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I love you and it will get better I promise you

Every child deserves a parent but not every parent deserves a child

*To be clear, I’m NOT venting out on the unemployed working class. Apologies for sounding so harsh. They need it and deserve it. Just venting about how this entire situation is being handled. It’s just a WTF, slap in the face to essential employees, where is our weekly stimulus checks?

I hear you! I’m also an essential worker (childcare worker), and although I love my job and feel privileged to still have one, I’m slightly bitter that people are getting $500 more than me a fortnight for doing nothing. I don’t wish for them to get less, but I do think that we (essentials) deserve more- much much much more. And for those saying that it doesn’t effect us- it will. Taxes are going to be crazy after this, and those risking our lives to keep the economy afloat are going to be paying for other people unemployment benefits.

I'm sorry... I didn't know you could edit this... I wanted to give context cause many asked... but also please just don't ask for too much details. [Context](https://www.reddit.com/r/Vent/comments/wutetp/is_it_normal_for_your_parents_to_tell_you_if_i/ilciofx?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3)

Abso-fucking-lutely NOT.

most men dont even clean themselves properly, yet they have the audacity to think that a womans literal organ, has to smell like sunshines and rainbows. its an organ. why do we have to change our diet and eat certain things to “smell good” while they dont even take proper care of themselves.

I don't want a woman's genitals to smell like a Summer's Eve. I want them to smell like pussy.

I dislike violent thugs. Not black people I dislike terrorists and ISIS. Not Muslims I dislike lying manipulatiors. Not Women I dislike racists. Not White people I dislike misogynists. Not Men I dislike bad people for who they are. Not what they were born with/as BIG DIFFERENCE

Right there with ya.

I said no because fuck that shit <3

Good for you. Stand your ground

I'm sick of this, I'm not blind and yes I do brush my teeth. Why don't people realize how insensitive it is to just ask someone if you brush your teeth? I do it 3 times everyday for 2 minutes straight. After breakfast, lunch and dinner(before I sleep). I'm so insecure of them and yet my dad has to pont it out to everyone and my sister has to joke about it to my friends. It's so humiliating. My dad asked if I brushed my teeth today in front of everyone at a family gathering, I could see how some were shocked and told him to nor ask that but everyone was looking at me and my little cousins were laughing. The worst part is, he wasn't even being mean about it, he was genuine about it which hurts more. Edit: thank you all for the kind words and tips, they definitely made me feel better about my teeth. And seriously thanks for the ideas, I'll try some and be careful to not damage my teeth.

They sell whitening paste you put on after brushing your teeth if thats something you wanna try. Those people being rude are major dicks tho

before i say anything i would like to clarify, I an NOT attracted to children in any way shape or form, in any capacity; I want to kill all pedophiles. I think my father just fucked me up big time. I'm just a scared fourteen year old boy. &#x200B; My father had 26 counts of child pornography on his cell phone, and blew over 30k on whatever more; I know this is not normal in the slightest, but whenever i see a kid, one of my first thoughts are "is her family molesting her?" and i am scared. I am scared for when i have my own children, how will i change my child's diaper without thinking of fucked up shit? i cannot tell anyone these thoughts either, because they'll think i'm crazy, and perverted. i'm scared i wont be able to escape these thoughts. i might not be able to, in that case i'll fucking blast my brains out, but i don't know what to do, i want children one day, but what if. what if my first thought about my kid upon meeting them is "are they safe from me?" Is this normal? How fucked am I? Edit: I posted this, just trying to vent cause incant tell.anybody I personally know; I've gotten alot of support and I cannot Express how grateful I am. Thankyou.

I think the fact that this event bothering you like this is not only a completely understandable response— but one that shows you are by nature a good person who doesn’t want to follow the poor example that was set. Praying for the best for you, I truly hope/believe things will get better for you with time.

My family just FaceTimed me to sing happy birthday from the car outside while I lit a candle and ate cake by myself in my room. I hate this virus.

Happy Birthday! yeah the virus sure does suck , I hope next year is better for you! Stay Tough.

Which, in turn, means it’s been 7 years total that we’ve been together that he hasn’t ever once seen me naked. He hasn’t walked in to cop a feel while I’m changing, he hasn’t snuck a peek at me in the shower, he doesn’t undress me for sex, nothing. Our marriage is dying, and I’m trying like hell to give it CPR, but I can’t pump enough in it to save it.

Took a peak at your post history and saw that he is 53 and that you have been struggling with leaving for a while. I guess you just need to ask yourself if the way you felt writing this and all of those other posts is the way you want o feel for the next 30 to 40 years. You are too young to waste tue rest of your life being unhappy or, at best, unfulfilled.

I want to bury him. He told me how he likes to catch whatever wild animal he can and kill them by throwing rocks at them and kicking them into the dirt. I was in the car with him and I literally forced him to stop so I could get out. I have never hated someone so much before in my life. I thought he was joking at first because we both have a dark sense of humour so I did some nervous laughter… but he clarified no he wasn’t joking and he actually does it and actually likes it. How do I report him? You can’t just fucking tell me you hurt animals for fun and expect me not to do something about it. Jesus Christ man… I honestly didn’t see this coming from him. I have a dog and he’s always been great with him. Knowing he likes killing things for fun…. He’s never getting anywhere near my property again the worthless waste of oxygen. What do I do about this? Idc if he was still trolling or not, I’m not gonna take the chance. That’s fucking disgusting and he deserves consequences if he’s doing that. Edit; just wanted to add I have no physical proof. I just don’t think he was joking

I'd submit a report to your local police asap. Let them know. This is a huge red flag. And I'd stay the heck away from him.

The title sounds harsh and of course it excludes the good ones, but most Indian parents fucking suck and they can go to hell. Now I don’t know if my anger is directed at my parents or all Indian parents, but: - they think its okay to beat children (my mother used to literally THRASH me if i did something as trivial as call her “ma” or ask her to repeat what she was saying for the second time) - all they care about is grades. you should get good grades or you’re unworthy of basic love and respect. “you’re the biggest failure i have ever seen” says my mom to a 13 year old for getting a 75%. - don’t give a shit about mental health. when i was self-harming my mom found out and used it against me in a fight in front of everybody. - judgemental as FUCK. girl talk to boy? oh no she whore. girl wear shirt that doesn't stretch till her knees? OH MY GOD SHE'S A WITCH SHE SHOULD BE BURNED! - son gets treated better than daughter, OBVIOUSLY. - just very idiotic and stupid in general and i fucking hate them.

Your feelings are valid. ♥️

Now I’m not exactly packing, but all of the clothes I wear seem to make my dick noticeable, standing up, sitting, laying down, anything, my dick always seems to be sticking out like a sore thumb and I’m so tired of having to constantly adjust it so that there isn’t a noticeable bulge. I’ve tried wearing all sorts of different stuff and no matter what it always just pokes it’s head (lol) and becomes the center of attention for me, and for other people, I’ve straight up had people point it out to me and it’s insanely embarrassing, anyways thanks for coming to my TED talk

Bros suffering from success

You get all squeaky CLEAN, you take a SHIT, then your ass just feels DIRTY like the shower did NOTHING! That's it, that's my vent, it pisses me off so much...sometimes I just force myself to wait longer that way I won't ruin my freshness for a little while... Edit: I'm aware there are worse things out there, this was just an expression I used in a quick mini vent

This is why bidets are nice. Always a mini shower for my ass/cooch

So you're homophobic then. You have no issue with people being gay but you'd disown your son if he said he was gay. It isn't a choice, if it were people would stay straight so that they wouldn't get raped, beaten, disowned, incarcerated, murdered, shunned, etc. You're a homophobe. Edit - thankyou for the awards, kind strangers. I've never received awards before! And to add, thankyou to everyone who's been commenting. Hearing different perspectives and more points in the arguement is both eye opening and educational. Hearing experiences and understanding why some people have their beliefs is fascinating to me.

I'm not homophobic, but if MY SON would bring a guy to MY HOUSE and call him his boyfriend, I'd make VERY CLEAR that he should tell me these things BEFORE I go get the groceries since there's a new family member to feed.

I have no intention on keeping it and sorry if this offends or upsets people but I am not in any way ready to care for a child. I honestly just feel like an empty host to this thing bc there has not been a day where I haven’t thrown up twice, I can’t keep anything down and my work is affected because of it. It makes me feel horrible to say but pregnancy is in no way a “blessing” to me it’s completely draining me to the point where I’ve almost fainted from the constant throwing up and not being able to eat or drink. I just wish that I should’ve been more careful. I have an amazing boyfriend who’s been there for me hand and foot but my god is this so horrible idk how people find this enjoyable

Sorry that you’re going through this, it’s your life and your body, do whatever you need to do, I hope you have the support you need :)

I'm 24F, I like to watch old cartoons from my childhood, I know that many adults like to watch anime, because there's animes with really mature and and interesting subjects. But is it okay to like cartoons/anime from any subject as an adult? I know disney adults exist, but I've been wondering if there's something wrong with me for liking such things... (Examples: Spongebob, Brandy & Mr. Whiskers, Dave the Barbarian etc.) I have other hobbies, such has reading, gaming, etc. But I've been feeling self conscious about this specific hobbie. Edit: I'd like to thank you all for your time, your advices and the words of reassurance. It means a lot to me and helped me see things a bit differently. I'll try to not care as much about what society thinks I should do as an adult and just be genuine!

I’m 20 and I still love all my childhood cartoons. There’s nothing wrong with you. Also you only have one life and life is short. Do what makes you genuinely happy and f*ck what anyone else thinks.

I am so sick and tired of "onlyfans" taking over reddit. Some woman actually gave a long sob story about her supposed best friend having breast cancer. But anyone who commented on her post was sent a private message to join her "onlyfans" page. When I looked at her profile I noticed she had done this on other cancer subs. What kind of a sick person would prey upon people in cancer subs to get new members? I am absolutely disgusted that there are people out there that would sink so low! It takes quite a bit to offend me, but I'm actually offended right now. This really bothers me that someone would do this.

Report her for spam, I guess.

Yeah so I work at a Taco Bell & my other person who’s opening messages me like “btw I just quit, so I won’t be in today” cool but like, I don’t have a fucking key to get into the restaurant. So yeah we’re supposed to be open like 15 minutes from now but since I can’t get inside it’s gonna be way later than that til sometime with a key on schedule shows up. I fucking hate this place. EDIT: Got a call from a job that I'm hoping to get to escape this hellscape while I was at work! I've got an interview tomorrow at 2:30PM EST. Wish me luck.

