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Title says it all. I’m so fucking pissed off. I have specific instructions that state to knock on my door because my neighbors are unreliable and they will steal. I got side-tracked and forgot about the delivery until I received an email-
“Your package was delivered at 3:48PM”
I’m seeing red. There was no knock. I’ve seen these kids playing outside all day long too. I’m trying to tell myself that maybe the delivery is late and it was just updated too soon, but I’m almost certain it was stolen. I’m crushed. Some people and their children are so completely inconsiderate. I hope they enjoy wearing pink boots with bows on them.
Update: it was refunded! Thank you to Amazon! | Get a ring camera. |
I feel as though I am losing my intelligence. I cannot think of simple words to use in sentences. I lose my train of thought. I cannot concentrate on simple things, like conversations. When someone explains me something I feel as though it takes me so much longer to process and understand what they are saying. Even right now I had to reread what I wrote because I forgot. I have never been diagnosed with any learning disbilities but I feel like I have a few. It is not like I just do not apply myself to School, when I grow up I want to be a Scientist, and I can focus amazingly on Science and Math, but other subjects I just need to rehear them over and over again. Any advice. | See a doctor. This is above reddit’s knowledge.
Could be ADD, could be too much internet use, could be a medical problem. We can’t know though. But it’s seriously worth looking into and I hope that you do. |
Working at McDonald's is hard. It may look easy from the outside in, but its hard. You get emotional, physical, and mental baggage. I fucking hate customers who think that working a mcdonalds job is the easiest thing in the job world. Just today, it was me and one only other crew member in the kitchen. With over 10 orders coming through. Everyone was tripping over each other while one customer complained her food came out late.
To that customer, FUCK YOU! Work in our shoes before you fucking complain about your food not getting out on time when they're SEVEN OTHER CARS BEHIND YOU!
END RANT | i used to work at a party america and my boss would only schedule 2 people on a saturday morning. it’d be us 2 (really only 1 bc the manager was doing all the morning paperwork.) until 12 or sometimes 1. we’d get there at 7am and we’d have to blow up as many balloons orders as we could until we opened/got busy.
saturday mornings. 2 people. until afternoon. the line would get so so so long and of course everyone needs help on the aisle and then there’s people who need to get balloons but then it gets messy because they wait in line but don’t have their balloons, so it kind of messes up the order in the rush.
then i had to hear about how no one is helping them on the floor and the managers are usually assholes who don’t want to help because technically they don’t really have to (they’re just there to do the morning paperwork)
i loved yelling back at people but it really is a stressful job to work in retail/customer service. people who talk shit to us wouldn’t be able to handle it. |
Listen, if I wanted a jar of peanuts I would have bought a jar of peanuts. But I bought mixed nuts, because I wanted variety. That is what you are advertising right? Because I'm about a third of the way through the jar and so far I've seen 4 cashews, 1 pecan, 2 Brazil nuts and a shit load of almonds and peanuts. What is this cheap ass bullshit? I could have bought almonds and peanuts separately and mixed them together and it would have been $3, and I would have almost twice as much. This jar was $5. So you're saying 10 extra nuts are worth 50 percent off the cost??? What, do you think I'm stupid or something? You think I'm an idiot who's just gonna be ok with ppl stealing his money and keep quiet?
I'm sorry but that's bullshit. I'm done. I'm sick of these asshole billionaires who think they can control everyone else's lives. Never buying generic brand mixed-nuts again | I know this is (quite rightly) upsetting to you but this is also funny as fuck |
I've tried hooking up with people on Tinder but have had zero luck. Kinda sucks. Don't want to be in a relationship right now, especially after my last one. Just need some cute guy or girl to cuddle and fuck me. | Yeppppp same. Except I definitely am looking for a relationship lol. It sucks because I’m generally afraid of people IRL but also have a lot of anxiety over dating apps. So. Looks like I’ll be waiting for literally ANYBODY to make the first move on me lol. I’m a girl so I get plenty of unsolicited attention but it’s always creepy older men. |
So me (F24) and a group of friends went out the other night, my friends thought it would be a good idea to go and see this comedy show. Now, it was completely spur of the moment and I didn't know anything about the comedian preforming. I usually love stand-up, and just comedy in general and have never found a problem like this before, but he just caught be off guard.
The show was big on audience participation, and he picked on me from the audience and I had to stand up in front of everyone while he interviewed me about myself and my life, what I do for a living etc and he cracked a few jokes about my answers - all of that was fine and I took it in jest.
But then he said something else, about my appearance. He told me I looked like a fat version of some celebrity id never heard of (can't remember the name). He actually said the word fat. I was stood up in front of a huge crowd, and it was just so humiliating, it really stung. It was made even more awkward because the audience didn't really laugh at this joke in the same way, so it was a slight wkward silence afterward that joke and he swiftly moved on.
This fat joke really insulted me. All the other things he joked about I was fine with, but I felt like going for my physical appearance was a little bit below the belt. I have never been called fat before in my life, and he said it in front of a crowd of people. I've never been so embarrassed. It just completely caught me off guard.
I think why this particularly stung is that I recently lost about 20kg for my health. This time last year I was overweight, but I have worked hard towards a healthy lifestyle and now I try to go to the gym 3 times a week, and try and eat well for my health. I felt proud of what I had achieved and I didn't think I was particularly fat anymore, so it just stung a bit when he said that. Now I feel embarrassed about my body, and it has dented my self image a bit.
I feel stupid for even being insulted. Usually I am the sort of person who thinks all is fair in comedy, but I can't help that I was insulted. I know being fat isn't the worst thing on earth, but I can't help how the word made me feel in that moment.
I didn't kick up a fuss or anything at the show, I just smiled through the pain. But it still really did hurt, and it's made me feel very self conscious. I even feel too embarrassed to explain how I feel or what happened to anyone.
Tldr: comedian picked me for audience participation. His other jokes about me were fine, but he called me fat infront of a stage of people and now I feel embarrassed and insulted. | Just remember that this desperate showman was looking for the lowest brow scrap of shock humor that he could find to impress the crowd. And he definitely died inside when the crowd did not react the way he wanted for that joke.
Personally, I am a bald and chubby but not particularly fat woman. I am overweight by 20 pounds but I workout regularly and have done great improvements on my eating habits. But I know that, if someone wanted to, they could say that I'm Aang the Airbender if he ate twinkies instead of vegan food. Or that I'm a soft One Punch Man. It's because my face and head are the number one thing that are noticable about me, and then they would factor in the rest of my body. I'm guessing that the comedian did the same with you, saw your face as familiar and then decided to factor in that your body would be larger than the celebrity who you reminded him of. Which is so low hanging fruit, because NOBODY is smaller than most celebrities, who are literally paid to diet and exercise and take drugs that keep them comfortable while they stay off eating enough calories for every day.
That comedian was trying his best to get a reaction for clout and it back fired on him. And you are not a victim of his. Rather, you are someone who unfortunately had to witness a dude fail at a joke. And depsite his commentary, you persevere and go through your life as easily as you did before. No matter what size you are, you can live and feel happiness as much as anyone else can. Nobody who had an opinion about your looks can stop you from doing whatever the fuck you want in life, and nobody can stop you from loving yourself. They have no power over you and if anything, this experience can help reinforce that you are nothing like the looks-obsessed fools of the world that think they need to spend time mistreating people based off of image. What a waste of precious moments and energy to be a hater, lmao. |
I was out of the country for a while and I asked my sister who is turing 20 soon to watch my three mice and dog for me.
The dog was fine, but when I checked the mice the water was empty. I had a bad feeling and looked under the hide and could only find two of them. The last one was hidden under the bedding, passed away from dehydration. She was 9 months old.
The other two are in really bad shape too and are drinking the shit out of the water I just gave them.
I'm literally a mess right now, ugly crying and I don't know what to do. Please help | Sorry for your loss,
What "excuse" did your sister has for not taking care of your pets? Its just fucking water and food, literally a 5 minutes thing. |
Ok this is an update from my first post a week and a bit later.
I have spoken to my hookup and my friend group. Hes still been a dick, but not to my best friend.. i cannot get an abortion due to a lack of a ride.
My parents found out after I broke down and told them, and just as i predicted I got kicked out. Im staying with my friends but were actively looking for someone who can get me a ride there.
I regret everything about that night and so does my hookup. My fetus still remains in me but I urgently want it out. My friend wants me TO KEEP IT KNOWING MY HEALTH ISSUES.
Wants me to keep a baby knowing my health issues, in her words; "well you should keep it to try the cravings and then give it up for adoption." she then went around and told strangers at 2 different stores.
Holy fuck I'm so done with this, hate all you want.. Parentless 15 year old girl with a pregnancy that I cant really get rid of.
Please, if you have any advise i will take it. and please unlike the last point cut me some slack I was drunk and had no idea wtf i was doing | I'm not sure how things are now, but when I was 14, a friend had to get an abortion and was able to contact a local Planned Parenthood for help since her parents were against it. They had a fund set to the side for those who couldn't pay for it and would help people get rides. Maybe contact one or go to their website and see if they can help you?
The people in the other thread giving you issues with this are jerks, people make mistakes, unplanned pregnancies happen. Even if Planned Parenthood themselves can't help you, they will be more likely to know who can and can maybe even connect you with a group to help you. |
I just wanted to go to sleep and the moment I lay down my whatever the fuck decided to go "we're all going to die.....everyone you love is going to die.....and you are going to die....let's imagine you getting the message your family member died....that is probably so intense and dark because I already have depression.
EEYYYY BTW I ALSO CURRENTLY HACE A COLD YAAAAAAY, I COUGH THE SHIT OUT IF MY BODY....YAAAAAAAAAAY!!!!,
Like there is normal depression and anxiety already fuckinh me and then this bitch comes along and is like: yea that could be worse.
Oooh update now my feelings pretend nothing happened and just chill
FUCK THESES MOOD SWINGS, FUCK MY DEPRESSION AND FUCK MY PERIOD. I DON'T EVEN WANT A GODDANM BRAD, I FUCKING HATE CHILDREN, THEY FUCKING SUCK SO WHY DO I HAVE TO SUFFER FROM THIS SHIT?!
EVERY DUDE READING THIS: YOU LUCKY ASSHOLE, YOU BETTER FEEL SO GODDAMN,FUCKING GRATEFUL YOU DON'T HAVE TO DEAL WITH THIS SHIT LIKE HOLY FUCK IT SUCKS. FUCK MY LIFE, FUCK BEING A WOMAN. I ENVY YOU BITCHES, FEEL FUCKING LUCKY.
