymore without being told I need to dress younger. Stop telling me I'm too young to dress like that. I just want people to stop telling me how I can and cannot dress, whether that be out and about or in work. I'm so so sick of it. Rant over...
This post made no sense until I saw dresses and realized op is a girl. Now it makes sense why everyone thinks her clothes are their business.
I’m tired of seeing it, tired of seeing these “artists” pop up on my feed with their computer generated images that take from other artists. They always seem WAY more prideful compared to actual human artists which is crazy because they are involved with less than 5% of the actual creation of it. I’ve generated images myself before, before the huge surge of it and it’s such a joke, AI should focus on more important things. The girl with the pearl earring is on tour and they held a competition to find temporary art to put instead AND AI ART WON??? FOR A MUSEUM FULL OF HUMAN ART?? it’s so insulting to me! There were probably sooooo many artists that worked super hard and made amazing art but some guy who typed in a prompt won????? There was a high schooler that submitted AI “art” and won a top prize… how can you honestly submit AI shit amongst actual art and not feel a sense of guilt or being a fraud because you didn’t actually create the art?
AI should just be used for a basis of inspiration or shitposts. Not to claim you made something.
You're a little wrong about something or asked a question someone thinks is dumb? Downvotes, insults, possible harassment. You made a joke someone took seriously? Downvotes, insults, possible harassment. You're a woman who said something someone doesn't like? Inevitable harassment. You dared to use sarcasm or banter? You get the picture. God FORBID you use an emoji You can't be human or have a normal conversation in many places here. It's bizarre as fuck.
Or it’s weird as fuck, like you can’t even vent in a VENTING subreddit without someone trying to give you advice, fix your problems, or shove their dumbass opinion down your throat. This fucking place can be a nightmare.
There's nothing wrong with being a girl, but I can't help but wish I was born as a boy. It's not that I don't feel like one, because I do, it's just that I'm so sick of all the stupid things people around me say. That I should be the one helping with cooking or cleaning and not my brother because he's a boy. Or the fact that I can't get wasted, because people will judge me and it's not nice for girls to do so. That girls aren't good at driving. That girls are weak or the fact that I "can't" go home alone when it's late. And much more. I wish I was a boy. I hate being a ,,girl" even though I know that boys/men have to face stupid remarks and other problems too. I guess I say this because I've never experienced it... In conclusion, you all have my respect no matter what gender you are!
Fuck sexism, all my homies hate sexism
there are so many bad things about that app. It is a place where minors doing adult dances and posting risque content is normalized. It is Musically all over again. Maybe people will be mad that their app was taken away from them, but in the end, i think killing off a shady app will be recognized as a good thing in the long run.
Also it's Chinese spyware lol, not to mention the oversexualized kids
I’m so tired of people doing selfish acts even if it’s for celebrations. The next generation of humans and animals are literally going to wind up growing up with problems nobody has seen yet. An example of these that I have witnessed Firsthand: -Releasing around 120 balloons AT THE BEACH!!! -People pouring trash from a party into a riverbank -continuously putting gas in a car, burning it doing donuts in the street, and repeating this over and over It’s so tiring I doubt we’ll make it to 2200
It's a self correcting problem, earth will be fine, it might take a couple of million of years. What is actually going to die is the human race.
I've been bigger than most people my age my whole life and I'm trying to lose weight. I was talking with friends and joking around, and somehow sex work came into the conversation. I made a joke saying "if people actually found me attractive I'd definitely create an onlyfans or something", and my friend said that someone would find me attractive as there's fetishes for fat people. My heart fucking dropped. Why can't people just find me cute without having fucking fat fetishes? Why do my friends think someone who might like me just gets off to the fact I'm fat? None of them get it and to be honest, I'm not gonna tell them about this, I guess I'm just feeling fragile. EDIT: I meant do not so
I find fat women attractive. It’s not a fetish, I just do. I find a pretty diverse range of bodies attractive to be honest but that definitely includes fat women.
I just want to use the bathroom or masturbate or shower without having to worry about my fucking family members looking at me. They took the doors off of my bathroom and bedroom for the past 6 and a half months and it's just so embarrassing. I can't even change. I fucking despise it. I'm 19. it's not like im 13 or something. They said they took it because of "secrecy" but the only reason why she really took it is because she thought i had my own phone, but she literally gave my phone back 3 weeks after taking the door off so what was the fucking point of keeping the door off???