People are assholes ..they could of been said that shit or at least brought the fucking key back and then quit .. sorry for the shitty way you started your day I hope it gets better from here 🤞🏼

Well, it appears 2020 has struck one final time. I returned from a nice pre-holiday vacation on Tuesday. I was off for an entire week. I was feeling pretty good- like maybe I was going to get out of 2020 without a major calamity befalling me or my family. Wednesday after work I was finishing up some Christmas shopping for my mother and shipping some Christmas Presents out to my father in Las Vegas. I get a text message from my brother "Cat called me, Mom's on her way to the ER" I rush home to find the house is a mess. Chairs and tables pushed out of the way, Loki(my German Shepherd that was bought to keep my disabled mother company) is all out of sorts. On a side note- thank you EMT's for NOT killing my dog, I'm 100% sure I'd be in jail for Murder of a police officer if a cop had shot him and I lost both my mom and the family pet on the same day- just 9 days before Christmas. I call the hospital- HN: Hospital Nurse M: Me Give them her name and then get placed on hold for a few minutes. HN: "We don't have anyone by that name admitted yet...*goes on to explain their triage and color priority system*" M: "Well, she didn't take her phone, and she doesn't know our numbers by heart" HN: "Well, you can't come up here to visit her due to Covid-19 restrictions. Call us back periodically, after she's been admitted you can come deliver the phone to security and we'll get it to her" M: Ok I call back in an hour Give them her name HN: Let me connect you to the Doctor It was at that moment that it seems like my world came crumbling down. She had began having shortness of breath starting Tuesday evening. She was a nurse; so naturally she was the worst type of patient and refused to see a Doctor unless she was literally about to fall over. So Tuesday night she refused to call an ambulance. Evidently, it wasn't until Wednesday afternoon(while my brother and I were at work) that things got worse and she felt bad enough to call 911. Anyway, it turns out she crashed while in the Ambulance and they never got her back. Apparently she was frantically trying to write something in the ambulance but it was illegible due to tremors she was experiencing. Turns out she experienced a deep-vein thrombosis that traveled to her lungs. I can't help but think if she had just gone to the ER on Tuesday night they might have found it and been able to save her life. See, I've had my mother living with me and have been taking care of my mother after she became disabled in Las Vegas due to a workplace injury several years ago. She had a long-running comp-case and I guess the insurance company wins that by default now. The injury made her unsafe to drive due to occasional blackouts and she couldn't stand or walk for more than a few feet without risking a fall due to some severe balance issues that her workplace injury left her with. Despite the injury, she was still fully coherent, communicative and she was still herself despite her occasional battles with depression from not being able to work and feeling like she was a burden. She wasn't a burden, she was my mom. Now she's gone. I don't know what to do from here. I work in IT as a systems analyst for a healthcare company. My free time had been about taking care of my mom, helping out my brother, and running the household. I'm 37 years old now, I'm single, overweight, and alone. My brother has his daughter to focus on. I'm the younger brother, but I've always been the one with the good head on his shoulders. Now I sit here, debating whether I want to jump back in to Cyberpunk 2077 on my PC. Part of me wants to- it's a fun damn game, but part of me knows my situation's not going to improve by jumping into a video game. But I've always struggled with being social, my friends and family know about mom but they're all busy living their own lives, I don't begrudge them for it. Dad flew in from Las Vegas to help out for a few days. But here I sit...knowing I'm alone, and when Dad leaves...it's just me, my brother, and now his daughter, and Loki. A few thoughts for those who've bothered to stick with this: I wish you all Happy Holidays. Please take the time to hug your loved ones, they can be gone in an instant.

Im so sorry for your loss. I cant imagine how hard it must be to have such an important person in your life go away so suddenly. Maybe some time in Cyberpunk will help distract you for a while. I wish you a merry Christmas, even though I imagine itll be a different one.

My husband left me two months ago for another woman. Two weeks ago he told me she was pregnant (I cant have kids) and that I needed to get out of our home and he took the car I was driving and gave it to her its in his name. Then no word from him for two weeks. Two days ago he came home looking sad and scared and sick. Well his girlfriend gave him a serious staph infection, hepatitis c and a letter from a VD clinic came today telling him to come get tested for HIV the letter shows he was tested 4 weeks ago but they want him to test again. He is bloated, jaundice, darkness under his eyes. He has this herpes looking rash/zits on his lips, boils on his body and looks flush like a drunk. He looks gross once a handsome man he now looks like a diseased alcoholic. Thank goodness he completely ignored me when he met her and our sex life ended three months ago. I have no empathy for him and told him to go to his mother for empathy and help with his illness. I don't feel bad his pregnant girlfriend is sick she gave him hepatitis C and a staph infection. I don't feel bad she is mentally ill and cuts herself in front of him and threatens suicide if he goes back to his wife. She knew he was married. He is all hers. I don't feel bad she drinks a 5th of Yeager a day, shoots drugs and smokes crack while pregnant with his baby. I don't think I am being to harsh to turn my back on him. He is only sorry for cheating because he ruined his health.

mans aint worth it. good riddance.

Last night i nearly lost my little brother all because some shit of a person thought it'd be funny to post a lit firework through his open window. He was sat in the room watching TV when it came in but thankfully managed to run out before it could catch him. His room is fucked and most of his stuff is fire damaged... He lost his bed, his Dnd books and his coursework for college and his rucksack and the police haven't been able to do anything because no one saw anything 🤬

Damn that's messed up. I wish they could catch the person that did it

Since my dad is usually not home I sometimes come out of the bathroom in a towel or with my underwear and bra or sometimes even butt naked. My mom for some reason thinks it’s humorous to take photos of me while I’m naked. I hate it so much. Even though I don’t think it’s that she’s gonna share them with anyone it just makes me so mad even to think about it. I hate that she has them. I hate having any pictures of my self and the fact that she has NAKED pictures OF ME on HER CELL PHONE make me so mad. I literally had several breakdowns about this because she mentioned she had them on her phone. The worst part is I have a really important exam tomorrow and I literally want to disappear. Sometimes she pulls down my pants too look at my belly and make fun of me. I feel like complete shit and I literally hate myself. She doesn’t even let my close my bedroom door. I know she’s not gonna do anything bad but I literally hate it so much. I hate it. (I don’t know if this is triggering or not but I know people have had some issues with people who don’t respect privacy) I’m 18 btw EDIT: Let me address a few things. No I cannot get into her phone to delete it. - her phone has a passcode and her phone is rarely left open - it’s an iPhone I am 18 - she took the pics while I was 18 - I am too embarrassed to tell my dad. It feels humiliating to have to tell him this. She has about 4 of them on her phone. - I don’t remember the dates exactly but I do know it was after January - some of the pics I am not entirely naked and others I quite literally am I decided to stop going out of the bathroom naked after she continued to take out her phone and take photos - my room is very close to the bathroom which was why I would come out naked or in a towel when other family members weren’t at home I do not want to report her. - my sister did when she was in high school and it literally didn’t do a thing. chances are she’ll delete the pic because the cop told her to - it’ll quite literally tear our family in half - my mom gets very angry very quickly I plan to stay for a year (commute to college) and then stay on campus - I can’t drive - I don’t have a dime to my name - my dad will help me get out easier minus the hassle and pain

You gotta get out of there.

It’s just gotten out of control like when I say something like Oh hey could you stop your dog that’s half my size to stop licking me and trying to tackle me to the ground? “Oh don’t worry he doesn’t bite!” I said get your massive dog off me not if he bites “it’s ok” No it isnt Or something like this Hey can I just tell you not to bring your dog this evening “But my pupper doesn’t hurt anybody” Please I have an allergy “Oh it’ll be fine hes cute you just need to get to know him” Please I don’t wanna look like a pufferfish God these ppl are so annoying Edit: btw i live in a small aussie town where everybody i knows atleast a tiny bit of a dog nutter

I'm a dog owner and I agree. I also hate the twats that let their dogs off-leash everywhere and say, "oh no, he's trained and/or oh, no, he's friendly". I could give a F if your dog is an Olympian skier - put it on a g'dam leash. If your off-leash dog attacks an ON leash dog, YOUR off leash dog is 100% to blame. Also, you risk your dog getting injured 10x the norm. Entitled, naive people are the worst.

I know several people with Onlyfans accounts preparing for STEM fields, law... I understand that some make a shit ton of money from it. Many among those some, think that it is a money fountain where dudes will happily always throw their money at them without realising that unless you've built something sustainable from that money, you might end up far worse (financially) than where you began from. Most reputable institutions wouldn't overlook that. If you genuinely want to do it for a living, go ahead, I'm all for it but the whole doing it for the money... might have a very sour ending when reality hits. Onlyfans isn't just sex, I get that but an overwhelming majority of the content there is of sexual nude, lewd nature. I don't think an 18 year old should be exposing himself/herself there without assessing and thinking about it thoroughly. As we speak, a coworker is going through it. Before starting, I told her about the consequences and whether she's willing to go for it. She did, and now she's struggling to find a job in her field (law). Some even gave her the reason as to why they wouldn't go ahead with her, which was that "she wouldn't fit with the company culture". The percentage of users actually making good money there is petite. To have an Onlyfans for £2000 a month is better than being in unemployment but it will chase you. This isn't an attack to OF content creators. Do you. However, it is naive not to realise that fast money goes fast, special if there isn't financial literacy to go with it. Ask professional athletes that lost hundreds of millions. Even business moguls, so, make your money, learn how to make it work for you and live a good life, unless you want people to use you as a horror story example. I understand the concept behind OF and the whole "scarcity" factor that makes it appealing to some men but I wouldn't work the way I work to just give it to someone for showing me their naked body or have sex on cam. That's just me.

I think about this a lot for all of the young girls starting onlyfans accounts. It’s definitely something they need to consider that could happen in the future.

I don’t know why people thought I was serious. Maybe jokes are just that hard to understand through text, but in an r/OldSchoolCool picture, there was a random leg in the photo that didn’t belong to anyone in the picture. I joked that it was the [guy’s leg. ](https://www.reddit.com/r/OldSchoolCool/comments/g391nv/my_grandparents_at_lake_erie_1950s/fnq11ht/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) I’m so tired and stressed that I cried. I’d NEVER cry at something like this and now here I am. Argh. Edit: Thank you everyone for your kind words! You’re all very encouraging and I really appreciate it. Thank you

Aww man, it's okay Commenting on Reddit is kinda like playing Russian roulette Sometimes you can say the most ridiculous shit and people will upvote like crazy then there are times when they're out for your blood just cuz you like blue over \_turquoise\_

They are a poor, deformed, unhealthy breed that _we humans_ are responsible for. Did you ever see a pug's skull? Yeah, what a healthy looking animal, am I right? /s __Everyone who breeds or buys them should be ashamed of themselves__. Ofc you should still rescue them, those poor things that are born anyway still deserve love, just _stop actively supporting the breeding_, ffs.