Small update: thank you guys | Man, I hate your period too now |
literally america seems to be the only country with mass shootings that occur on a regular basis.
today we have 18 children dead because america wants access to guns to be easy.
the more accessible they are the more chance there is for it to end up being in the wrong hands, whether through selling or having them stolen.
get your fucking shit together. | People seem to forget that this is a fairly recent phenomenon. Mass shootings like this didn’t used to happen. Period. Let alone with this frequency. It basically started in the late 90s and guns were available aplenty before that. People used to store them on wall racks. High school kids in rural areas would bring their rifles to school for convenience of going hunting right after. No locks. No codes. No (or very few) mass shootings. And I’m not talking about the 1800s, I’m talking like, any period before Columbine.
We have a humanity crisis, first and foremost. Something is terribly wrong that our citizens want to hurt people to begin with…not that they have the means to do so. Taking guns away isn’t going to stop it. They’ll resort to knives, or vehicles, or bombs, or whatever else they can find to hurt and kill. Because the desire is the root of the problem here, not the tool. |
After reading a bunch of Greentexts, I was painfully reminded of the existence of incels and how much I hate them. These guys blame women for not wanting to date their disgusting asses, despite the fact they don't even put a modicum of effort towards self-improvement and have absolutely no game. I say this as an average 18 year old guy, who is a virgin **because I have no game**, not because of any involuntary celibate bullshit. To any incels reading this, work on yourself before you blame society bud. | 18 isn't old to be a virgin by the way, don't worry about it |
My mother had to wait for months to get an important surgery.It is not something life threatening, but she is in pain and has problems going through the day.Everyday she was looking forward to get her problem fixed.
Now today, she got a call from the hospital where the surgery was planned. They had to cancel her appointment and they can't give her another date yet.
The reason? Because the hospital beds are completely occupied, FROM UNVACCINATED ASSHOLES.I am sorry to say that, but i don't give a single fuck if those idiots die from COVID. They are the reason this pandemic is taking longer than it should and they are the reason my mother has to endure her pain.
FUCK YOU AND GET FUCKING VACCINATED YOU IGNORANT ASSHOLES!
EDIT: It is insane that people are downvoting comments from people who are just saying they are sorry for my mum and that they hope she will get better. These extreme Antivaccers are so delusional, they dont give a damn about the life of other people, because of "FrEeDoM". Think before you act. Your freedom ends where you put others in danger. Period.
| This post really called out the anti-vaxxers huh.
It's honestly disappointing how many people won't get the FREE vaccine in order to reduce the spread of a WORLDWIDE PANDEMIC |
So apparently people think its okay to walk up to people with disabilities and joke about it in a very demeaning manner, despite not knowing them in the slightest, then get all defensive and call the offended party 'snowflakes'.
No cunt, being offended by some arrogant prick who thinks they can saunter over and be an offensively cretinous little bitch then hide behind the shitty excuse of 'it was just a joke' doesn't make someone a snowflake. You just don't understand the concept of basic respect.
There's a massive difference between being an overly-sensitive 'snowflake' who gets offended over nothing, and getting offended because some obnoxious jack-off with a vile lack of basic human decency wants to be a toxic little wretch to a friend.
Fuck people these days. Everybody sees in extremes and so many are too caught up in their own belief of being always right to consider theyre talking absolute shite. | Strangers have no damn business making fun of anyone's disabilities. Hell, even people we know shouldn't be doing that shit! |
I think this is also going to affect the Georgia runoffs in favor of the democrats. Who knows. Interesting political week ahead.
Edit: Man last week feels like 3 months ago | Seems like trump throwing republican senators under the bus for not supporting him in his fraud claims. I agree this probably gives the Democrats the 2 Georgia seats and the senate. I hate trump but this is hilarious political theater. |
I hate him. He makes being with him impossible. The way he kisses me disgusts me. The way he smells is disgusting. The way he tries to fight with me when he doesn’t get enough sleep or how he thinks everyone puts him aside. I hate the way he makes me feel. He makes me feel like I’m not enough. I either don’t feel enough or feel too much and am sensitive. I can’t stand him. I hate him so much and I’m so scared to spend my life with someone like him. I want to think it’s just the pregnancy hormones, but what if it’s not? | I’ve never gone through this persoanlly but both my mom and sister (who happens to currently be pregnant) have said they hated their partner in the first trimester, but it passed. |
From a REAL artist who actually spent 20+ years drawing I will take this opinion strapped to me to the grave.
AI art is actually disgusting, all it does is steal art from AI trained on art without permission from the artists, and takes away business from real artists.
Nice to see nowadays companies use AI art instead of paying artists, whose art may or may not of been stolen to creat that very AI
I'm not a violent aggressive person but AI bros and AI art supporters, I actually wish the worse for.
It's not about gatekeeping art it's about keeping our livelihood that already hardly pays enough to make it by and is driven by passion for art, but alas, we can't have anything sacred and nice.
Art, and artists have existed since humans came on this planet, out society is built on art for media all the way to advertisements. Yet now we just kick artists while they're down.
From an artist single handedly seeing their livelihood melt away because of stolen art-based AI algorithms.
Fuck AI art and AI 'artists' | AI """artists""" are basically the equivalent of script kiddies in hacking |
Ever since I was young my dad has beat the shit out of my mom, and I don’t mean just a few bruises I mean full blown nose shattering moves, rib breaking moves And when I got older I fought him back. But at what fucking cost? My dad is literally a piece of shit cop telling us that he saves people’s lives but can’t save his own from himself? One time we got in a fight and it got really bad and I left and went the the police station. Guess what. They didn’t find anything wrong with it. It didn’t matter how many bruises or injuries could be on my mom and they didn’t care. Just last night he was punching on her back and she’s relatively skinny like bones almost skinny cause she has other issues. But he was punching on her back and I can just hear it from my room and I go out there and see him hitting her and i hit him back but the one thing he can do is sit and act like he did nothing. “I never hit your mom” he says over and over I fucking saw it. I see the bruises on her fucking rib cage from a few nights before black and blue I don’t even know how the fuck they didn’t shatter. He hit me a few more times and went to bed but then he suddenly didn’t want to go to bed and I thought I had to go after him again but I heard my mom through the door say “your gonna kill her now?” And I burst in there like a dumbass and told him to leave. But this isn’t the only thing that’s happened to me way more shit way more than I would want to admit. My dad is a piece of shit and I wish he wasn’t a cop because they don’t care about me they told me to stop going to them because of this happening and one told me “this isn’t acceptable in my family” how is it acceptable in mine. Why does my dad still get to be a cop cause my mom has went there with pictures and videos and they didn’t care. And even when I was getting sexually abused by a bus driver the cops and him didn’t do shit. It doesn’t matter anymore because I’ll never know when I’ll ever see the next day and it scares me. | Abusive individuals love positions of power & authority or those that make them seem like upstanding people. Im sorry you’re going through this… |
I’m 23 and everything is moving so fast. All of a sudden everyone I went to school with is getting married, getting good careers, having children, etc. Just a second ago I was 18 and now i’m really a full grown adult, I still feel 16… I don’t have a decent job and men avoid me like the plague! Can anyone relate to me? I’m a grown woman who still feels like a kid. Soon i’m gonna be in my late 20’s and i’m going to have to worry about whether my date has a kid or not. I’m not ready for anything. | I'm 20 and yeah... Specially because I feel like I'm slacking, I am not ambitious, assertive or anything and suddenly everyone else is like actually doing stuff. |
Too many people still use "autism" or "autistic" as an insult or have a lot of incorrect, stereotypical views about autistic people that are harmful, yet it feels like not enough people actually care. I've been called a retard, spastic and other ableist things thrown my way, as have many other autistic people. I'm tired of me and other autistic people being stereotyped as either stupid and weird or all creepy perverts. Autism is a neurological disorder, it's not a damn choice. If I could choose, then I would happily cure myself of autism. I hate ableism. The shit I've had to face and see has made me depressed and suicidal too, but I am getting mental health support now. | This. This this this this this. I’m right there with you. |
I don't have any friends to talk to and therapy is too expensive. I just need to write it down somewhere.
I started watching porn at 12 years old. It all started because I looked for apps on google play that would make sex sounds. In the comment section, someone said that they would rather watch porn on YouPorn. This is the first time I saw the word porn ever. In fact I didn't know it's meaning I just ignored it and searched for YouPorn directly. At this time I never even masturbated. I was introduced to porn prior to masturbation.
6 years later my highschool girlfriend of 2 years breaks up with me. We never had sex for 2 years. I could not get hard with her. Yet she kept up with me. She watched porn with me to help me. She made sure no one was home every time we tried. She comforted me every time I failed. She even agreed to have sex without condom for the first time. Nothing worked.
After the breakup I was lucky to hookup with 2 girls after her (at different times). I was even luckier they both agreed to do it without condom. The night ended with both of us not facing each other in the bed staring at the wall.
Today I can't get hard at all unless I watch porn. And even that, I need at least 5 minutes of stimulation before it gets fully hard. I can't look at a woman without staring at their bodies. I see women as flesh, as body parts. I look at them and think how can this body part can pleasure me.
I am 22 years old.
EDIT: Thank all of you for your advices and such kind words! I feel truly overwhelmed with the love that I needed and honestly didn't expect. Thank you, really.
There are a couple things I want to clarify: - At the time I was writing the post, I was 9 days clean. I will be 14 days clean on Saturday. Writing this post kept me focused on my journey.
\- The women gave me consent for unprotected sex. But I see the wrong of asking women for unprotected sex. It was a couple of years ago and I was frustrated by the relationship I had with my ex-gf. Having sex became my obsession. I am not like this anymore as I was able to loose my virginity protected, with a semi, but protected. | Speaking from experience. The symptoms do go away. It is recoverable. And actually decently quick too. But you have to quit. |
This is just a vent. Majority of the quiet people I know tend to keep to themselves, and most of them don’t seem arrogant whatsoever. Extroverts starting to really annoy me. Not all but a lot. | My closest friend growing up was very quiet and shy.. people were so rude to her and constantly would ask me what her problem was 🤦🏻♀️ she was the sweetest girl you could ever meet but everyone perceived her as being a snob when that was the furthest thing from the truth.