There's so many things wrong with this wtf
A few days ago, my mate's son was raped by his female social worker. (He has ADHD) His son confided in his dad, telling him how this bitch sodomized him. (You know, his ass) The issue is, the community he live with his son in, is very pro-female. (The mother is not in the picture because she passed on.) The dad cannot go to the police about it or the council that manages their workers, because he could easily be blamed. This is what infuriates me to my fucking core, that society believes that women are pure and good. What the fuck is wrong with society? the fact that a boy cannot confide in any authority figures without been told "She probably likes you" or "Your lucky" or some bullshit like that. Fuck off. IF i had a son/daughter and learned someone raped them, man or woman. You better believe i am breaking their skull. Fuck your gender, i don't fucking care. Right now his son is showing signs of a victim, he hates being touched and also is avoiding any form of attraction from his schoolmates. Can someone please tell me i am not alone in this visceral anger right now? because i am tempted to find his social worker and break her fingers.
You should really report this. And commend the son on his bravery to come forward about this. When I was in school, I was sexually assaulted by another boy, and to this day I regret staying silent about it. I felt like no one would take me seriously as I'm a man, and the fact that it wasn't rape, just him touching me from behind and trying (and sometimes succeeding) to put his hands down my trousers, I always felt like nothing would ever happen and coming forward about it would only lead to more issues for me. Looking back this was the stupidest thing I could've thought. It may be worth suggesting therapy as well, being the victim of this kind of thing can head to serious mental issues, especially with relationships down the line, believe me, I know this all too well.
I hate this. When I'm upset, sometimes I just want you to listen. Don't tell me "this is normal for your age, you'll get over it" "You might be doing ___ wrong" sometimes I just want a hug and a "It's ok." That's all I want.
True, this is annoying because instead of making me feel better, the person actually makes me feel stupid or makes me feel like my feelings or reactions are invalid.
Seriously calm the fuck down you rotten lung.
I HEARD THAT!!! I still can’t find any toilet paper!!!
Ever since I (17f ) have been through puberty my mom started touching my chest. I don't think she means it in a predatory way, she likes hugging me and physical affection in general. We would just lay in bed and suddenly grab one of my... yk For a very long time I thought it was normal bcs she's my mom and I thought all moms do this. A part of me still thinks I'm overreacting but it makes me sick to my stomach. This morning she did this again. It was so unexpected. We were laying in my bed and all of the sudden she touched me like this again. I told her to stop bcs it made me feel uncomfortable (I must admit I shouted a bit) and she seemed so offended by my reaction. She said I was overreacting bcs she's my mom and she has the right to do this. I'm at a loss rn. I wanna explain to her calmly why this bothers me but she has the tendency to victimize herself and this discussion would do more harm than good. Both of us would end up lashing out at eachother. I can convince my mom that I need to go to therapy again (bcs school starts soon and I can tell her it stresses me a lot) and tell them abt my mom's behavior. But I'm really ashamed to talk abt this. I barely explained to my friend what I'm going through but I'm scared he's gonna judge me for it. I don't have any proofs this happened and I never brought up this subject so it seems out of nowhere
100% not okay. Being your mom doesn't mean she can touch you in anyway. Nor does it mean she has any right to, especially your chest. If any touch makes you uncomfortable is bad no matter who is from. Your mom, a partner, or any other person. Record, and report it. Even if you don't want to report her record it so you have evidence of one day you want/ need to. Be safe.
Now with Instagram, I can't go on any app without seeing porn. I can hardly go on any app in public without seeing ass and coochie on my screen. “It’s your algorithm”. No it isn't. I don't interact with people who post porn but yet I still get it in my feed. Go to any viral Twitter post and there’s 50+ bots or Onlyfans girls spreading it. Tiktok? Trends of guys and girls flashing + subtle fetish content. Facebook? Sex memes or softcore porn. Twitter? Straight up porn all the time in twitter replies. Insta? I guess porn is allowed now. I don't dislike sex. I'm not a prude. I love sex but I don't want to constantly see it online, I want to be able to enjoy content without having to worry about being porn-bombed. I've combed through the people I follow to see if it's them and then unfollowed but I still see porn. It’s tiring. I don't know how everyone has gotten so addicted to porn. Why can't anyone keep content like that on pornsites? Why do I have to constantly be subjected to porn because people can't go one minute without it?! I can't be the only one tired of this? (Edit: I'm an artist that makes money from commissions so I need to stay active on my platforms. Unfortunately, I can't just leave unless I don't want groceries)
I don’t see porn on any platform I’m on. Look at resetting your caches or something. You get it because you look, even if you’re not interacting.