I feel the same way about munchkin cats.

Everyone is fucking eachother... I've worked for many companies and know it's inevitable for it to happen but my current workplace is HORRENDOUS. One of the big bosses was fucking so many of the women and everyone knows, the girls got fired and he is still in charge... Some girls openly admit to sleeping with their boss in hopes of promotions... and the amount of incompetent girls that have got promotions makes it seem they are successful at this game. I'm lucky I'm in a department that's kind of isolated from all of the fuckery but even I get propositioned often. And HR? Forget about it, they're straight up clowns and know everything but don't care. And this is a massive national company that most people in the USA know about so it blows my mind. Even some top guys of the company love visiting the building I workout specifically because of the reputation of the people here. I hate it and can't wait to get out. Edit: People's guesses Crack me up! But no one has guessed the company. It's not food/restaurant or retail related. If you guess I'll DM you you're right and refer your job application.

Turns out OP works for a porn production company.

So I (26m) was at work all day yesterday (10am to 10pm) while my gf (29) was at home hanging out. I get home and take care of the few things that had to get done (dishes, laundry, etc.)and get ready for the next day. In the meantime I was talking to my gf and things were fine, just talking about each others days. Well I shower get myself cleaned up and lay in bed. I try to make a move and she scoffs, and basically throws a tantrum. The last time we had sex was 3 weeks ago. I do my best to help out around the house and make sure her work load is minimal but apparently sex is now a chore. I’m not a misogynist but no matter what I do for our sex life it does nothing helpful.

Have you tried just talking with her? Simply talking with someone can help untangle a lot of things and come up with resolutions to your situation.

Me and my boyfriend started dating in December. Last year I had pretty bad anorexia. Due to my mum finding out by looking through my phone and noticing i looked ill, I was pretty much forced to recover because of her reaction. As of recently I thought I have recovered until I find my bf hanging out with an anorexic in college and I think he’s flirting with her. He’s always looking at her and when I see him with her he goes quiet and looks embarrassed. He always comments on how I’ll look prettier and have a sexy body once I lose fat. Don’t wanna state my weight as it could be triggering to some but my bmi is only 21 and my body fat is 22%. I have finally gotten healthy and he thinks I need to go back to what I was? Bmi 15? This is so triggering to me. I feel like my eating disorder is growing more on me everyday. Every time he touches my stomach checking how much I’ve lost in the gym. Every time he judges how much I eat even if it’s not a lot. Every time he says I’ll be prettier. Every time I look at old pictures of me. I don’t wanna be healthy anymore. I want to starve myself to have the body I had that looks like hers. I recovered but I still can’t escape this hell.

He is not a good boyfriend if he is checking your stomach for fat !! You can and should do better. That is absolutely abusive.

Him: I’ve known him since I was 13, we were always friends and kept in touch throughout the years, no matter what city we lived in. Growing up, we always liked each other at mismatched times, but kept the friendship and grew our connection. SKIP TO: I’m 27 and bump into him at a sports bar after recently moving back to my home town. START OF A WONDERFUL RELATIONSHIP. We were both feeling it, communicating, growing, up all night talking, having amazing sex, missing each other, laughing all the time, everything is right and easy. SKIP TO: A couple years later, I’m newly pregnant, we’re excited, we just decided to move in together, things are still great, he’s been talking about getting married/feeling me out then IN THE MIDST OF THIS - SHE tells me they’ve been having an affair for almost a year. I did not see it coming. Heart broken. Cried for weeks. He can’t give me a real reason. Says he doesn’t know why he jeopardize what we have. Says she kept coming onto him and he eventually gave in. She confirmed and apologized. SKIP TO: I moved out immediately.Had my little guy and did it mostly on my own. I adore my son and love being a mom. The dad comes around, and is great with our son, but he also respects my space when I ask for it. A year and a half later and I’m still struggling mentally. I still can’t sleep. I try to go to bed and a thought pops in my head about the affair, I start crying (almost automatically), and have to go downstairs and keep myself busy to get my mind off of it. I stay up until the sun comes up, and then I nap until my son wakes up haha. I’m still heart broken. I’ve become very spiritual in trying to heal my soul. It’s a hard but beautiful path. The dad is still in my life and sometimes tries to get me back, I’m up and down about it, there is so much resentment. I have no idea if he’s been “loyal” to me since and we don’t talk about it. HER: Found out she was sleeping with my friends dad, knowing he’s a married man. I can’t stand this chick. I was triggered today in finding out that she has a new boyfriend who she is engaged to. I’m upset. I’m jealous. I’m vengeful. My first thought was that I was going to seduce him and show her how much it hurts. BUT I AM NOT THAT PERSON. I would never put anyone else through this. BUT I’M STILL MAD. Why does she deserve happiness and love when I’m still struggling despite my constant, daily effort to love myself, heal, and forgive. I’m a Social Worker and after Covid is over, I’m going to be starting my own business running and offering themed support groups, art therapy workshops, and personal counselling. I have a pure heart. I am beautiful, confident, independent, an amazing mom, - WHY AM I STILL SO SHOOK?! WHY DOES MY HEART STILL SINK EVERY TIME SOMEONE BRINGS HER UP? MORAL OF THE STORY: Please consider how cheating can affect someone before doing it. It really messed me up. I lost myself. I’ll never be the same person again. IF YOU GOT THIS FAR:Thank you for reading. If you’ve been through something similar, my heart goes out to you. Any insight to my state of being is welcome and appreciated. TL;DR: Fell in love. Got cheated on while I was pregnant. Didn’t see it coming. My heart still hurts a year and a half later. I lost myself. I barely sleep. I need help healing. ***Please don’t be a part of cheating. It’s soul crushing.

1.) I am so sorry that you went through that. Cheating is unforgivable and you obviously deserve better than that 2.) it’s taken me awhile to learn this but I think it’s appropriate here. You cannot heal in the same place you were hurt. You’re doing good so far. I know it’s hard. Everything is going to work out for you but maybe, just maybe. You might look at a fresh start for you and your little boy 🤷🏽‍♂️ I know that it won’t be easy by any account but it might be what’s necessary . Good on you for understanding your worth though ❤️

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Ah yes #TRUE PAIN.

Married for 11 years, he came home from a walk and told me to look for a place for me to move out :( He told me I don’t contribute to anything (he pays the bills) He don’t want me to work before but I want to work and not to just stay at home with the kids, and I wanna have my own money. So now I have a job as a CNA (I know it doesn’t pay that much) and he always gives comments like “that’s only u make?” . Always belittling me but wants me to pay the bills too? I work only 3-4 days a week, I work night shift so when I get home in the morning I have to get the kidss ready for school, drop them off, do some chores, take a nap then pick them up, make dinner, homework, feed them, help them shower then I’m going to work again. I’m tired. Work or no work he still have to say something for not helping him.

Something shady is going happening on his end. Girl that’s **your** house too do not leave. Lawyer up asap 

She died just now at around seven months old. She was neutered three days ago. When I brought her home, she was groggy and weak, but the vet said it was only natural as the anesthesia had not worn off yet. She only got weaker the next day though. But again, the vet said it was only natural and that she would progressively get better in the next 10 days. Just a few moments ago though, she vomited some red fluids. I checked on her and noticed she was not breathing. I brought out a stethoscope and tried to listen for a heart beat, but heard nothing. I tried to do chest compressions, but I don't think I did it correctly as I only know how to do it on hans and not animals. I continued for 20 minutes, checking every mow and then for a pulse or breathing. There was nothing. Her eyes had completely dilated and there was a constant flow of red fluids from her mouth and nose, along with some foaming. I gave up. Right now, she rests in a box under a table. Kinda hoping she'd miraculously wake up later. I feel sad. She died just as she was starting to warm up to me. She even started climbing up on my bed while I slept maybe I shouldn't have had her neutered? To the cat that I've grown most attached to, you will be missed, Tako. I'm sorry.

rip tako 😔

Wake up. attend classes. feel shit. get notified that your assignments are due tmrw. procastinate. lie to parents that its getting better. sleep.

Then instead of school and having sleep it’s work and having to basically sell your soul to get past it he’ll it’s like that in high school too

I'm cis, but like i've always felt anxious about my gender. Well it wasn't my gender, it was how big deal it was TO EVERYBODY ELSE BUT ME. I'm so tired of people pushing boys and girls to boxes that don't fucking EXIST. People expects men to be assholes, and women to be naive. I expect everyone to be naive assholes, why tf seperate that shit! I'm not like an androgynous ferry on a lifetime mission spreading genderneutrality all around. But WHY DOES EVERYBODY NEED TO BE SO OBSESSED WITH GENDER. Calm DOWN people. I can't have like one conversation before people are like "why men (this) "why women (this)". Despite some differences, we're individuals, and I hate how gender obsessed this entire planet is! Can't I have one fucking day without that shit? I get it, gender is a big deal. But perhaps everyone makes it slightly bigger than it actually is. I literally heard theres is/was a mens toothbrush???

Dunno what age group you’re in but gender roles and stereotypes seem to exist less and less the younger the age group. A lot of middle schoolers (that I’ve interacted with) respect it when a girl enjoys femininity and when a boy enjoys masculinity but also respect traditionally masculine girls and traditionally feminine boys in the same way. But what I’m saying is, things are changing, at least they seem to be. So hopefully this won’t be an such an issue anymore as the years go on.

Like really , they both are horrible. In one corner , we have Biden a man who can't remember almost anything without a telegraph , and has multiple videos of him saying how kids would like to touch him , and another 300 videos of him sniffing and touching kids inappropriately. He's also anti - 2a , now this is personal opinion but out in the country , your chance of getting shot by someone if you're innocent is 0 unless you live by white - trash fuckers who are jacked up on meth all the time , I've lived near them , they're real , they talk about killing people who make them slightly mad all the time . But if you live near real country folk , they're always willing to help people out with hospitality and would only hurt you and shoot you if would try to harm them and burgle their house . In the city, with the amount of crime there , there's a 10% chance you could get killed walking at night in bigger cities . In the other part of the ring we have Trump, an idiot with no charisma and he has multiple sexual allegations towards him . He has various voice recordings and videos of him talking about how good his daughter, Ivanka , looks hinting toward incest and saying that if he wouldn't be her father he would try to date her . Trump also has footage of him partying with Jeffrey Epstein and being accused of rape by one of Epsteins young , underaged girls named Katie . Another thing that hints to how idiotic he his is that he doesn't believe in the Coronavirus or Covid 19 at all ! Both of these candidates fucking suck , it pisses me off that these are our only options . Neither of them know how to run a country. It sickens me , our country is going to get fucked up either way , there will never be a perfect president . Coming from a previous Trump supporter , fuck both of these excuses for people .