For some reason, most people love to make assumptions |
A little over a year ago my nephew was shot and killed. It was devastating and his mother (my sister) went through an extremely hard time. For the past few months she has taken to wearing his jacket around everywhere. It’s like it never leaves her side.... the issue is, it was something he stole from me before he died. He stole a few items in the months before he was killed and unfortunately some of them were very important to me. He took a kabar knife my mom gave me when I moved out on my own and he took a jacket a close friend of mine gave me when I came out as transgender, it was my first men’s clothing item. I know it’s the same Jacket because it was limited edition and has a modified adidas logo on it that was very rare.
It sounds bad I know, my nephew is gone and I’m worried about a jacket but... just seeing my sister wear it everyday makes me so sad. It had sentimental value and idk something about knowing it was stolen and that that type of thing is exactly what got him killed is just overwhelming. I’m unsure whether or not to bring it up to my sister. I think it could make me feel better but at the same time I don’t want her to give up one of the only items she has “that’s his” and I worry it might cause her to hate me (she has a personality disorder and I am the only immediate family she is civil with because I’m the baby and shes the oldest who helped raise me and tbh I constantly tiptoe around her). Tbh it would be nice if she just used this information to stop her other kids from stealing from me and our parents.
I think about this all the time and it’s very nice getting it off my chest.. | Honestly there are things in life that others will never understand and the jacket has gotten you through a lot. I feel like people are missing the point, you don’t just want the jacket because it’s yours it got you through hard times and serves as comfort. I know it may seem like you’re the asshole but I feel like people aren’t really trying to empathize with u on this. If it bothers you maybe you can ask her to borrow the jacket from time to time just to hold near too. Idk I’ve been through some rough patches and if it were my sentimental item I’d feel torn too because some things just know how to bring comfort. I hope this helped :) |
so my girlfriend and i are on a call together and we were just chilling and talking. she told me that she wanted to watch porn with me to see if i get hard at the sight of other women. i told her no and that would make me uncomfortable if she keeps pushing that idea. now she is mad at me and has been dismissive of everything. i dont know what to do.
tl;dr : girlfriend gets mad at me because i dont want to watch porn with her so that she can see if i get hard at the sight of another woman naked. | This sounds like she's incredibly insecure.
If you are attracted to women, then women that are sexually arousing to you will cause you to get sexually aroused....
It's not like she's the only woman in the world that your biology would find sexually appealing.
It's not like once you get in a relationship your biology just switches and you no longer are attracted to anyone else's appearance at all.
That's not how any of this works.
That would be like if she cooked you a really good steak, then at some other point you had steak at a restaurant, her getting mad that you ate someone else's cooking besides her cooking. |
I’ve been arguing with people on tiktok because the US government is trying to put a ban on menthol cigarettes, and people are in the comments like, “THE GOVERNMENT SHOULDNT BE TELLING YOU WHAT TO PUT IN YOUR BODY” and blah blah blah.
Like, excuse me, when the FDA bans something, it is taken out of circulation. It is not made illegal. It might be made illegal to process or create it, but it just limits the access you are given to it.
And I just can’t believe people are fighting that. I mean, I shouldn’t be surprised after seeing all the anti-vax, or anti-maskers, but still. Cigarettes have literally NO BENEFIT. Even hard drugs, like heroin, or meth, give some kind of benefit to the user. And maybe it’s just me, but I tried cigarettes in my teens and hated them because the nicotine has literally no effect on me. It just literally isn’t worth the risks of cancer and damage it does to your lungs.
Weed is illegal where I live, you think that’s stopped me from smoking weed? People are like, crying, because “this will have the same effects as the prohibition!” And it literally won’t, because they are not banning all cigarettes, just menthol. Which is a good thing, because menthol numbs the effects of the smoke, which honestly enables people to keep using cigarettes because they don’t feel the effects of the smoke.
Like god people are so dramatic. Cigarettes just fucking suck all around, sorry that somebody told you that you can’t have a specific brand anymore.
Edit: I keep having to fucking repeat myself. But NICOTINE ISNT BEING BANNED. MENTHOL IS.
SO IF YOU SMOKE NICOTINE. YOU CAN STILL SMOKE. YOU JUST WONT BE ABLE TO SMOKE MENTHOL CIGARETTES. Jesus. Learn to read. | Ex-smoker and I can tell that there is no difference between hitting a menthol and a regular cigarette when it comes to smoking them. It does not numb anything, the throat hit is the same to me regardless of the brand I smoked. Yes, there is an icy throat hit but it does not numb anything.
The ban is going to affect mostly inner-city smokers. Rural areas tend to smoke regular cigarettes and low-income inner-city areas smoke menthols. This has been the same no matter which city I have been in throughout the country over the past three decades. I have been to all but one state, which would be Hawaii.
Also, they are going after flavored cigars which many people use for their blunts. Again, another high seller in inner-city areas.
This ban is targeted toward minorities and shows the government feels they need to be the nanny state for them. |
Well the title says it all. It's been like this for a few hours, because no doctors are available to officially pronounce her dead, so we also can't call the mortician..
Note to title: not mortifying, horrifying | Note: I don't think I'll ever be able to unsee that |
I’ve been married to my wife for almost 5 years now. She has been unemployed for the majority of that time, and on top of it she is a shopaholic, and constantly goes out to eat at restaurants.
Meanwhile, I had to work an average of 12 to 16 hours a day to pay for it all. This includes weekends. It was rare for me to have a day off unless it was a holiday or something. The house was always a mess. Dishes were never done, laundry was never done, and she constantly nagged me about it. Yes, you read that right. The unemployed wife who has been home all day nagged the overworked husband about dishes and laundry not being done.
Let’s do some math. There are 24 hours in a day. If I work 16 hours, 24 - 16 = 8. Now, out of those 8 free hours I still need to shower, feed and dress myself, plus drive back and forth to work. On average, that leaves about 6 hours left for sleep. When am I supposed to have time to help with the housework? I’ve already gotten pulled aside by management and talked to about falling asleep on the job, it’s ridiculous.
So anyway, fast forward a bit and COVID hits. The stress of everything going on in my life, plus now living through a pandemic has really taken a toll on my mental health. I start having panic episodes. It gets really bad, to the point I can’t work anymore. I had to sell my motorcycle. Max out my credit cards. She still hasn’t gotten a job. We both moved back in with her family (she refuses to live with mine, because apparently they are mean). And now I have to constantly hear about how I’m lazy and I need to go find a job, and it’s all my fault we don’t have a place to live.
I’m done at this point. She doesn’t know it yet but I want to leave. I just feel trapped because right now we live with her family so I’m dependent on them to survive until my health situation improves. | Since you didn't mention that you have kids, I'd assume that you have none. In that case run. Run fast, and far. Lock up all the money leaks first. |
I hope that I can forgive you some day and its taking a lot for me to type that, I know he'd want me to forgive and not be mad, but you fucking took him and I really don't know how I can forgive you. He was 65 and finally about to be done with this bullshit we call work, he'd busted ass to take care of his family, he'd give you the shirt off his back even if it was the last thing he had. He guides me and so many others when worked together, he was wiser then most but much younger then his age, and you fucking killed him in cold blood. I want to forgive because it's what he and so many people taught me to do. But I can't right now, I'd take front row seats to your fucking execution, you killed one of the only people I've ever met who never in a million years would deserve something like that. You widowed his wife and orphaned his kids, people who need him, you took a father and a husband, and a good friend, and a good man.
So fuck you | I’m so sorry for your loss. Your friend sounds like an amazing person, and the world lost a good human being. I hope the best for you and his loved ones. |
If you're doing drugs, PLEASE stop. My cousin was 39 and has left 3 kids behind and a family who loved him.
It's not worth it, just stop and if you're enabling a family member or friend who is on drugs, you're as bad as the dealer. | I'm so sorry. And you're absolutely right, enabling is just as bad as dealing. I've been on both sides, addicted and having to enable (for my own safety). Getting sober is hard as gell but worth the fight. Please stay strong for his kids |
I can only speak of from the Hispanic realm but the common theme is having children is more so a societal checkbox than anything else.
Most of not all of them obviously can’t afford it, and they just let the screen raise their kids while they shuffle between abhorrent music and bottles of beer.
If you cannot have the time to be with your kid more than you’re with phone than you never should’ve had a kid in the first place.
Or gotten an abortion.
Nobody can miss what they didn’t know was there in the first place. | Can we add dogs and pets to this list as well? |
This is a weird situation and I can't believe I'm writing this, but I've encountered people who claim that straight people can't support the community, saying that "they are likely faking it" or "they just want attention" etc.
I don't see the reason for anyone to fake their support for the community, especially if said person has shown their support for years. There's literally a flag called "Straight ally" for those who support the community.
They would also gain nothing if they were only doing it for "attention." I sometimes wonder where such ideas come from, because none of it makes any sense at all.
I however will still support the community, there's literally nothing wrong with it.
Edit: Spelling
Edit 2: Wording | yes that's why it's called being an ally... lmao. nobody said straight people can't support LGBTQ+. however those who say that are just looking to pot stir or are just dumb |
CANT DO THEIR OWN LAUNDRY OR CLEAN UO AFTER THEMSELVES LIKE WHAT THE FUCK WHY DO I HAVE TO DO IT. WHY CANT YOU JUST FUCKING DO IT WHY ARE YOU FORCING ME TO EITHER BE UNCOMFORTABLE OR TAKE ON YOUR CHORES ON TOP OF MINE
JFCGD | Don't date men who are losers |
I mean they allways were.
Don't get me wrong. It is awesome if you wanna save a life and all. But it is dumb at least to say you are pro life but don't support all forms of life, eutanásia, and say that women that get pregnant despite knowing that all forms of Birth control have percentages of failure are inventing excuses for an abortion.
Like bruh
No one can be that dense. If things can fail they will.
Plus we can't overlook rape pregnancies, forced sex inside a relationship, abusive relationships, uninformed teens.... The list goes on and on and on!
Wanna be pro life? Here's what you can do instead of focusing on what gets out of someone uterus :
- offer help in shelters. It is good for men and women shelters.
- offer help with organ activities.
- be more active in the help with pedo wars.
- go to nursing homes.
- go to meetings of women that lost a kid or had to abort for some reason.
- support more people that want to go thru esterilization.
- support groups that change the laws concerning esterilization. (it is still hard for adults to do that operation. My mom had to wait 8 years to get it. And she had approval to do it!!!)
You do anything like this and you already become a better person in everyone's eyes. Leave women alone. | I just can't stand the blatant lying. They care SO MUCH about an unborn child, yet orphanages and foster care are still a thing that many children have to grow up in. How about every pro-lifer adopts at least two kids? |
Removed a post due to it being downvoted...because I said "hentai" with children in it shouldn't be marketed in a children's magazine. The post was not even in an anime related subreddit, it was in a sub about being angry about something. It was literally an Among Us sticker, with loli porn images on it, in a children's magazine in a supermarket.
This shouldn't even be a question. Despite your own opinions about that loli culture, it shouldn't even be an argument that it doesn't belong in a children's magazine. Yet I consistently see this website not only foster, but protect content like this and justify children being more and more surrounded by it. It makes me sick. I've seen some seriously sick people use these images to justify their actual feelings and abuse towards children, I've been shown drawn CSA in retaliation for me speaking out about how wrong it is, and the fact it's more and more prevalent in animation aimed at younger people is actually disturbing. I actually half expect loli-fans to find this post too, but at this point I'm too disturbed to care. | Lolis are literally so disgusting. I don't care if she is a 500 year old vampire, she still has the mind and physique of a 8-year-old.
This website is full of anime fans, which nothing is wrong with that, but it gets wrong when you like loli, or incest, or worse. I have a feeling that half of those people are on a watchlist or will be in a few years |
I see this shit so often, people putting goldfish in one gallon bowls or sticking a betta in a mason jar without a filter or heater and then complaining about how their fish always seem to die on them after three weeks WELL GEE GOLLY I WONDER WHY?
For the love of every goddamn deity research your fucking pets and make sure you’re ready to commit to them! That includes fish, did you know that a comet goldfish can grow up to 30cm and live for over a decade if they aren’t kept in a dirty little bowl with bi annual water changes?
How would you like it if you were kept in a cold, cramped closet your entire life without a toilet, shower or bed with the only things around you being six sharp plastic plants that limit your movement, not to mention the fact you’ll be slowly poisoned by the ammonia being released by your own waste. That’s how your betta feels in it’s tiny little tank with water so dirty that there is no real difference between it and actual piss. Bettas need a heater, filter, hiding spots and a MINIMUM five gallons of water, just because the internet says it can SURVIVE in a $10 one gallon plastic container from the pet shop doesn’t mean it will thrive.
The reason why your kids pet nemo keeps dying is because you decided to get an animal that is higher maintenance than you thought without doing any research beyond “fish need water and food”, if you so desperately want a low maintenance pet to teach your kid responsibility (or better yet, yourself) get a cat the bastards can look after themselves pretty damn well.
For a parting word, research your damn animal before you commit to it, bigger is always better when it comes to habitats and don’t always go for the cheapest option when it comes to aquariums/supplies, try not to impulse buy and look up proper care for the specific fish you want.
TLDR: fish are living breathing animals, please don’t neglect them or purchase them without a single minute of research and a proper setup.
Edit: good seeing everyone agreeing with me here and acknowledging good pet care! Y’all are all wonderful ❤️ | THISSSS
I work at a pet store and the amount of people that try to buy pets and give them the bare minimum is crazy! I refused the sale of a baby tortoise to a family because they kept ignoring the fact that the tortoise will get huge and that they needed an outside space. They lived in an apartment and the daughter who wanted the tortoise flinched and said “ew” when i brought it out for her to see. I refused that sale. |
Everyday I come to work I have to hear my boomer coworker listening to political talk shows (Ben Shapiro, Fucker Carlson and that one Blonde Tommy chick)
Listening to political content in our workplace is discouraged by supervision but he does it anyways.
Hearing these talk show hosts is like filling my body with toxins. Just this morning one host mentions that Trump wasn’t doing anything wrong by getting with Stormy Daniels… Like…????
Lord give me patience because if you give me strength I’m gonna use it!!
Edit: Looks like I’ve offended Trump supporters but, I stand firm on how I feel. I’m not offended, just annoyed. Also I’m sick of hearing about Biden. Hope that pleases the conservatives reading this post and typing up comments with their fingers ablaze. | I don't think I could take working in a place where all day you listen to politics. It's actually probably not healthy for your mental health. |
thank god we just have our mattress on the floor so she only fell about 12 inches. she cried pretty bad for about 5 mins, but from what i could see she isnt injured. shes going to be 11 months old next week so she has been getting very mobile lately, butt scooting, crawling, and pulling up on the furniture.
i would give him the benefit of the doubt that it was a total mistake and accident, except that i literally just yelled at him two weeks ago for leaving her on the couch unattended and he said i was overreacting and called me a bitch.
im just glad she is okay 😓 | If this is his third baby and you have tried, sadly it sounds like you’ll have to watch her like a hawk with him until she’s older. It’s also not good to stay with someone who calls you that, as he’s an example to her of how a partner should treat a woman in a relationship. |
I don’t think there is a single person who is fully mentally healthy.
Obviously some have better mental health, some worse, some probably terrible.
But there isn’t any standard on what is good mental health, so basically no one is perfect. | I agree. Everyone has their issues some are just more severe/debilitating than others. |
I feel so alone and I wish I has some friends to spend time with. That’s all.
I never wanted friends back in high school, I wanted to be alone. I thought that they didn’t really mean anything, once school is over we won’t speak. I had a bad mindset about it. I didn’t think that I could create some good relationships. Fast forward to now and I’ve got no one and now I actually know what it feels like to be lonely. It’s not a good feeling.
I don’t wanna be like aww poor me poor me. It just feels better to get it off my chest
Nvm that’s over.
Just wish I had some genuine friends. | I know how you feel, i always struggled to keep friends, i don't know if i come off as clingy or annoying or that I'm trying to hard, I'm 22 and only have one person in my life from school, it does get lonely, even though others tell me i need friends, i just can't seem to make any. |
I’m so glad this subreddit exist! I just need to get this off my chest. I sometimes volunteer with local youth groups and under programs. I met this girl last year, she’s extremely smart, she taught herself coding and used to make games for people to play. She said she wanted to work for Nintendo so she also was teaching herself Japanese. Unfortunately she comes from a shitty home. Mom is a druggies, she uses her kids to get money from the government. She has 8 kids , the child in question in the second to last child.
Anyway, I asked where she was because I haven’t seen her at the program lately and I was told she left and was pregnant! I talked to other people and apparently the mother of the girl is extremely happy because she can get more money from the government.
It just makes me mad that this bright young girl will never have a normal teenage life. If her mom cared she would’ve gotten an abortion for the girl. Not jump for joy because you will get 18 more years of checks. | I have an aunt the same way not even gonna lie. She abuses the system to get every check possible for them and she now has 6 maybe 7 children. I know I’m a crappy cousin for not remembering but every time I blink she’s pregnant so I stopped counting. Every single one has a “birth defect” if you will. None all too bad just things like one is a dwarf, the other is highly mentally challenged and so on so forth. |
I read recently that Roe v Wade was over turned due in part to the influence of religious groups. Now this could be falsified information and I understand that said misinformation exists but just putting the pieces together, I’m leaning towards this being the case. So if this whole rant is based on misinformation I apologize and would appreciate a heads up because I prefer to be educated on the truth rather than spreading lies.
Let me just start by saying I am not particularly religious. I’m sure there could be some truths to it in terms of afterlife and or reincarnation but we literally can never prove or find out until we die so there’s no way of knowing. If anything about God is real, I’m sure he’d forgive us for being skeptical that he exists.
Now I believe that everyone should act with kindness and gratitude. You shouldn’t lie, cheat, steal, kill. It’s just immoral and flat out wrong which is why we have a justice system in place. While I’ll put not a very good one, it tends to be fair at times and it doesn’t look like it will go away any time soon. We have to live with it or find somewhere else that has a more appealing government.
Back to this whole issue on abortion, I truly believe that everyone should be able to make their own choices, even when that choice is to use a controversial technology to remove an undesired child. It’s obviously not right in every situation. You shouldn’t fuck around unprotected and then abort a child with a because you never wanted to start a family with in the first place. But this leads to another example. What if you are sexually assaulted and become pregnant due to it? Now you have to deal with this random criminal’s child with no way to get rid of it besides dealing with the whole pregnancy, delivering the child, and then giving the kid away. As bad as it sounds, I’d probably rather be dead than have to go to an orphanage or foster home.
I used to be clueless on who really can impact the government but seeing how extreme and unforgiving religious groups can be, I have little to no doubt in my mind that Roe V Wade was overturned by the influence of said religious groups. This was truly a groundbreaking case and now I find out it was all for nothing? Good job America, you sure are making our country a much better place by taking away our rights the moment we acquire more freedom. | I can't imagine that anyone on the high end in government is actually a Christian. Their jobs are to lie cheat and steal. This seems more like an effort to reverse plummeting birth rates due to the awfulness of, well everything.
Fortunately this only means that the states can make the decision for themselves, and you know exactly which states will ban it, and which won't.
It seems like the Church of Satan has a workaround, and is planning to make it available as a religious right, which if done properly should make it constitutionally protected. |
I hate how people nowadays only talk about "sex" as if that is all there is to life. This especially comes from most guys, typically those on the internet. If a woman/anyone say they aren't interested in sex or are asexual, or even a virgin, QUIT PRESSURING AND SHAMING THEM! You don't know what the fuck they've deal with! People have been sexually/brutally abused in their past lives and fucking traumatized! Yet, the only thing you have to offer is "sex/maturbation"?? That's the only advice you give them when they are truly hurting and venting to you?! You think that using "God" and "aDAM ANd EvE" is a valid fucking excuse to dismiss their traumas? Do you not realize that people have PTSD, anxiety, chronic depression, bipolar disorder, OCD, etc. and that those feelings can easily be triggered?? Seriously, QUIT SEXUALIZING PEOPLE AND EVERYTHING before you make them commit suicide or homicide!
(Edit): There are a very few people here who seem to be lacking IQ skills when it comes to interpreting this thread. First and foremost, if this isn't targeting you, then DO NOT COMMENT AND FEEL VIOLATED! The purpose of this thread was to address those who have the audacity to pressure people about sex (non-consented), and talk about sex 24/7 in a very detailed/graphic description around random people as if they have no manners. I'm NOT referring to sex-ED or virgins seeking assistance! And just because it may seem "normal" to you doesn't mean that someone across the room wants to hear how you got raw-dogged from behind at a 73° angle last night! | Agreed. Also I hate how some peoples sense of humor just revolves around sex. People trying to turn nonsexual things sexual is just stupid and immature. Sometimes sexual jokes can be funny but there's a time and a place. Most of the time it just feels like people try too hard to be funny. |
Fuuuck youuuu 2020 to fucking almighty hellllllllll!!!!! I swear you better not fucking even THINK about touching Betty White!!!!!!