I think some of what you have written has actually been debunked. But, I agree. Biden isn’t my first choice. But, I really believe Trump is a danger to our country and to the world at large. So, I’m going to vote for the man who can get us back on track in the next 4 years. Not the man that will nuke us back to 1940. If in 4 years I don’t think Biden deserves a second term I won’t vote for him.

im going to list some of the things i hate (for reference i am 14f) periods sexist societal constructs in: sports, school, dress codes, dating, government, pay, social expectations cat calling. I was cat called for the first time when i was 8 fucking years old, walking the dog and a full truck of grown men were following me the whole time and started calling me sexy. living in fear. a man once said to me "so you just live in fear?" my response was "i would rather be scared and alive than ignorant and dead" stupid men. they are stupid about everything from comforting people to basic female health to the things us women have to go through just to have our voices heard and make it home safe. feel free to add more Edit: i seem to have triggered a lot of men, many of whom are making it a competition of who has it worse and trying to say im incorrect. so im gonna leave this here for yall: [https://docs.google.com/document/d/1F4TI9qHnZdYGklSuJ7EFNeTyq2SRd2PqXXGKtbHYpm4/edit?usp=sharing](https://docs.google.com/document/d/1F4TI9qHnZdYGklSuJ7EFNeTyq2SRd2PqXXGKtbHYpm4/edit?usp=sharing) ONE MORE EDIT: to all of you saying i am not a woman i am a girl, if i am old enough to be sexualized by grown men, i am a old enough to be considered and treated like a woman.

You know what’s interesting and really disturbing is that I was catcalled constantly from the ages of 8 to 21. Haven’t been catcalled since, and I’m 28 now. Guess I lost the interest of predators when I became an adult…

Why can I now be arrested for using the fucking toilet? Why are innocent people being FORCED TO FLEE THE FUCKING STATE because their gender doesn't align with their genitals or chromosomes or whatever. Why do people care?? And now people are fleeing the state, some with kids and nowhere to go, because it's safer to be a homeless political refugee then to stay in a state that will take away kids from parents who receive gender affirming care, arrest people for using a toilet, and take away life saving care because God forbid someone can feel happy in their own skin AND ON TOP OF THAT people are turning to social media, begging for help after leaving everything behind, and people are sending death threats?? Doxing them?? Telling them that their overreacting and they didn't have to flee?? News flash, if people didn't need to flee the fucking state THEY WOULDNT FLEE THE FUCKING STATE. Have some empathy. Or, better yet, elect officials who won't make it a fucking crime to exist.

We have genderless toilets in the university. Like multiple people use at the same time. Florida is living in the middle ages and desantis sees himself as a feudal lord.

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Same! Or I'll be hella deep in an ask reddit thread and I'll accidentally close the browser or hit the back button.

All my life my mom has only cared about her. Asks ME for money since I was 14. Never gave me opportunities to go on class trips that would further my education. Never brought me for regular checkups at the doctor's or dentist's offices. Never was able to learn sports or have hobbies because I had to come home and watch my siblings or go to work. She never looked for a job because she was dependent on everyone else and can't function like an adult. Her mental illness matters more than mine and didn't care when she found out I was contemplating suicide. Always had a new boyfriend and constantly tried to flirt with my friends in HIGH SCHOOL. Constantly smoked and drank in front of me and my much younger siblings, who cares about our health, right? Guilting me whenever I didn't give her what she wanted. Fuck her. I do not love her and don't tell me to, ever. She is the reason life is so fucking horrible. Now that I've moved out I hope to push her out of my life. Edit: wow I've posted in vent before to let my feelings out and I've never gotten support like this. I took a nap and woke up to such nice comments, thank you all so much!

that fuckin sucks u have such a right to be angry FUCK her bruh some people just aren’t meant to be parents, i’m so sorry u had to go through all that

Hi! I don't think I've posted here, but I've been feeling pretty down for a few days. It's my birthday today, but none of my friends or family really care enough to celebrate with me. Nobody seems to want to take the time or energy, if they remembered at all. I couldn't even take the day off from work to chill by myself at home. It doesn't help that every year I have less and less people to celebrate with; a lot of my friends have moved away, and a lot of my closest family members were older and have passed away over the years. So it's kind of an extra bummer that the few people I have left don't really care enough to celebrate with me the way that I do for them. I guess I just miss how my birthday used to be when I was a kid, when all my family who have passed away were still alive, and my dad would throw burgers on the grill, and we'd have a cake that my mom made that turned out a little dark because she left it in the oven for a few extra minutes, but it tasted perfect because she tried her best and I loved her and everyone else and didn't have shit to worry about. Instead for the last 10 years it's just been me spending the day alone because my family assumes I'm spending the day with my friends so they make other plans, and my friends assume I'm spending the say with my family so they make other plans too, and none of them include me. This turned out way longer than I expected and also now I'm more sad. I dont even really know what my point was honestly. Anyway thank you so much for reading this if you made it this far!! I feel like I can't express this to people irl bc I'd come across as being selfish or ungrateful, lol. EDIT: You guys are so sweet! I really do appreciate each and every message, this just might be the most birthday wishes I've ever gotten in one year!

Listen up buttercup. Buy yourself a burger and buy urself a cake. Today you will have a good birthday. I’m sending good birthday energy. Happy birthday!

This fucking girl in our zoom meeting keeps humming "mmhm, mmhm." "mhm right" "mhm yeah" in mic after every word our profs speaks. *Mute your fucking shIT* &#x200B; &#x200B; &#x200B; Edit: Quick confession but I said "zoom" just because thats the thing everybodys using but my class is using a really sketchy rip off of zoom that has no "mute" option- *beLIEVE ME*, i *lOOKED* FOR IT.

Lol I’m sorry but that’s funny

I don't want this to be taken as a men vs. women post, and I'm sorry if it offended you, but I honestly don't care. I'm tired of being told I'm dramatic because I don't want to be around a man. I'm tired of being told im dramatic for having period cramps. I'm sorry it's disgusting to you. I'm sorry I don't look up to your standards when you have seen a 3 second video of me. I'm sorry you can't have sex with me. I'm sorry I don't wear makeup. I'm sorry I don't do skincare. I'm I dress to manly. I'm sorry I want too much attention. I'm sorry I'm dramatic. We can't do anything without men saying we're being dramatic. Someone posts on tt that her period cramps are bad. Then thousands of people comment about how being kicked in the balls hurts worse. I have passed out from period cramps, and gone to the hospital. I don't need to know and it's not a competition. If a girl posts on tt that she has an eating disorder, she's too skinny. She's ugly. She needs to eat more. When did a 20 pound weight become anything? Women are so weak. It's not a competition. If a girl posts on tt that she's scared of walking at night, she's stupid. She's wearing something too revealing. She's not aware of her surroundings. If she's addicted, she's stupid too. She just needs to quit, it's not that hard, she's being weak. Lol imagine couldn't be me. It's so easy just don't. It's not a competition if you are healthier than someone. Edit: To everyone trying to help, tysm, you mean the world to me Edit 2: It's honestly funny how many people are hating on this 💀 i don't care

I'm a man and from what I've heard of periods you couldn't even compare then to getting kicked in the balls. It sounds completely horrible to go through that for a week every month

i'm (f19) very in love with a boy and my friend keeps saying "how do you not get the ick" to the most normal shit like oh he fell down weird, he tripped over something like stfu it's not that deep.

Teenagers are mean as hell. I don't have any advice that wouldn't get you into drama either. My love is strong and I'd be shooting back every time they said something.

I think I just made new friends! Who also accept me the way I am! :D I have a hard time getting to know people and actually keeping up contact and now I finally made a few good steps!

Judging by your username I can tell why some people don't "accept you the way you are". Nobody likes goblins, they are green.

I’m mentally spent and my depression has spiraled out of control. My only outlet to my friends and family are filled with protest videos, that video of the woman choking her dog and the guy who was kneeled on to death. I gave my support to the movement and took some time to just come down from everything because I’m like wrapped in anxiety. And an acquaintance reached out calling me “racist” for not “using my platform for good” and “being silent”. I gave the charity numbers out before I left. I’ve been donating to ACLU for two years now. I’ve actively said that I support the movement and that I mourn for the community. I’m so fucking aggravated. What? You want me to get angry 24/7 over every horrible fucking thing that’s out there? You want me to push past my depression and anxiety and look at more videos of people getting maced? Killed? That dog getting choked? People getting sick? The whole fucking world crumbling? Yeah! That TOTALLY won’t make me suicidal at all! Who cares about mental heath anyways??

Take your time, screw haters. Mental health is important, and you're going to be of no good to anyone, including yourself, if all the negativity overwhelms and cripples you. Take a breather. Can empathize.

I noticed it’s been years since the rules have been updated, so for convenience, he is the rules 1) Please follow reddit site rules. Reddit site-wide rules apply here, please follow them 2) Please do not use the subreddit for the purpose of explicitly slandering others. This isn’t a sub to attack one person. famous people, politicians and countries are exempted from this 3) Be kind to other redditors. Please follow redditquote and be nice, disagreements are not being mean, but calling someone a slur is 4) Trolling is not accepted. Troll posts, accounts and comments are not allowed here 5) This is not a sub for large debates. Conversations about how your wrong/right is fine, but please don’t blow them out of the water If you see these rules being broken, please report and send a mod mail, **DO NOT REPLY TO THIS POST** I also ask if you see a suicidal post, please send the admins a message too. Here is a list of [phone numbers](https://www.reddit.com/r/SuicideWatch/wiki/hotlines) from /r/suicidewatch if you need help, they can help you more then Reddit

Thank you for posting the updated rules :D

Porn made for women: I'm not talking about that slow sensual elevator music bullshit, I'm talking about some hot ass men going down on women and making them cum, I'm talking about gorgeous guys masturbating and moaning etc. I just went to sign up for that week free pornhub premium, and lo an behold the lil questionnaire you have to fill in about preferences only had 1. which boob size you prefer 2. which butt size you prefer and 3. how you like the pubic hair on the vulva to be shaved. Let me just make it clear that ALL of these preferences were about women. They didn't even bother asking if you preferred watching men. Gaaahhh, there seems to be an endless amount of porn for heterosexual dudes, but c'mon, searching for videos where the guy eats pussy will result in just a few videos where that's the main thing and more videos where the guy dj's the clit with his tongue for 30sec and then gets a blowjob for the remainder of the video. Fuuuuck. Why do yall think lesbian porn is the preferred genre for heterosexual women? Cause that's about the only genre that focuses on the female orgasm. Yes I can enjoy looking at naked women too but goddammit I'd much prefer some hot guy eyecandy, not just the old men. Guys if you are unsure what women want (obviously it differs for everyone) just take what you find attractive and flip it! - like blowjobs? We like being eaten out. Like watching hot women masturbate and moan? Same with hot guys. Before you hit me with 'there's stuff out there for everyone you just have to find it' and 'everyone is different and likes different things so don't generalise' - I know, but you simply can't deny that most porn is made by heterosexual men for other heterosexual men to consume, and the ideas of what women like in porn is super outdated (referring back to the b&w slowmotion elevator music shit). Alright, vent over :)

Honest reply here, not trying to be a dick or anything, but I have more luck finding that stuff on xvideos and particularly with hentai and bdsm related content. It's unfortunate that you're right about most porn, but the good news is that as women get more open about their sexuality and lose the old chastity mindset about their bodies more content for women is being made. Unfortunately, that does mean that the first genres to focus on female pleasure are the ones that the most vocal women are talking about and at the moment that means spanking is the hot topic focus. Best of luck in your future searches. Have a great week.