Arrfgghgghrrrrgggghhrrrrrr!!!! | Idek who Ruth Ginsberg is, maybe cus I'm British. But you sound very upset by this and that argument in the comments was proof of that. So I hope that something like this never happens to you again and that you have a good week at the very least. |
EVERYBODY IN MY HOUSE ONLY KNOCKS AFTER THEY OPEN THE DOOR
SO I JUST ANGRILY STARE AT THEM AS THEY OPEN IT WITHOUT ASKING TO COME IN
MY BROTHER JUST CAME IN AND HAD THE AUDACITY TO GET MAD BECAUSE I DIDNT SAY ANYTHING BECAUSE I WAS WAITING FOR HIM TO JUST OPEN MY DOOR LIKE EVERYONE ELSE UGHHHH | Walk around your room naked they won’t do it again |
I was just reminded of the time that an ex friend (the good Christian girl of the group) wanted “to be nosey teehee” and went through my phone gallery. I’m in a long distance relationship and have been for years, I take a lot of nudes for my fiancé because I love him and sharing my body with him, and *this bitch* waits till I’m in the shitter at a mutual friend’s place, and acts all. Cute opening up my gallery (you remember in the John mulaney skit about the real estate agent, whenever she hints the fact they may have babies and mulaney plays her all wiggly acting, that’s what she was doing), and what does she find but tits and ass.
My tits and ass.
I come back and she’s all red faced and like “I didn’t know you were that type of girl.”
Fuck you samantha I didn’t know you were a privacy invading piece of shit. Trying to slut shame me for pictures THAT WERENT MET FOR YOUR STINK ASS, is like walking into a toilet and shouting at someone to put their clothes back on. You came into the bathroom I was in, Tiffany, don’t get offended if it smells like shit.
(The mutual friend used to also always try to get in my phone and steal nudes off it, like send them to herself and show them to other people. That whole friend group was a shit show.)
Edit: related thing, it is a shitty as fuck feeling when your whole friend group has seen you naked and none of it because you wanted them to. I don’t wanna hear anyone like “shoulda known better” or w/e because I was 18 at the time and too trusting and doormat like. They’re EXfriends. | Yikes. What a sad human. Women that try to tear down other women are fucking disgusting. I am sorry that happened to you. |
i was making ramen and my mom got mad at me because ramen isn’t healthy. then she told me, “go kill yourself”. this isn’t the first time one of my parents have said something like this but i’ve had a really tough day at school, was hungry, and tired so it hurt a lot. because of this i have relapsed on SH and ended up not even eating my ramen because i was so sad. | It's not "this" or "that". Eating some noodles isn't going to kill you.
She's just angry you aren't letting her run your life. What a chode. |
Ted Bundy raped and murdered at least a 12 year old girl (Lynette Dawn Culver). And it's believed that he sexually assaulted other minors too, like Kimberly Leach (who was 12 years old too).
It makes me fucking angry that we live in a society where Ted Bundy (A CHILD MOLESTER) is worshipped and romanticized by many while there are quite a lot of people who have attraction to children and never act on it, but they are treated like monsters by society and wished to be treated even worse than Ted Bundy.
WTF is this logic?:
* Child molester and rapist and serial murderer (Ted Bundy) --> "Wow! He is so interesting. So charming. So attractive. Serial killers are so cool. Let's wear a t-shirt about him!"
* Non-offending pedophile --> "Disgusting piece of human trash. Hope he gets tortured and murdered. Burn in hell, scum"
Moreover, it's MIND BOGGLING to me the fact that it's not even mentioned that he is a fucking CHILD MOLESTER. And also a RAPIST.
By the way, pedophiles should seek help. But that's off topic right now. | People love good-looking charismatic people and that blinds their logic. |
Fuck ALS, Fuck Cancer, Fuck Heart Disease, Fuck Emphysema, Fuck Depression, Fuck CADASIL.
I just want my friends and family back. This hurts. I just needed to get it out somewhere I guess. | I feel you. My grandfather died of ALS. My boyfriends mom died of cancer. It’s too much. |
(Edit: COVID-19 not CONVID-19, sorry, I was a bit sleepy and upset when I wrote this)
My mom is currently undergoing chemotherapy. People have been stockpiling so many masks the nurses at her ward literally don't have any to wear when they're working with patients. These people are at an extremely high risk of dying from COVID-19, and selfishness has put them at risk for a painful death sentence.
Their only hope is people actually taking proper precautions, yet people don't, because "the media is blowing it out of proportion". Yes, I'm sure countries are shutting down borders and tanking their economies for fun, I'm sure WHO called it a pandemic because local tabloids told them to.
I can't believe the selfishness that people have right now. I absolutely understand being stressed due to a job loss or the like, but holy hell, I'm so sorry your concert got cancelled because we wanted to prevent a global pandemic that's killing people left and right.
You either care or you're selfish beyond belief. Period. | I'm with you, u/sapjastuff. My fiance is currently in self-quarantine because he's displaying symptoms. This is serious stuff, and every time someone posts about how it's not that bad, I comment saying maybe it's not that bad for YOU, but for anyone more vulnerable than you, it's a Big Freaking Deal. |
I couldn’t care less about your background or ethnicity that might’ve taught you different manners; if you chew with your mouth open and make all these macking noises, I hate you.
Go fuck yourselves you filthy pigs
edit: for the people who are unaware, im referring to people who don’t have a medical condition and are able to chew while breathing normal | My girlfriend can't breath through her nose very well so she often chews with her mouth open at least a little. It doesn't bother me much. |
its not a substitute for a lack of a support system | Called the hotline once. Was in a bad way mentally but clear enough to call. I needed somebody to talk to. Instead they made me feel like an idiot and sent the cops and medics to my home. They then kicked in my front door without knocking, dragged me out to the medics and put me in the ambulance. The entire ride the medics just sat there looking at me as though I was wasting their time (which I guess I was seeing how I just wanted to talk to somebody). In the end I still felt like shit, had an SI label on myedical record (which raised my insurance rates) and a $3500 hospital bill. Fuck the suicide hotline. |
Thats all | Very sorry for your loss. I hope you have a support system in place. Prayers for you and your family. 🙏 |
They don't even hide it anymore. They're so open about grooming, child sex abuse, and the fetishization of teenagers in their movies and TV shows. They blatantly cast adults to play minors under the excuse of "child labor laws" which is laughable because it takes not even a second to realize that child labor laws are not that much a hill to climb when you take into account how minors are cast in movies and films ALL THE TIME while causing no issue to the overall production time of said piece of media. It’s all to cover up the fact they just want to sexualize the idea of teenagers in high school without facing legal repercussions for producing literal CP.
Shows like Euphoria, Riverdale, the reboot of Winx Club or Gossip Girl are not ‘groundbreaking' nor are they good. It's another way for the way too old to be writing/directing scenes of minors having sex men who control the TV and cinema industry to groom another generation of children and express their Lolita fetishes like they have been doing since Brooke Shields became a household name (and probably even before that).
I'm sick of it. I'm sick of watching the sexualization of teenage girls get normalized OVER and OVER again. I'm sick of adult women playing into the pedophilic fantasies of so many men be willingly participating in these roles. Something needs to change. I want to be that change.
I want the next generation of teenagers/children to recognize their bodily autonomy and know that their constant sexualization at the hands of adults in Hollywood and real life not okay. I'm going to be there for them, not sure how yet (not sure if I want to be a writer or a director) and push for the stigmatization of minor fetishization in cinema💗 | I agree. It was due to how high school kids are portrayed that I was thrown off when seeing how mature and friendly people actually are in high school. We know teenagers have sex but we don’t NEED to see it in media. Especially with older people who are clearly adults. |
Thats it. I have nothing to say besides that she was only person i have ever loved. Life is s***. | I am so terribly sorry I can't even begin to imagine how you must be feeling right now. No one should have to lose their mom this young. Fuck cancer |
For background, I have a boyfriend whose a little bit taller than me. When we’re out together, sometimes he’ll put his arm around my shoulder or around my waist, mainly holding my hand. When we sit down together sometimes I’ll rest my head on his shoulder and he’ll put his hand on my thigh. I don’t have an issue with it but often times I flinch when he suddenly moves his hand away from my thigh because his hand will sometimes run past my chest area, which causes me to jolt. He told me he’ll never touch me where I don’t want him to, though I still flinch anyway. I have been groped in my chest area in the past by an ex friend, but I don’t know if it’s sexual assault given I froze up and let him grope me, but when my boyfriend touches me I can’t help but flinch. I do like his touch but I don’t know how I can stop flinching around him. | Just guessing, but it sounds like you have a negative association with being touched there. Not an expert or anything, but being touch there while happy or laughing etc might over ride that. |
Today at school while simply just getting some snacks at a vending machine, a group of freshman boys (around 5-7) stood behind me waiting and one randomly called me a slut. They proceeded to make comments about me, one saying “don’t mean to be that guy but you’re really f*cking slow” right as I begin even putting my money in. They made comments about everything I did and one bent down right by my rear and pretended to “read vending machine labels” as the others laughed. When I walked away one said “thank you” in an annoyed tone as they all laughed. I’m not the kind of person to sit by and do nothing; I’m very expressive of my thoughts towards people like this, but even if they were small freshmans, I don’t know what could happen if I confront that many males. I get that boys can be like this, it just really caught me by surprise because the boys at my school, especially freshman, are more low key and just immature, but they don’t just randomly call people sluts and mock them…
Im just disgusted. I’m a 16 year old female that was just sexually mocked by 14 year olds for absolutely no reason.
Edit: wow, I was not expecting this many people to see this! I thought maybe about 20 people might see it. I’ve been in school so sorry for not being able to respond to everyone right now, but I really appreciate all of the input and support! It means a lot so thank you all. | Report those boys! That’s not appropriate at all. |
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Just wow. I don't even know how to react to this. He killed my boyfriend 4 years ago in a car accident and now he has the audacity to invite me to like his page??? | What the actual fuck that sounds disgusting. I’m not a avid Facebook user, does this mean that he went on your page on purpose to do it? |
I want a child so bad, i’ve always dreamt of being a father. My girlfriend was talking about having children, and i just felt an incredible amount of dread about it, i love kids so much, i want a little boy (or a little girl idrc) Im the youngest child and i’ve always dreamt of a little baby sibling growing up. but i know im gonna be violent toward the child if it gets on my nerves.
My parents raised me with physical discipline, sometimes they go a little overboard and i keep telling myself it’s discipline but it hurt so bad, so so bad, and i never want to do this to a child. I don’t want them to have the same kind of hurt i endured, not a drop.
But this growing dread and thought inside of me keeps saying not to have kids because i will fucking beat them i will hurt them and i will regret it so much, i dont want to hurt them so I wont, i wont have kids im too much of a horrible person.
Edit: Yes, im going to therapy, i’ve been going for a while now. I’ve never laid hands on anyone, not even an animal, but i get this compulsive feeling where i DO want to hurt certain people although i have never acted on these thoughts, never.
Edit2: No, if you can read, I won’t be having children. Please stop shitting yourself and begging me not to, i clearly said that i WONT be. | *but i know im gonna be violent toward the child if it gets on my nerves*
I mean if you *know*.
They will test every nerve. Of that you can be certain. |
People at this point are just CREATING THEIR OWN GENDERS. WTF. People are basing genders off of video game characters, music artists, etc. Why is this normalized? People are also doing the same with neopronouns.
Sorry if this offended you, it's just my opinion
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FINAL EDIT: These replies are so controversial. I'm glad you're ranting (and have the right to as the major aspect of this post is exactly that.) However, please keep in mind that people can do what they want if they desire it. As long as they're not hurting anyone and don't force people to respect their decisions then it's perfectly fine.
However, please stop commenting things about how it's autistic people who are doing this (not quoted from a comment, just a summary of what some people have said.)
Yes, I myself am cis but apart of the LGBTQ+. Therefore, take this opinion as a grain of salt. I'm just a random stranger on the internet positing my opinion on the matter. I 100% don't support what people are doing but again have no right to bully people because of that.
**I respect all of you out there but remember it's just my opinion and I don't mean to come off as rude, ily all**
also u/DabKitty420, u/VictorianHarpsich0rd, and u/hdjdhdbdndms r amazing go give them a follow <3 | > Why is this normalized?
It's not. ??? Is this happening in specific online communities of teenagers?
I legitimately have never seen this irl and I run with some grade A subculture weirdos. 😉 |
Pedophilia will NEVER be normalized. Childlike fetishes are still a form of pedophilia. Being attracted to diapers etc, is a form of pedophilia and these people need professional help. They do not need people online, defending them. Stop trying to normalize this bullshit.
The sooner people know they have a problem, they can speak to professionals and be protected from themselves.
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You're not being progressive, you are potentially putting children in danger by normalizing these people.
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Vent over | Diapers are nothing more than underwear people associate with kids but people of all ages wear for various reasons. As far as actual child predators, going around molesting kids and exploiting them, they should be publicly executed. |
My favourite thing about being on my period is getting hemherroids from the rock hard period shits. Fuck this so much holy shit | Or how about the fucking blood clots that pour out when you stand up and you stain your fucking pants because the pad was too small? 😒 fuck periodsx2 |
I have always hidden my birthday on facebook because I don't really use it that much anymore, I just like to keep it to get updated to what's going on with my friends and family back home. I like that nobody greets me on facebook because some of them are people I don't even know but has the sense of obligation that they have to greet me. If friends remember, they can greet me if they don't, then they can move on with their lives and everything is fine. But man, my family though, they're the people whom I think should remember. My brother posted photos of my cousins bday party that happened 2 days ago on the day of my birthday and greeted him. Damn, they were having so much fun, the shots, the drinks, the food, a little dance music and karaoke. My mom and dad doesn't remember it's my birthday unless I send them money on the day of my birthday. lol. Damn, among all the people who should remember I expected my mom and dad to remember it the most.
Anywho, I'm 28 years old today and spending the afternoon taking a nap the same way I did for 20 years if it's not a work day.
EDIT: THANK YOU SO MUCH for all the greetings you guys. My day is not going so well but the greetings made me feel a bit better. | I'm sorry. Happy birthday you awesome individual! Either way, I am sure there is nothing you could do during this shitty time, but I know that when people forget it really doesn't help the way the world makes us feel. I rememebered!!!! Lol Happy Birthday! |
I am underaged, so please don’t message me asking for anything sexual.
It turns out a guy that I thought was my friend has been snapping photos of me for the past few months. We work together in close quarters and we figured that we’d have gotten each other sick if we had it from work so we could hang out.
He took over 20 pictures of me. Mostly of me in workout tops, skirts and when I was showering and changing. He got the workout ones when I would run from work to his house to hang out. The dress ones from when I was around my house, or in his. And the showering and changing ones from after my runs.
He would them take the pictures to a group site called kik, where a group of guys would take turns saying “what they’d do to me” which was mostly sexual stuff including r*pe
I only found out because he allowed me to go on his phone, and I found the group. He then told me that he did it. I told him to leave (this was about a hour ago) and now I just feel so gross and violated and I don’t know what to do.
I tried making a post about this on r/unpopularopininons but they were right, it was a vent so I took that down.
I just don’t know what do to now. I liked him and I feel so gross and bad | If you are underaged you need to tell a trusted adult and file a police report |
In the past nine months alone, I’ve lost all three of my grandparents. My grandma passed away recently and it pisses me off how the first people I’d expect to reach out failed to. Not even a simple ‘condolence’ or ‘take care’ from them. Just a mere like on a social media post of mine. These ‘friends’ of mine then proceeded to tag me in a post and introduced me to some guy. Are yall fucking dumb I’m not okay ???? Do yall think I’m in the mood to go out of my way and make moves for a useless fling?? The only time these fuckers said their condolences was when I had to cancel plans for a night out because it was my other grandma’s funeral. When my grandpa passed away nine months ago, I also got nothing from them. Just wish I had more comforting friends. That’s literally all I fucking ask for. Fuck’s sake
Edit: Took me a while to read all of the responses. Thank you for sharing your stories guys. You are all deeply loved and appreciated ❤️ | I lost a grand parent when I was 10, it was rough. But 3? I'm sorry for your losses. If I was here when your original post happened I would of sent my condolences, but I wasn't, sorry for that. This may be late and seem like a bit of a dick move to do it on a post like this. But I do send my condolences. |
FUCK!!!! I AM SO UPSET!!! IT WAS SO GOOD!!!! I CANT GET ANOTHER TILL I GET PAID!!!! I DIDNT EVEN DRINK MOST OF IT EITHER!!! FUCKING STUPID CUP SLIPPED RIGHT OUT OF MY HANDS!!!!! I COULDNT EVEN SAVE IT EITHER!!!! IT WAS A BROKEN FUCKING COFFEE DISTASTER!!!! KILL ME NOW!!!! | If you bought this from Starbucks, let the barista know and they might be able to make another one for you.
-Ex Starbucks barista |
Im f(16) and I met a guy(23) I wasn’t sure of his age intill recently. I was looking for friends on a app and he texted me, added my snap and we started chatting.
He openly told me he wanted to actually be my bf, or more then friends. He wanted to talk and see where it went..And he is really attractive and his personality seemed good so I said why not? We found out we were really close, and planned a hang out.It started getting weird when I told him I just turned 16 January.
Obviously to explain more about myself. He kept going on about how he loved how short I am.. how much younger I am. How the youngest he’d be with is “15+” and I asked him how old he was again and he said 23. I felt weird, sick. He said 16 is age of consent. And he just wants to spoil me “be my daddy, and I’ll be his princess” nothing sexual. (He asked for things. He said he only did that because he was horny.) I’m emancipated, and 16 is the age of consent.. but it feels so wrong. The age gap seems so bad. Is it?
Update: while I’ve been responding to comments and messages on here he was blowing me up on snap.. like he knew something was up lol. Just telling me how much he liked me. How he only asked for nudes because he has a high libido? Idk what that is. And how he wants to treat me better then anyone I’ve been with. I don’t know why that came out of no where but I just blocked him lol. I’ll update if anything happens, thanks for the advice. Unfortunately I’m not with any adults as I am emancipated.. and the friends(roommates)I live with told me it wasn’t anything bad since there was nothing sexual going on. So if he comes back I may have to go to the cops for the simple fact he lives close. But ty again everyone I was a lonely idiot. | From what I’m reading, you’re being groomed |
AmITheAsshole was my favorite until ten seconds ago, where a kid in an obviously abusive situation got bullied into deleting their post for not knowing how to communicate. God, what is wrong with you people? | I posted a few days ago in that subreddit, there’s some disgusting asshole bullies over there, fuck that page. I felt dumb even wanting to post before I did. |
Be me: get off my register at work to go use the restroom. Walk into the stall because I must defecate. See it has piss in it. Walk to the next one, see it has piss ON it. Walk back to the first one, see it also had piss ON it. Not wanting to walk back, I just suck it up, flush the toilet, and lay a seat liner down to dry up the seat piss. I then look down, and there was piss all over the floor in front of the toilet also, which i had now stepped in with both shoes.
I get it, penises are weird. I won't say I've never had it slip while sitting and using the restroom, but if it does, fucking clean it up. It's not maintenance's job to fucking clean after your mess that fucking kindergarteners make. Or, if you wanna keep acting like kindergarteners, let me buy you some fucking finger paint and edible glue, since that's the age you act like with this fucking shit. It takes one fucking hand to hold your cock straight, and only 10 damn seconds to clean up if you miss. How fucking lazy and self centered are you that you can't do either or fucking both of those? It's fucking ridiculous that in this day and age, men still can't fucking piss where piss goes. | As a guy I will make my case and say that the first guy to do it will mess it up for everyone else.
If the bathroom is clean, and I miss then Im cleaning it up because I was raised better. But no way in any sense am I cleaning up after the previous guys who went in and made their mess. I will say this though, I will try my damn hardest to be the best sniper in the world and make sure not a damn drop hits the floor. |
I feel like everyone hates one another now. Racists are hating us minorities. Citizens hating the government. Citizens hating the police. The police hating citizens. Friends hating friends for not speaking out. Friends hating friends for speaking out. Everything is falling apart. | When we stare down the precipice and we don't know what's down there, it can be pretty scary.
Once we are at the bottom, the only thing left to do is climb back up.
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We will get through this, friend. Everything will be okay. This too will pass. |
I bit ago I (14f) made a post about my girlfriend basically saying that she was pressuring me and we were in a secret relationship. She’s been distancing me from my friends and family and threatening more often. Yesterday she tried to force herself on me and I said no and left. That night she screamed at me on the phone and made me sneak out to see her. That was the first time she ever hit me but I’m scared to see her now. And worst of all, I love her so much. I can’t imagine life without her, even if she makes me feel like hell. I don’t know what to do. | If you continue dating your gf, the abusive dynamic will become the norm for all of your relationships and you'll need a lot of therapy and unlearning a lot of bad habits to have any sort of decent relationship in the future.