I was raped by my cousin in the age of 8 (we were both females), once i told about this to one of my friends, and asked her to keep it in secret. On the next day all school knew about that, and since that day people keep asking me: "did you like it?", "how she did it?, you were both girls, lmao", and some people even say: "oh its not even a trauma", so actually im feeling really upset, because nobody takes it seriously, and a lot of people call me weird, disgusting, funny, or even a lair when im telling this story...

I would tell a school counselor or teacher. It’s not cool to joke around about that stuff, that’s really mean and disrespectful

My entire fucking YouTube feed is just FILLED with Squid Game. On Reddit it's ALL Squid Game! I HAVEN'T EVEN WATCHED IT I'm not going to watch it, I'm not interested ffs

Yeah same. Like Ik the concept (from word of mouth) and I think it’s a decent idea for a story but thing is I’m just so sick of ‘death game’ /battle royale esque stories. I don’t wanna watch cause ik it’s gonna make me sad

I’m so HAPPY like I’ve never had this feeling before but my chest is so weird and tight but like IM HAPPY I WAS GLING THROUGH SO MUCH TROUBLE TO GET APPROVED AND I WAS SK STRESSFD AND I GOT HOME FROM WORK AND OPENED MY MESSAGES AND SEE IT AND SCREAMED AHHHH

Congratulations! I’m sure it’ll look great with time and effort, hoping for the best for you and your new apartment! And ofcourse stay safe

I FUCKING HATE HOW THINGS TURNED OUT THIS YEAR, I FELT SO CLOSE TO ACTUALLY BEING HAPPY AGAIN FUCKKKK

Same here OP. The first two months of 2020 were the best I’ve had in years

Okay so I (m18) spent three days with my entire friend group sleeping in a tent at another friend’s house, I have a friend (m18) who I thought I was very close with but while I was asleep, he started touching me. At first I didn’t realise and thought I was just dreaming but when I woke up I realised what was happening and I couldn’t move, my body was paralysed, so much that he didn’t even realise I was awake. He kept going for like half an hour and I still couldn’t move, when he finally stopped it took me about and hour to regain movement in my body. When I did I got up and left the tent, then when everyone was up I couldn’t bring it up. He told one of our friends about making it seems like he didn’t know, and that he thought I was awake or some bullshit like that. So this friend doesn’t realise how big of a deal it actually is, I still can’t talk about it, I just told an online friend.

That isn't a friend, that's a predator and your real friends will stick up for you. You were taken advantage of and that doesn't impact your worth. You deserve safety and justice.

I’m 22 now, I’m glad everybody wished me a happy birthday 🖤✨ EDIT:// OH MY GOD I never excepted this to blow up! Words cannot explain how happy and grateful I am, thank you guys from the bottom of my heart, thank you for the birthday wishes and awards, I can't reply to all the comments but, I appreciate everything and I wish you all a good day/night 🤍🕯

Happy birthday :)

I am 25M and I love crossdressing. I am not gay. I don't have the slightest attraction attraction towards men. Nor am I trans. I am comfortable in being a man. (This is not to say that being Gay or Trans in wrong).. But I absolutely love dressing up in women's clothing (in private). I love wearing cute and sexy dresses and lingerie. And doing makeup. And just looking and feeling 'girly'. I like to strut around in my apartment wearing sexy lingerie imaging myself as a Victoria's secret model haha.. However, I do enjoy being a man in my life outside of this. I have traditional masculine traits as well such as a muscular toned body and traditionally masculine nature and interests.. I am totally comfortable in my masculine self. But in private I absolutely LOVE unleashing this side of me. It feels so liberating and relaxing. I have been suppressing this side of me for such a long time. I felt immense shame due to it. It led me to such a long rut of depression. I hated myself and this side of me. I wanted to erase it. But gradually, I started to embrace this side of me, and it made me feel very very happy. It really fulfills me from the inside. So yeah, I love crossdressing. I feel like it's a part of me that cannot be erased.

Sorry about the other comments trying to act like they know you better than you know you >:/ You don't need to be queer to like crossdressing, at all. There's nothing wrong with being queer obviously, but it Is frustrating people insisting you're something you're not, especially with something as delicate as sexuality and gender.

I put my coffee in the freezer and waited until it got frozen enough to break into iced coffee chunks, waited for it to melt, added creamer and some mocha syrup, and now I literally have the best coffee ever. I have an 8-page essay due in less than 2 hours and I am nowhere near finished and I cant submit it late. I literally want to ball my eyes out but this coffee is really saving me from ending it all. Edit: This coffee gave me my will to live. 10/10 recommended if you want superpowers because I wrote that essay in 3 hours.

Sure, I don't know your situation. But - from a fellow procreatiator - it's not the end of the world. what will happen when you don't hand it in? you fail you assignment, right? How many takes do you have to redo the course/ assignment? two hours is really not enough time, or the coffee gives you super powers. IDK you could try finishing it

Thought I'd share this because it feels really important. This happened to me about 30 minutes ago at work. I don't even really post on here but holy hell, this shook me to my core. &#x200B; I'm a cashier at a local grocery store, and it's usually super busy on days like this so it's not uncommon to see strange things happening. However, in my three years of working there, this has never happened to me before. A young girl, maybe in her late teens came up to me and decided to check out at my lane. At the end of her transaction she told me she had a 'random question', and started crying her eyes out all of a sudden. Turns out these two guys had been tailing her the whole time and she was afraid to go out to her car. I was kind of at a loss on what to do, so I'll admit I reacted first with panic, but I could tell she needed real help, and quickly, so I pressed just about every button I had on my keyboard to call someone over. Thankfully we were able to quickly find someone to escort her to her car. About ten minutes later, I saw the men I assume to be her stalkers walking quickly as if searching for someone. They stopped at the bathroom, one of them changed clothes, and the other paced around while talking to someone on his phone and dropping multiple F-bombs. I don't know 100% for sure if these were the people she was talking about, but they sure looked the part, and I couldn't take my eyes away. It pains me horribly to think that this might've happened so many times before, and the person being followed was afraid and didn't ask anyone for help. **If you find yourself in a situation like this while in a store or a public place, don't be afraid to ask someone, ANYONE for help.** A stranger or a store employee might not know how to react at first, but if you think you're in danger, there's absolutely no harm in telling someone. Words can't express how glad I am that she spoke up.

Smart girl for being aware of her surroundings. I’m so happy she asked for help and you assisted her!

Sincerely an 18 year old. We left school literally 2 years ago. We’re naïve, we don’t know who we are yet, we all think we do. I get told I am mature for my age. These 40 year olds scream ‘it’s okay because they’re legal’ they would jump To date 12 year old if it became Legal tomorrow.. they have pedophilic tendencies but know they could never get away with dating an underage girl so they go for a barely legal one. ITS WEIRD AF AND GROSS. We’re basically still kids at my age.

Dating someone that young is just selfish. You are making them sacrifice a phase of their life that is really meant to be shared with their own peer group. Nobody gets that back later, it's just gone, and so are all the possibilities that could have been.

Yesterday was my last day with my really nice English teacher, and she came up to me at the end of class and asked me if I was a reader. I told that I was and she responded with, 'I knew it, I could tell.'' Then she told me that she loved the writing I had submitted (during remote learning) and that whenever she feels sad she looks back on my stories/poems to make herself feel better. I was sooooooo happy when she said that because I put a lot of work into it and just knowing that I impacted her life, even in a tiny, probably insignificant way. fuck yes :) EDIT: Thank you all for being so nice! I honestly thought no one would see it. Thanks for the award! <3

That is utterly awesome. Great short, should go in 'Made Me Smile' community.

Nothing in my life is going the way I wanted/expected it to. I would like to just crawl in bed, put the covers over my head, and not have to deal with anything. I feel very immature for saying that, being that I'm 51, but if I wasn't married and didn't have a family, that just might be what I would do - at least for a couple days!

I feel this but Im 20

I've never been in a situation with SA or rape but I'm so terrified of it. I'm having panic attacks over it a lot and I feel so dumb and parinoid, but with how common it is I think my paranoia is valid.

As someone who has been raped, it still affects my securities and judgement over 20 years later. When meeting people, always pick the safest options. Meet them in public, tell your important people who you are seeing and where + how long, bring along a self defence weapon/ martial arts skill but don't tell them so they can't prepare for it, scream bloody murder if they try something, so help can find you, don't be isolated with them until you have been seeing them for a while and you know they are safe. and avoid potential partners that show disrespect to others they feel are lower than them (entitled Misogenistic Pigs) eg: wait staff, people like you in general, pets, children.

You know those posts like “when you dating a girl but actually she used to be a man 🤣” or “remember sk8er boy with the lyrics ‘she was a girl and he was a boy, can I make it any more obvious?’ Not like that these days 🤣🤣🤣” or “actually _I identify as_ a black person so I can shout the n word in a crowded theatre ” It’s so. Fucking. Cringe. Holy shit. I didn’t think there was an inverse reaction to laughter but they managed to find it And what pisses me off is there’s so many jokes that are this exact same format and the first one wasn’t even funny. It’s low effort and tired and stupid

It depends imo. Some are funny. I saw someone say something like "I identify as a woman, but according to Kraft Mac and cheese I am a family of four." I think its about whether or not the joke is targeting the trans community or just borrowing the language for the purposes of humor.