Talk to a trusted adult and have them help protect you from her until she finds another person and leaves you alone
It's hard but better now than later, when things will get worse |
I hate that I can carry a parasite. I hate that I'm basically just an incubator to keep the human race going. I don't know why I feel like this, but I'm tired of it. I can't even love myself anymore because when I look in the mirror, I just see an animal staring back at me, something that's only meant to have babies and be a 'good' wife and mom. | If women are just incubators then men are just sperm vending machines. You can devalue anything if you think about it. Just because you’re capable of doing something doesn’t mean that’s all you are |
The fucking audacity. This is so incredibly frustrating. I know I shouldn’t be snooping at his page, but he posts stuff like “oh my ex fucked me up and now I can’t trust anyone who shows me interest” WHILE he’s fucking dating someone. He was always such a narcissist. He had sex with a 14 year old while he was 17 and when I disliked that, I was the crazy, abusive one. He goes around telling people I have BPD (which I don’t, I’ve never been diagnosed with it.) and now people I don’t even know have a vendetta against me. He says I took advantage of him for his money, BUT I WAS THE ONE WHO HAD ALL THE MONEY! HE USED MY MONEY AND BRAGGED TO OTHER GIRLS THAT HE SPENT 200 DOLLARS ON ME DURING A FANCY DATE BUT I WAS THE ONE WHO HAD TO PAY FOR IT BECAUSE HE BLEW ALL OF HIS FUCKING MONEY ON WEED! He would take all of my money from work and buy himself drugs. He also never hangs around people his own fucking age. He lives with a high schooler and he’s 19. The amount of times I was humiliated by him and it was all turned on me is insane. I fucking hate him. | I feel you. When I was in inpatient care from a suicide attempt, my mother lied to the staff that whenever I visited home on the weekends, I refused to bathe. I know she did this because she called my aunt thereafter to brag about it. I ended up having to apologize to my parents for being abused if I wanted out. That's how well they spun the narrative. Narcissists suck. |
I’m so fucked from it. Everyday I just scream and cry how bad I want him back. It feels like a cruel sick joke. If anyone has ever been through anything like this please respond, I’ve been through a lot but nothing like this. | I don’t think anyone really has any words of wisdom for a situation like this. This is just a awful scenario to be in. I’m so sorry op for this happening just know that this isn’t your fault or anything like that. I hope you are able to find peace and get through this. My heart is out there for you op❤️ |
I'm 22 f, I hate it when my family or friends try to bring me down. I wanted a building for my Boba Business but people keep buying the property I wanted to use. I had to change plans and start a food truck. My sister was yelling at me, saying NO ONE LIKES FOOD TRUCKS, THEY LIKE BUILDINGS! People are telling me, my drinks are probably bad. How are they even judging me before trying??? I hate all these negativity comments. There's NO Boba drinks in my area and I've been practicing. Everyone who taste test, told me my sugar consistently is perfect. I hope to prove them all wrong. The only reason why I wanted to start a business, is for the money and I hate working under people who pay workers less and overwork them! Mainly hate being told what to do | Best advice I can give you is keep your plans to yourself. You’re an adult and no one needs to know what you’ve got going on. |
Okay, I just found out I'm a Intersex and... probably, my family knows.
Wait so hold on, It's that ALL the reason why they disliked me? They treats me like a monster just because I can't CONTROL my gender when I'm born. Literally how am I supposed to know and controlled these.
So It's the reason why my parents just loved my brother more than me?? Just because I'm TOO different and I'm a monster for borning that way??
Okay I fucking hate this shit, literally If a war In Vietnam happen I'd be the first one to get kick out of the house.
Why tho? Ah because I'm a goddamn "monster". I know I know I know... | My older sister is in a wheelchair. People are cruel. The solace I've found is in knowing it's "brainstem mechanics" and that the herd is reacting to the member who has a limp..
Careless cruelty is a phenomenon that has dominated my life. I tried pushing it to the side until COVID made me face my demons head on.
You are loved because you are human. You are part of the collective energy we all return to after taking our meat suits for a 100ish year spin.
So sorry you got a slightly abnormal meat suit. It doesn't matter though. I hope you see that when you're ready to. |
I went to pick up my order from a Denny's today, and as i was waiting in line, the waitress took my name and then walked over to her coworker and whsipered "He looks like hes on crack".
For a moment, i was stunned, in denial really. I literally said nothing to her but my name, i was wearing jeans and a harry potter tshirt.
Like, wow. I took my food and left but now i just cant stop thinking about.
This woman is old enough to be my grandmother. i didnt disrespect her or anything and yet shes talking shit about me.
A part of me is like "Dont sweat it, she's probably three times your age but works at Denny's" but i have respect for service workers.
Idk. Just needed to get that out.
I am self conscious about the way i look. Everything from my hair to my weight to the way i dress. To have someone so blatantly and casually insult me like i wasn't even there just wrecked me today.
Idk. | Well, it is a Denny's. They probably can't tell if somebody's on crack or not |
I am so sick of seeing women constantly being dominated. Even Lesbian porn is so male-centric, it’s so hard to find something nice. Like two girls just loving each other and being sweet to each other. It’s always super overacted because it caters to men rather than women. I hate that tumblr banned sexual content, because the porn blogs posted such good stuff, more homemade, sweet stuff idk prolly bc more girls use tumblr and posted stuff that appealed to them, and in turn to me.
Edit: can someone rec me some nice lesbian porn, like some real lovely dovey shit | I once searched 'porn for women' and the stuff I found was legit just two people having some nice sex. Like that's where the bar is for us; just nice normal sex. Evidently porn that isn't for women is atrocious so where does that leave us. |
I want to scream into the void and crawl into a hole and die at the same time. | They're fucking dumbasses. ENTRY level. They should change the wording if they're going to reject ENTRY applicants. |
I smoked straight for 3 and a half years, and quit cold Turkey! Finally! | Congrats dude!!! That’s a hard thing to do. |
6 years down the drain due to how prevalent porn is to everyone. It is so easy to access porn and it is shoved in your face all the time. For fuck sakes kids can easily see porn without wanting to. An ad on a YouTube video? Softcore porn. An ad on redit? Softcore porn. Clicked on a random link? Actual porn.
If you like porn *great* but you can't disagree that porn addiction is any better or not as worse as other addictions. You also can't disagree that the easibly of porn to KIDS is okay.
*Rant out* | Yeah, not healthy. Much love going forwards |
I was chilling after doing house chores playing a mobile game and then suddenly my mom bargs into my bedroom. She told me to stop playing only because I'm a girl and she said "girls can't play video games, only boys can. they're supposed to do house chores and be decent, not gaming!"
This is making me hate being a girl more and more. :/
Edit: thank you all for the nice comments..i might not reply some of them but i appreciate them so much :) | Honestly fuck people that have this mindset.
They really should take it and shove it up their ass. Sorry you're dealing with this. |
IF MY ASS AND HIPS GETS ANY BIGGER I WILL SCREAM. I AM NOT EATING MORE OR DOING ANYTHING DIFFERENT. I TRIED PUTTING ON CLOTHES FROM LAST SUMMER AND NOTHING FITS OR LOOKS NORMAL WTH.
Thank you for coming to my TED talk.
Edit: I’m happy to find out this is normal haha, thanks for the responses. No I am not venting about my figure. Just didn’t know this was a thing. | It's called second puberty, happens to adults sometimes. |
I'm currently 16 and lately i've been feeling sick. So i had a lot of time to think about past events and whatnot. So i started to think about my best friend and dug our past conversation... Creepy messages all around, he always tried to find a reason to sexualise me or try to get me to be horny so i could say lewd things. I'm 16. He's 22. Plus he outright told me he enjoyed watching c*b p*rn. I told him i didn't want to be friends with him anymore and he kept telling me how useless he was or whatnot. I can't even belived i've been friends for two years with a pedophile trying to do who knows to me. I'm just sad and angry and needed to get it out of my system | You might want to tell an adult..or give the police his information. Screenshots of the convo should help, especially if he's admitted to watching CP. This guy could do it to someone else. |
Yeah of course they’re gonna reserve more bandwidth for ads than the actual content that made YouTube popular | Honestly! You loaded the ad just fine, YouTube, now why is it I’m stuck watching your loading icon for the video I actually clicked on? I guess I’ll refresh the page—oh great. I get to watch the ad again.
And on the flip side, sometimes you get stuck waiting for an ad to load within the first 5 seconds so you can’t even skip it. I don’t even want to see this. By the time it’s loaded I’ve done my time. Take me to my video please.
And don’t even get me started on the ads partway through longer videos. Precision timed to occur mid-sentence for maximum annoyance.
Whew. Sorry to hijack your Vent, OP. Back to you. |
Fuck you
Fuck you for giving up on me
Fuck you for not realising that I am more than fucking good enough
Fuck you for choosing literally anything else but fucking communicating
Fuck you for running away
Just because times got tough, because MY times were getting fucking tough
I wanted to get through fucking everything together
I wanted to work through our fucking problems
Fuck you for every time you laid on the couch in silence, overwhelmed, anxious, where I would do my fucking best to fucking support you
Fuck you for taking in that support
Fuck you for talking through your shit with me as I fucking listened to every last word you ached out and truly felt in my fucking heart
Fuck you for the support I gave
Fuck you for my empathy
I wanted to be a team and fucking communicate
Fuck you for lapping all of that up and then bailing when I!!!! needed that fucking support
Fuck you for pretending you couldnt see my struggle
Fuck you for not saying a single supportive word when I was suffering the most
Fuck you for telling me off for being quiet and depressed
Fuck you
Fuck you for being a selfish prick and running the fuck away
And most importantly fuck you, because I don't want you, I can't ever want who or what you fucking are any more, but fuck you for bailing in that time of need, fuck you for bailing on that 50/50 partnership
Making my struggles just that much fucking worse
Fuck you for running away when I was literally about to spill my guts about how unwell I am mentally and how much I needed it to be my turn for support
Fuck you
Fuck you for leaving me in a silent, empty house screaming so hard that I lost my fucking voice
Fuck you for the abandonment issues
Fuck you for making me unable to enjoy being touched
Fuck you for making me unable to believe a single fucking promise or plan for the future
Fuck you for ruining my dreams of being someone's perfect fucking wife one day
Fuck you for ruining me as a person
Fuck. You. | Now this is a vent |
He’s had a tough time between doctors appointments, surgeries, a horrifying ER visit, losing his hair, and dealing with chemo. Today was his final day of chemo. We’ve been watching as other people finish their treatment and the nurses and other patients getting excited for them and encouraging them to ring a bell in the infusion room to celebrate.