Long read !!! This is a throwaway for many reasons. So today was my first time having sex and yes we both consented to it . It was something we talked about from time to time and today was the day .So he came over and he immediately began sucking my boobs , no cuddles or anything because he had somewhere else to be and didn't tell me , so i had initially thought we would have a couple of hours to ourselves . He immediately began foreplay and all was well but i wasn't as horny and as wet . Then he went in and it hurt like a bitch . We didn't use any lube too. So he was in and everything hurt so bad so i told him i was in pain and in a disappointed to be just said "but im so close to finishing". So he did and wanted round two but i just didn't want it any more .i never even came the first time. We went for round two and i thought this time it would be less painful but oh boy it was even worse so we just stopped and he prepared himself to leave . Then after all that i was looking at the condom wrapper and discovered that it had expired at the start of the month but he said it was just ok and that i was overthinking.I just dont know how to feel. I feel cheated on and feel like he used me . I also feel bad for not stopping the first time i felt intense pain. I just wanted to have a good experience.Anyways just want to vent 😞.

He's an asshole, should've been more considerate to your feelings, especially because he knew it was your first time. Could've found better time so you could take it slow and in a comfortable pace. You didn't ask for advice but ahem... His actions are telling everything about how much he "cares"

and then sent it to me. they used ai so it looked real and i just got so sick and disgusted when i saw it. i dont know what i did to deserve this. im still processing and i dont know how to explain it but i feel like i got invaded. i tried talking to my friends about it and they said they dont believe me and that its my fault

> i tried talking to my friends about it and they said they dont believe me and that its my fault How is it your fault? Pretty sure u have fake friends. Or maybe you didnt explain it to them clearly

I went to take my dishes out to the kitchen after dinner and my roommate is once again watching a rape scene on the tv from some movie or other, right? And the one thing I don’t want to hear when I’m going about my day is some woman screaming for someone to stop hurting her. I know this is real and happens all the time in life, but it makes me so uncomfortable and so sick to my stomach, why is rape so common in media such as movies, I feel like it demeans it in some way and makes it seem commonplace to harm people intentionally. And why does it have to have its own $1,000 scene? The implication I’m sure is enough. I don’t trust anyone that can just sit back and watch rape scenes without feeling just a smidge of churning in their stomach. My friends think it’s fine too, but like that’s awful. Rape isn’t a cool new genre of tv.

Sigh. I use to go to this liquor store close to home and the dude there.. Im not even joking. Always watching media of girls being raped/kidnapped/abused etc and eventually I stopped going there cause it made me uncomfortable. I dont get it either...

So for context I’ve been friends with this guy for a little over three years now. We clicked immediately and he was a very nice guy. He was helpful, kind, funny, and he’s really intelligent. We were friends for a few months before we became really close. We were joking around and it felt like we had a genuine connection. He was hilarious and I’ve never laughed that hard with somebody before. A couple months later we had discussed our relationships are relationships with our girlfriends and I noticed he seemed detached from any emotion towards her. He’d say that he enjoyed being around her and he cared for her but it was really generic stuff. I’ve seen him laugh and show emotions before but it felt so odd listening to him describe his relationship with her. It was like listening to a robot describe their feelings, something wasn’t right. I knew one of his exes and we were pretty good friends. She warned me about him after we started talking but at the time we just met so I just thought she was a vengeful ex. She said he would go far past boundaries sexually and he would be cruel to her. They both like the outdoors and I’ll mention a story about this in a minute but he really loved the outdoors. They went swimming and she told me he held her underwater and kept putting all of his weight on her over and over again. She said once she’d come up for air he’d hold her under again and after that she broke up with him. Literally the biggest red flag ever but I had no clue he was seriously deranged. As we grew closer he bragged to me about this guy he bullied in high school. He said he tried talking him into suicide and he got the guy to cut himself but it wouldn’t go further than that. Apparently the guy told people but everyone believed my friend over him and he thought it was hilarious, he was actually laughing while describing it to me in detail. I was so taken back by this because he always seemed so nice but he’d occasionally let this unnerving side of him bleed through and it scared the shit out of me. We went hiking together at this waterfall one time and there were a lot of people hiking that day. It was a popular trail. This girl is walking with a guy and I’m guessing it was her husband or boyfriend and my friend kept commenting on how “gorgeous” she was. Later on we left and went to go out to eat and he guided the conversation to the topic of sex. We talked about what we were into and he said he always wanted to kidnap a girl, bring her up to that hiking trail- which was his idea to go to- and then rape and kill whoever he brought up there. He described it in detail and it was the most fucked up thing I’ve ever heard. He wanted to cut them and mutilate them and have sex with their corpses. Like seriously fucked up stuff. Then he “joked” about going back to that trail to see where that girl went to do it to her. He brought it up multiple times while we were eating and even when we left and were walking around this plaza. It sounded to me like he really planned that out and I was so creeped out by it. After that I distanced myself from him and eventually we both got different jobs. We had mutual friends an around a year later I saw him at this party. Everyone spoke well of him and he was really popular amongst our peers. He came up to me and seemed normal as usual and wanted to talk to me privately. He started the conversation off nicely and suggested we talk more and he seemed normal. I thought he might’ve changed so I was okay with that. We started hanging out again and he told me hat he joined our local PD and I was shocked by this but he still didn’t mention anything creepy like he used to. In fact he seemed nicer now than before like he was a completely different person. A couple months later we were at the movies with some friends and I had to go to the bathroom and he said he had to go to. As we walked out and towards the restrooms he talked about how his cousin died. From how he’s always talked of him I always thought they were close but he didn’t seem saddened by it at all. I even told him if he ever needed to talk that I’m here for him and he asked why he would need to talk about it. He just seemed so cold and emotionless. This year we were at a New Years party and we left to go to a bar. We stayed at the bar for a few hours and when we left to go home him and this guy got into an argument. He talked this guy into going into this alley way and I told them both to stop and I even tried to grab him to pull him away but he pushed me. He beat the shit out of this guy and would not stop. The guy was clearly more drunk than he was and he didn’t even care. He kept punching him and kicking him in the head. I told him to stop or he could kill him and he stood up and turned around with a blank face and started talking normally and acted like nothing happened. I stopped talking to him after that. He’s so fucking scary and no one other than the people he’s hurt has a fucking clue how crazy he is. He’s pretty well known in the community and he goes to church and has a girlfriend and no one knows. He’s manipulative and VERY dangerous but anytime I’ve mentioned it to people they never believe me. TL;DR - Old friend tried to drown girlfriend, tried to talk someone into suicide, manipulated everyone, fantasied about kidnapping, raping, and killing women, had little to no real emotions, and nearly killed a guy.

Holy fuck. No shade but why didn't you stop hanging with him once he talked about raping and killing that girl?? Normal people don't talk about shit like that. He sounds like a legit psychopath.

"I'm not feeling great today. It's one of those bad days (clinical depression) and I need some time to take care for myself." I have something something here to cheer you up! - moves his hips and point at his dick. "Sure, let's watch that movie. I just want to fix a snack first." I have some sausage you can snack on - points at his dick. "My sister called, my grandma (in her 90s) caught Covid. She's vaccinated, but at her age we still worry." Take a ride on this, will take your mind off things. Points at his dick. You know what? Fuck you and your dick. How about some fucking empathy. How about offering me your shoulder instead of your penis. I don't care how great you think your penis is, it's not called 42 and it's not the answer to everything. I am so turned off by you because you act like your penis is gonna fix everything in my life. Rant over.

Upvoted for Hitchhiker's reference People are funniest when they're mad

I can’t even tell people I have autism anymore they think I am just saying it for attention I can’t tell them “hey can you be mindful of my ears?” Or “hey I’m slow so be patient with me” I hate my generation so much why is everyone my age so absolutely stupid? I think humans are devolving

Because people are dumb fucks who crave attention & can’t get enough. I really feel for you and everyone else fighting with a disorder. Sending my love <3

Corona virus is all over the news and internet. People are panicking. Misinformation is being spread by news outlets. Yes, it's a real issue but some people are taking it too far. I see memes about Asians and Corona virus and I can usually laugh it off. But I've seen subtle racism and xenophobia (fear of other races). This has started to bug me. I get friends joking like "oh you're asian, do you have the Corona virus?". In the moment I'm able to laugh along with them but later on it gets to me. Just because I am asian DOES NOT mean I have the virus. It is not an "asian virus". It just happened to start in China. There is no reason to fear Asians because of the Corona virus. It can spread to anyone of any race or age. Please stop the ignorance and check your sources.

Some middle aged white couple yelled at some kids from our local high school to "go back to Asia and take your virus with you." The kids were born and raised here. People are so ignorant and racist. It sucks.

Why is it a trend to have autism now. The same girls who bullied me in school for being autistic and “weird” are now all claiming to be autistic

This is why I don't tell people that I'm autistic. I don't feel like people will believe me. Besides, I'm supposedly "high functioning," so what's the point. The thing is, back when I was a kid, girls were pretty much never diagnosed with autism. I still have my school records that describe my behavior with the characteristics of an autistic child, but it just wasn't given that label then. It seemed I had problems but no one really knew why or what to do about them, so I was just considred shy or to have a processing problem or social anxiety, etc. It wasn't until fairly recently that I was tested by my psychiatrist and ended up meeting the criteria for autism. Now it makes sense why I've struggled so often. Maybe these girls that bullied you really do fall on on the spectrum. Maybe not. Or maybe autistm and neurodivergence is a lot more common than people think.

It’s so obvious. People will regularly say that they care about mental illness and recovery. But when it’s actually a pretty ugly thing to be around, most people bail or just become mean. If you’re in the middle of a panic attack, it’s always “get over it” or “it’s not that serious.” No one wants to actually *see* mental illness and when they do they become part of the problem rather than the solution. I’m just tired of being surrounded by people and things that say they care and that it’s ok to reach out. And when I do or when I have thoughts I can’t control, it’s a completely different story.

Yeah, most people will feel bad for you up until you become dysfunctional and can barely care after yourself. Then you're suddenly gross and lazy

you know what? fuck you. i stayed up for hours every night talking you down. i reassured you that you were amazing and deserved to be alive. i congratulated you when you got clean, i told you to throw away your blades. I got you together with her in the first place. YOU WOULDN’T EVEN KNOW HER IF IT WASN’T FOR ME. i introduced you to them. but you say i was just “using” you to get to your dad??? I’M SORRY THAT I FELT A LITTLE ATTACHED TO HIM BECAUSE, OH RIGHT, MINE IS FUCKING DEAD. I don’t care if you felt that way. that was fucked up. it was a fucked up thing to say. and you said i wasn’t supportive of YOU?? fuck you. fuck you and your stupid girlfriend and your stupid family and leaving me on read and fuck all of the tears that i cried while apologizing for shit i didn’t believe in that you TOLD me i did. i have better friends now. friends that support ME. friends that love me that i have fun with that are going to make me forget about you. fuck you.

Sending hugs your way, hang in there pal. Hope you'll be better soon :)

Why is this such a complex issue??? If you go to the bathroom and you take a shit or a piss you should wash your damn hands! I don't care if you're a guy and you think "oh it's cool I just pissed, I don't have to wipe so I'm good to go" - no bitch, I'm sure your dick is dirty AF too, so wash your fucking hands. And women, I see you! Taking a dump and then wiping your ass and walking around touching everything with your fucking shit mitts, kissing babies and shit, nasty ass mother fuckers.

FUUUUCCCKKKK YYYEEEESSS!!!!!! you get me.

I’m straight, I’m the straightest gal in every group I’m in. I am attracted to men, and men only. When I think of a partner I think of a human of the male gender. Males are gorgeous… in a way that makes me sometimes feel safe and sometimes feel scared. But the female body I just of another kind of beauty to me. I’ve had an ed in my past years. But since I’ve watched these movies of beautiful beautiful smart women something have just made me adore the female body. Also my interest in Ancient Greek and all of these female statues. The hips and uterus fat, hip dips. It’s all so delicate to me and it’s just like trials a price of art. And we’re all from a body like that. And although men are beautiful their quite awkward looking. The hips kind of melt together with the stomach. Whilst the female body is like a beach wave. Like it’s just flowing and it’s so soft but also so strong and not even a piece next to another piece is the same. And it’s just so beautiful. That’s why I love art when the female body is part of it. When you can really see it.

As a man, who is in good shape, I don't see how male body is beautiful, but I can confirm that female bodies are a work of art for sure

I (23F) just found out two days ago that I am pregnant and I feel so lost and lonely. I deal with some pretty major health/ mental health issues that I am getting therapy for and I will be talking about this with my therapist. I am married to a (26M) amazing man but we are struggling financially and even though we have a car and a home our monthly expenses do not allow for a kid and now I have so much to think about. I do not want to terminate this pregnancy but me and my husband are horrified ( we used protection and contraceptives) to find ourselves in this predicament. My husband believes it’s not smart to keep this baby and logically I agree but sadly I still want this baby our baby soo bad. I live in the states and some of the laws here are going to force me to make a decision sooner than I’m ready. I could just cry. I want to do right by everyone but it feels like I’m going to lose no matter what I choose.

I was in a similar predicament, I was so scared and shocked and whilst I didn’t feel ready to have a baby, I also really wanted to keep it. My partner on the other hand said it wouldn’t be a good idea to bring up a child right now as we weren’t financially stable enough for a child long term and I had just moved to be with him so I didn’t really have a support network where I was as my family and friends were hours away. I made the decision that it would be best to end the pregnancy, I cried through most of it and even now I still feel guilty and think about it, however I do believe I made the best decision as it would have been a struggle, I don’t wish anyone to be in this position as it was the hardest decision. You’ll make the right decision for you, don’t let anyone dictate your decision💛

when I turned 13 my father blocked all adults websites on my devices, no biggie I get it I’m too young, I found alternatives (paper). Problem is, I’m almost 19 and the websites are still blocked and I cannot go on with simply bad written adult books. Sure the solution would be to find a boyfriend, but I’m too focused on my studies / men are a hassle. The problem isn’t the the fact that those websites are blocked but it’s that my father still controls what’s on my computer / phone and I feel like I do not have my privacy. When I was a minor I did not complain bc it’s understandable but now I’m an adult (granted I’m shit at it) but I feel like my father should not have the right to block my special needs.

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You make one little teeny tiny mistake in your post and the people on here will treat you like as if you killed their mother.

Yep it's impossible to be sarcastic or tell a joke since you someone might interpret it as a insult also the whole psudo smart personality everyone has on Reddit or kinda awkward to deal with

I'm 5'3", and I've always been chubby. I'm afraid of there being no healthy way to get bone-thin, which is what I want to be. I don't want to be stocky. I want to have my ribs and hips showing. I want to be attractive.

It’s not worth it to be that skinny..I am underweight and can speak from personal experience. My hair is falling out and I have joint pains that are an 8-9 on a scale of 1-10. I get lightheaded doing simple physical tasks. I’m always cold. My teeth sometimes ache. Do NOT get so skinny that your bones show please. You will seriously regret it and your body will pay the price. As far as maintaining a healthy weight if you’re only looking to lose a little weight and be at a healthy weight…don’t drink any soda or eat chips/cookies/candy. That alone will make you drop unhealthy weight and feel more energetic.

Let me set the stage. I have known him basically since I was born. We used to have tons of fun together doing anything. That was until the rise of Andrew Tate. Over the course of less than a year, he went from being an incredible best friend to me to someone who only cares about his "masculinity". He went from someone who played fortnite with me every day and had frequent sleepovers to someone who only cares about his "self improvement". He even once called me "beta" and "not a real male" because I didn't follow Andrew's ways. He has already decided that he isn't going to college which I find a really bad choice because all he does is make music for his channel which has less than 100 subscribers and he doesn't have a backup plan incase his music fails. Just last week I called myself ugly on a snapchat story, and he instantly gave me a dm telling me to "just go to the gym". I know that going to the gym can help some people out with certain things, but it just isn't a magic bullet. I hope that he grows out of his toxic masculinity phase and becomes his real self again.

Yeah, fuck that guy. Time to go find a friend who isn't an utter shithead.

Im just sick of it. I don’t care if anyones feelings get hurt. I often use this site to discuss mental health and as an escape haven from my problems in real life. But I cannot go at least once a week without coming across a racist post/comment triggering my anxiety. I am a black woman, seeing these comments are hurtful and disheartening. The idea that people would hate someone they don’t even know. Most of you probably already saw it, but I came across a post of a black girl doing cosplay of Hermione from Harry Potter and I must say a great number of the comments were alarming. Some of the comments were critiquing that it’s not a good cosplay because of her hair being curly (which is our natural hair texture; it is difficult to style and we cannot help that). Others outright said that it was a bad cosplay because Hermione was never black when that’s not true. The book never specified her race. Writers often use ambiguous descriptors such as eye and hair color to keep everything else up to the readers imagination. This also leaves a broader selection for actors should an adaptation be filmed. Also news flash to cosplayers!! Anime characters aren’t portrayed to be white either. Its not wrong to do cosplay. As long as you’re not changing your skin color it’s okay to cosplay. How about fuck off and just let people enjoy things.

this is super relatable. i use this app for entertainment and venting but theres always gotta be a racist post that reddit of course has to reccomend to me and this makes me very angry causing me to destructive irl. im so sorry you have to see these kind posts too, i understand how you feel

Dad died Got covid, took a long time to recover Got secondary infections Aunt died Grandma died Both while I was sick Have been alone this pandemic, got a new boyfriend, but haven't seen old friends Old bff stopped talking to me when dad died, ran off with abusive ex and had a kid Was just finally getting on my feet from covid and... Had a vehicle accident, multiple broken bones, stitches on my face; thankfully no brain or spine injury While looking for brain injury doctors found a pituitary tumor None of this is going to kill me. But oh my gosh, THIS YEAR IS SO MUCH.

Stay strong, next year is going to top this one easily and there’s only 2 months to go!

He full on tried to grope my boob, I didn't let him and it was infront of my mom and i literallly screamed "what the fuck do you think you're doing" i feel so disgusted he's made some weird comments and done some pretty weird things before but this is too much. way too much. i thought i could trust him again after he beat me when i was a child, i forgave him and i thought i could feel safe with him again but fuck no. people like that just don't change. i'm waiting for my boyfriend to wake up so i can message him about it because i honestly dont know what to do

Move out. This stuff only escalates. Unfortunately, your dad is a pervert who’s trying to grope his own offspring. If you’re unable to move out, then leave the minute you turn 18.

Let people fucking complain. I’m so sick of people policing negative feelings. You are deluded and out of touch if you think you can will away negativity. “You can create your own reality” shut the fuck up Bianca. Your daddy pays your rent and his pay check “manifested” your new iPhone. Please go tell the children locked in cages at the border that all they have to do is be more positive. Some absolute psychopath left the comment on a thread about cancer “you have to think positive to survive, I had a friend who was terminal at 16 and he was such a downer about it and then he died”. WHOA really a 16 year old who was given an exparation date was not thrilled. No shit. Was he supposed to smile on his way to the grave. It’s smile or die with these people. Some people actually have trauma. My childhood abuse wasn’t a learning lesson and it didn’t make me stronger. Pay for my therapy or shut the fuck up. Let people be mad, let people smash shit, and let them brood if they want. I’m manifesting that all members of the positivity police trip on banana peels.

I agree. Sometimes the best thing to do is just to express the anger. Let people feel mad. I understand that it might get to a point that anger stops someone from moving on/ doing something about their situation moving forward, but sometimes you need to just let the anger out and be negative. Life isn’t just positive. It’s also very negative and harsh and cruel.

I wanted to put a rant in r/rant but apparently the mods removed it cause "account is new or u have low karma" I can understand the new thing but... low karma?... You fucking what mate?!... that's pretty incomprehensible to me to just lock someone out of a community for that reason. That's like not letting someone at a store buy food because they need to be a certain age to buy food, like what kinda crap is that? Maybe this isn't anything new though and I'm just being stupid for not using reddit much but that's not very mucho macho to me friend.

Why tf does karma even matter, especially on these types of subreddits?? Fucking ridiculous

I wouldn't be as bothered about this if the girl didn't have a crush on him and she's sent him nudes while we were together. He told me about this last night and it made me pretty uncomfortable especially considering I live an hour drive away. Ive talked to him and he says he wont do it again but I still feel uncomfortable. I don't wanna break up with him because it feels like a dumb reason to break up with him because it's not like he had sex with the girl or anything. I don't know what I should do. I also struggle with body image and I've asked him if he'd find me more attractive if I was thinner and he said yes (my friends said that's a red flag but he was just being honest and I don't know how to feel) weve been dating about 6 months now and he's been a bit overprotective or overbearing about male friends but super sweet outside of that. Update: he told his friend that he can't do that again

Yeah, he hasn't had sex with her...yet.

Since some of you apparently don’t get it

Well, I wouldn't say mocking or over sexualization is ever appropriate. But it's probably a good thing there is stigma around sex work. It's just a garbage industry. Leads to the abuse of countless women and men. Even the most mainstream porn sites are surrounded by abuse scandals. Solicitors are also usually addicted or in a desperate, sad place. It also propagates horrible messages about sex to young people. On top of all of this, It seems like not many actually want to engage in this industry, but do so out of desperation or some financial problem. Anyway, I hope we can criticize this abhorrent industry without erasing the humanity of those who engage in it.