Not a single person acknowledged it was his last day, and the people we did tell didn’t seem to care.
He said he wasn’t bothered by it but I could tell he was holding back how hurt he was.
We also got the news that he’s not going to be able to go on a trip that we had planned for his birthday with a bunch of our friends because his immune system won’t be well enough in time to go.
I feel bad about venting about this to friends since it’s such a heavy topic but I just wish that his last day would have been a lot more momentous for him as he wanted it to be. | It must be very hard for your husband and you. I hope he recovers well and you all can go on the trip soon :). Usually as a society we only talk about the physical discomfort regarding any illness, but very few acknowledge about the emotional turmoil that comes with any illness. In fact, mental and social pain caused by the disease may be even more unbearable than physical pain.
I hope God blesses him, you and everyone with good health and prosperity for future. |
My boyfriend is abstinent which is fine and I’m not going to force him to do anything but sometimes I just wanna fuck. | Rip your inbox |
Boycotting isn't new, public outrage over controversial instances isn't new, public criticisms isn't new either, and now cancel culture has become the new boogeyman buzzword for everything now.
I.e., whenever someone criticizes an old racist film, people comment with "so we are cancelling [blank] now? It was normal during that time." No you ignorant fool, we are just having a discussion about how flawed and bad the film is.
Can't criticize anything now that people are always concerned about "cancel culture" over the actual criticism or backlash. It's literally so annoying sometimes.
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- To clarify, I never said cancel culture didn't exist, just that it has always been around in different forms in history and now that cancel culture is more significant in taking people accountable, with it sometimes going too far with performative activists attacking the wrong people, it is now used as a buzzword for every small insignificant change to fear monger people. Or it is used in a way that not all details of a story is revealed and so it leads people to believe that people are being cancelled over trivial things rather than actual bigoted issues that often get swept under the rug.
I.e. When Gina Carano was fired from the Mandalorian, conservatives thought leftists, liberals and other people were cancelling her for being conservative even though the main focus was that she was making disgusting comments about the Holocaust and making it sound more downplayed than it actually was.
She wasn't cancelled for believing in smaller gov, less taxes, states rights etc. If she was, THEN it would've been for her being conservative. | One word. Twitter |
Hey all I turn one year older today. Seems pretty underwhelming like a lot of my birthdays, but I hope my friends wish me a good one. Sometimes it feels like my relationship with my closest friends is beginning to fall apart though.
I’m just a little sad because I’m a last year college student and I plan on graduating this year. I never really made new friends and branched out to meet new people throughout the years. Instead I just hung around old friends. Now I really feel like I missed out on making new friendships and meeting people that cared about me. Basically never getting the college experience that I wanted.
I used to not really care when people wished me happy birthday. I guess it’s because I knew people would wish it for me when I felt most accepted by my close friends. But now those relationships are starting to dwindle and I’m unsure if I’ll get any wishes at all.
Just needed to get this out there. | Happy birthday from Western Australia 🎂 |
We were at a graduation party for a trans person, too. I live in the south, so everyone just chuckled and didn't care.
"I can maybe accept the gay thing, but not all that crazy gender stuff. If they say at 16 they're trans, I'm kicking them out of the house!" I told him he shouldn't be having kids if he won't love them if they have different beliefs than him. He just looked at me like I was crazy. | i cannot imagine having CONDITIONAL love. why are people so vehemently opposed to anything different from them? what an awful person he is. i hope the wife leaves his ass |
I was walking my dog before bed, it was about 12:45am. I heard someone shouting a road over, couldn't make out what they said but I suddenly heard them screaming in agony. I heard someone else shouting out "why would you do that?" The screams kept going for about 10 seconds.
The area I live is notorious for stabbings so I thought I would go and help, I'm first aid trained, I can deal with that. I went round the corner onto the road and saw a group of people standing around in shock and what looked like a small bonfire on the ground with someone kneeling next to it. Then the smell hit me and I knew immediately it was the man I'd heard screaming. The people there told me he had been shouting "you all think I'm a nonce (paedophile) but I'm not" and then set himself on fire.
This was 2 hours ago now and I can't think of anything else. I'm just sitting in the dark back at home and I can still smell it, I can still feel the smoke in my throat. I know people who get desperate that they're driven to something like that can't think straight but why would you do it so horrifically and traumatise a bunch of strangers? There were a man and woman there who witnessed the whole thing and they were inconsolable | Wow. I'm so sorry you witnessed something like that. |
You can't have a normal conversation with men online without them turning it s\*xual and hitting on you. I'm sick of these horny mf's trying to send me their hard b\*ner and ask for pics in return. Even though the connection itself didn't start s\*xual AT all. I met this guy on a mentalhealth group | I showed you my shriveled gerkin, please respond! Lol, I'll never understand the logic of dick pics. |
His youngest victim was 14 years old. Would people be making memes and “funny” TikTok’s about children who had been murdered in a school shooting? Why is it any different? This man was sick and sadistic murderer who killed his victims in horrific ways. Their families are no doubt still grieving and traumatised. Imagine seeing these memes and such making light of it if it was your family members who were victims?
I’m not really offended by much, but this has really rubbed me the wrong way and made me feel pretty sick. I tried to call it out on another sub and was just met with aggression and imo no empathy.
[example of one meme I saw on a sub](https://www.reddit.com/r/loveafterlockup/comments/xy7lun/me_forcing_any_new_significant_other_into/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) | I think society needs to stop glorifying serial killers. I've also noticed some people jumping to Dahmer's defence after the show highlighted his childhood trauma. As someone who's had a troubled childhood myself, no amount of trauma is an excuse for cold blooded murder, especially of innocent people. Hell, even Dahmer himself took full responsibility for his actions. He knew there was no one but himself to blame for what happened. Not to mention he specifically said he has to die for what he did. Jeffrey Dahmer was a monster, end of story. |
Honestly I’m so fucking tired of hearing “big brand also in this with you” even though the only thing that AT&T and all those other corporations are concerned about is losing money. They don’t care about any of us, they wouldn’t care if 200,000 more people died. The only reason they would is because they’d have less people to make money off of. I’m so fucking tired of corporations being treated like people. They’re complete scumfuck shitheads, and I hate that it’s being normalized. The other thing that bothers me is people talking about 2020 being a bad year, like shit the fuck up you bitch, everyone has lived through it, and everyone one knows so keep your fucking mouth shut. | 100% agree using a pandemic as a means of ingenuine advertising is fucking scummy |
My GF (28f) is livid with me (31m) because I didn’t want to have sex with her. Her three kids and my single child were playing in the living room of her small apartment when she tried to initiate. I wasn’t into it. My son had approached me just a few days before telling me he could hear us fucking in the other room and it made him ‘cringe’. I remember hearing my parents constantly as a child and know how cringe it can be, so it really struck a chord in me when he told be. She barely talks to me now, won’t touch me, and I’m completely detached because of it. Tried to have an adult conversation with her but it just made her mad and she shut the convo down fast. Tonight was date night and she barely talked to me, went to bed without me, and made a point to tell me that I’m childish and don’t care about her because I said no to sex. I know her language is physical touch, but Jesus Christ I’m upset at this.
Edit; I ended things with her. Blocked her on everything. She keeps making new numbers with some app and I just keep blocking them. She threatened to kill herself, she pulled the ‘I’m pregnant so you can’t leave’ card, threatened to have me beat up, I just keep blocking her. Been kinda numb to everything, so I’m sure it will settle in soon. | I had to re-read the title so many times. |
I'm going on vacation soon and my husband and I have been fighting a lot and there's been a lot of tension so I decided to take a bunch of nudes for him.
I asked him if he liked my body and he responded "it's okay". I've been super suicidal today for other reasons and this is just the icing on the cake. I was actually having fun and felt really confident taking the pics and I thought I looked good, but I guess not. I just don't know what the fuck is wrong with me, I can never do anything right. Not even my own husband finds me attractive and I'm not even old yet.
Edit: to answer some of the comments:
-I'm 19 and he is 21.
-No, I'm not obese just a little overweight but I workout and eat healthy I just have issues with my hormones.
-No, I will not send you my nudes.
-No, I am not having kids with him. I only brought up my fertility and health problems because that it takes a big toll on my mentally and physically. There is no reason to be bullying me. | From your post history, I don’t think this man is good for you at all. He literally told you to kill yourself and you deserve more than that, you deserve someone who gives a shit if you’re breathing or not. Would you want to raise children with this man? You’re young, cut your losses and leave because he’s abusing you and it’s better to get out now than later. He isn’t even giving you basic human decency. I’m so sorry this is happening to you. There’s more to life and I sincerely hope you think long and hard if this is the life you want. |
I'm 15 and I've lied to my parents about my grades. I'm gay and they are homophobic. I made a post one day on Reddit searching for friends, but instead got pedos. They complimented my face and I liked it and I continued to search for more validation and compliments..I sent nudes too. I just couldn't stop I continued doing it, the only thing people looked at me was for my body...
I just want to feel loved.
I'm so fucking dumb and even though I know what I did was wrong I just couldn't stop.
Thanks for reading till the end, I appreciate you even took the time to read a part of my shitty life. | Ur not disgusting everybody made mistakes and the real person who is disgusting is the pedos that abuse of u wanted be validate |
Imagine trying to fucking help someone just for them to backstab you just because they’re human trash and proceed to talk behind your back when you’re gone. I’m so fucking angry I wish I could slap them for being such garbage. | Perhaps you should stay away from these false friends. Loneliness is bad, but it is not worse than people who stress us and suck your mental health |
Hey fuck you guy/gal that broke into my shed and stole my fucking snow shovel! I have $500 worth of tools and a lawn mower in there, yet you decided to steal my fucking snow shovel when we just got hit with 9 inches of fucking snow and now I spent 5 fucking hours outside in this snow shoveling my drive with a garden shovel because some stupid dick decided it would be cool to break into my shed and steal my fucking snow shovel! There's a special place in hell for you fuckers! | Sorry dude I really needed it |
The “wElComE tOo THiS sUb rEddIt” shit that was personally sent to me makes me feel like someone cared enough to message me. BUUUTTTTTTTT NOOOOOO it has to be a stupid bot. | Oh i'm not alone, that's awesome. I'm always like "a message? For me??" And then boom it's WELCOME TO THIS SUBREDDIT shut up please bot thank you |