I recently got the courage to tell my boyfriend that I am a lesbian and ending the relationship. Now he is sending voice messages even threatening to kill himself and calling me a liar and asking what he did wrong. He's also saying that I hate him which isn't the case at all and I told him. I made sure to tell him that he's a wonderful person but I am just not into guys. I get that it's hard finding out your partner isn't into you but he makes me feel like it's my fault, like I choose being a lesbian. I have to say, yes I shouldn't have gotten with a guy if I am not into guys, but I was determined I'll grow fond of it and stuff.

your sexuality has really helped you doge a bullet here, he sounds like he was a ticking time bomb anyway. literally run girl 😭 give him a warning and if he doesn’t take it, block him.

I’m sorry, but I get really pissed off when people call Michelle Obama a man. You don’t have to like her or her husband, but to call her a man just because she doesn’t look stereotypically feminine just really pisses me off.

Everyone I heard said that has a lot of racist tendencies.

I DONT NEED TO HEAR YOU SNIFFLING LIKE A FUCKING TODDLER, B L O W Y O U R N O S E Edit: not sure why so many people are taking it personally but this ain't about you

*….sniffles like toddler…*

Met two girls, or so I thought. Looked pretty similar, probably related. Go up and ask the closest one if they’ve got any Saturday night plans. Then in a very masculine voice this ‘chick’ looks at me and says “I think you’re looking for my sister” before thumb pointing me over. I was so embarrassed that I told him nah I got the right one and now I have a date with a guy on Tuesday. I don’t know how I’m getting out of this one.

Dude I’m wheezing, how do you even accidentally ask someone out on a date? I say go, maybe it’ll be fun

My 21st birthday was a last week (10/25). My dad wanted to throw a party and I specifically told him that I just wanted to do a cake with the family (me, my dad, my aunt and my 3 cousins as we’re all living together). Here comes my birthday and he throws me a surprise party. He threw a party I didn’t want. He invited his friends. And I was angry nearly the whole time. I tried to stay up in my room and work on homework but my dad would occasionally drag me back as I’m the birthday girl. If you’re Hispanic, you know that you HAVE to say hello to everyone as well as say goodbye and stay out for the party. Three days ago, I had a sore throat. Nothing major/no other symptoms. Flu season’s around the corner, I work with little kids, figured it’s nothing to worry about. Today I wake up with my voice raspy. I do a temperature check at work everyday and my temperature so far has always been normal. I’m on my break and my dad texts me saying to text him when I’m off so he can pick me up. He tells me he won’t be working all this week and I ask why. He tells me that a couple that came to our house for my birthday tested positive for Covid the following Thursday so he’s self quarantined until he gets a Covid test done this Saturday. I’m fucking pissed. I tell him off, telling him to not pick me up from work and to not even think about leaving his room/house. I told him I didn’t want a party. I told him I didn’t want people coming over. He went against my wishes and look what fucking happened. Fuck you, dad. EDIT: The entire household was quarantined from the moment dad told us. Me, my aunt and my dad took time off work. My cousins are doing their school online so not much changed for them. We all got tested yesterday and results came back today. Thankfully we all tested negative.

You're absolutely right to be pissed at him, I'd be so fucking angry if that happened to me.

I dont do that because I’m a new gamer and I want to learn how to play a game without the toxic male competition. They’ve done studies with female players and when the females have even the slightest advantage over a male they will fuck her over because of it. The top players tend to help them but the moment you are better than a male they shit on you and I can’t stand it. I just want to learn how to play a fucking game without getting shit on because I got a fucking kill. That’s why my gaming profile is all male, I’m sick of it.

Tell him if he really wants to know, he should pretend to be female.

I don't know why I'm writing this post because at this moment all I can think is about her and her stupid little things. We were in a long distance relationship since last 6 months but it felt like it has been years since we have been together. She is (was) my first ever girlfriend and for me she was the best friend she was the best person in the entire fucking world . She even introduced me with her family and told me if she gets cured then she will meet my family. I had imagined my whole life with her and at this very moment all those dreams have come crashing upon me. It feels like someone has taken a body part from myself and I can't think of any purpose in my life. I am scared that my life will become meaningless without her as she won't be there to support in my failures or witness my success. I don't have the motivation to rise up and work ,I don't know when I will be able to . My friends have been telling me that you will get healed definitely with time but I genuinely don't if I want to heal from this or will it be very selfish on my part.I got a call from her brother and he shared a note which she had written in her last moment and described how much she loved me .I don't know what else to do now . Thanks so much whoever is reading till now. I loveeeeeeeeeve youuuuuuuu sooooooooooo sooooooooooo muchhhhhh babee. Hope you rest in peace!!!

I'm so sorry for your loss, and I hope things will get better for you.

I work in the film industry. Often, that means I'm working outside. Yesterday, because it was fucking hot (I live in Louisiana) and I wanted to wear something I felt confident in, I wore something slightly more revealing than I had worn earlier this week. This is not the first time I've showed some skin on set at all. It's fucking summer. It's hot. I wear crop tops and shorts or skirts sometimes. Yesterday, I wore that. Today, I thought it was going to rain (and it's the end of the week and I'm too lazy to wash clothes after work), so I wore jeans and a hoodie. Two of my coworkers comment how yesterday I was all "sassy" and today I covered up. This amused one of my male coworkers. I wanted to spit in his fucking face. *Fuck you*, asshole. That's how I dress *outside* of work 95% of the time. I don't wear clothes to be "sassy" towards you or to make a statement at work. I wear clothes because sometimes cute outfits make me feel confident and badass. I don't appreciate your fucking comments about my appearance. If I wouldn't get in trouble for it, I'd tell you to kiss the back of my fucking boot or fuck off.

How weird.. stay away from them! I'm 13 I've dealt with this when I was 11. Someone made a comment about my breasts. Ugh It was disgusting. I know how you must feel rn 🙁

Okay don’t get me wrong. I’m a 25 year old guy who broke into the videography industry. Lucky me. But I’m still nowhere in life. I’m not a self-made millionaire. I’m not Elon musk. I don’t have a social media following. I’m some loner dude who bought 3k worth of crypto tonight, travelled the world because he’s got some demons to conquer, and kicks the shit out of a punching bag because he’s angry. I can’t be the only one whose tired of not being and doing what they’ve dreamed of doing since they were kids. I wish I could just fucking take a plane ticket and live on some tropical island for the rest of my damn life because I’m tired of this bullshit. I wish I could just be happy but I can’t when I feel like I don’t own my life. I feel like everyone is telling me who I got to be, what I got to do, etc. I’m just sick of it all. I keep having visions on living on another level but I just feel like my plane never left. Does anyone else feel this way? I’m tired of coping. What the fuck do we do? Edit: I’m very grateful for what I have. I know that others have a lot less. All I’m saying here is that we have dreams and expectations of ourselves. They don’t have to even be tied with anything financial. I’m comparing myself to Elon Musk because he hustled in his youth while I was playing video games lol. I’m not comparing his fortune to mine.

bruh, i'm 27 working minimum wage fast food. you're doing plenty fine. of course you can compare yourself to a billionare and feel inadequet but that's like saying an ant is smaller than the sun, of course it is but neither one feels any kind of way about it... i don't feel like i phrased that well but that's what you get at 2 am

Every time I say “I’m never going to hit my kids” people love to tell me how wrong I am for not wanting to do that to a child and how they turned out fine. I’ll never understand why people people are trying to pled their case about how physically abusing kids is okay. It takes me every thing not to become condescending towards these people because the amount of mental gymnastics they have to resort to in order to justify their logic is just baffling to me. One: the science is out there, it’s been scientifically proven for years that hitting your children has way more negative effects on a kid than positive and how it teaches them nothing. Also, children who aren’t hit as a form of punishment tend to be happier and more well mannered than kids that were. What’s funny to me is that people will attempt to justify hitting children as a valid form of punishment by saying “kids who don’t get hit never know how to act” or that they’re spoiled or something when science literally proves that 9/10 it’s the other way around (especially when it’s comes to be being ill-mannered and I’ll tempered. Kids who were hit as kids have way higher rates of having anger issues). These people justifications is a goddamn mythos—-a fairytale almost—from older generations who lacked the knowledge to know why beating children is wrong to rationalize their need to take out their anger on their children (because that’s what it is). with the myriad of data, stats, and studies on a topic like this, I just don’t understand why people are turning to outdated generalized stereotypes that has no roots in reality like it’s a valid argument. Two: “I was hit as a kid and I turned out fine.” Good for you, but that doesn’t change the fact that the vast majority of the time putting hands on a kid only leads to resentment and increased rates of mental issues. so we don’t care that you (a minority) is not negatively impacted because it’s best to just avoid BEATING UP kids in general. Three: it’s just pathetic. In what world is a fully function adult putting their hands on a little ass kid ever justifiable? I’m especially talking to you if you’re the type of guy who always boast about how they’ll never put their hands on a woman because of biological differences but will feel 100% comfortable hitting a CHILD That logic makes literally no sense (Like seriously, you could see yourself putting your hands on a kid before you can see yourself having to it a fully functional human being because they have a vagina?🤨) and it goes to show you how deeply embedded abuse is in society where men feel like its their right as a parent to put their hands on a fucking kid but never a woman or a dog even. It’s just sick. Slapping, shoving, “spanking”, or any form of physical “punishment” towards kids under the age of like 14 under no situation makes no sense. I especially hate spankings because people will act like hitting a kid with a belt, wire, or hanger is some little ass thing. I just feel like people who want to justify hitting kids are people who were hit as kids who are in denial or people who just want the power dynamic that comes with being able to hurt a child and know they can’t fight back. Because with all the stuff that’s out there that give better alternatives to raising your kids but you just choose to ignore it....you’re just abusive because would you not just turn the more effective and frankly easier methods of punishing a child?

I just want to say that you're not alone. People who "turned out fine" did so in spite of being hit, not because they were.

Fuck homework and holiday work. I need time to DEVELOP and LIVE MY FUCKING LIFE. If I’m getting 5 FUCKING HOURS of homework a night after a 6 HOUR school day, how the fuck am I supposed to do anything? And Hollidays are so much worse, giving me 5 ASSIGNMENTS, like what the fuck is the point of holidays? To catch up on world the incompetent teacher couldn’t teach during the allocated class time? And to anyone saying ‘lol try working a 9-5, it’s so much worse’ lol when’s the last time you got 8 hours of homework on the weekend? When’s the last time you had to do an exam which literally decides the quality of the rest of your life? FUCK SCHOOL. If your a teacher and you can’t teach the curriculum in the allocated class time then FUCK YOU. And if the curriculum specifically says to give the work for homework, then FUCK whoever made that.

i feel like i never get to enjoy being a kid, i hear abt how my parents and grandparents got to enjoy theirs and all the fun they had but i feel like i never have time to :(