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I hate my child. My husband and I did everything “right”. We went to school. We started careers, we got married and bought a house. We have a savings account and we made sure we were emotionally, financially and mentally ready for a child. Throughout my pregnancy I consumed no caffeine, very little sugar, obviously no drugs or alcohol. I was completely healthy, 26, and had a picture perfect pregnancy. My husband was supportive, involved and loving throughout the entire pregnancy. Then we had a healthy baby boy. He never smiled. Never made eye contact. Never babbled. We recognized signs of delay and got immediate early intervention. Our son has had services since the age of 7 months. I have advocated for him tirelessly, as has my husband. We sold our house and moved closer to a better special needs school. We are all in therapy and support groups. We are doing everything “right”. My son is nonverbal. He is not toilet trained. He can feed himself dried cereal and fruits only. Getting him to drink anything let alone water is almost impossible. We have to give him IV hydration multiple times a month. He is 11 now and large and strong. He has punched me several times, he has knocked my husbands tooth out, he has damaged my shoulder to the point that my right arm no longer raises past my head. He screams at random moments so loudly that my ears ring. We have to lock him in a sleep safe bed otherwise he will cause absolute havoc. He has started fires, touches himself in public, shoves all caretakers into walls and doors and humps them. We have no friends. Family will not visit us and we are no longer invited to anything. We can’t FaceTime into events since it triggers a meltdown. My house is a war zone, and my husband and I are scared of our increasingly strong son. We cannot have pets. We had to rehome our cat when he tried to throw her at the age of 3. My husband and I have not been on a date in six years. We wanted more children and that’s impossible with our current life. I hate him. I fear him. He has ruined my life. He has taken everything from my husband and I and I wish I would die in my sleep rather than deal with him one more moment. My husband is equally burnt out and miserable. We have had enough. We are in the process of finding a residential home for him. We will pay until he is 18 and then we are done. If we cannot find a residential place for him soon, I am taking him to the police station and signing over my rights. My husband is as well. We will not try for another child, I can’t risk having another one like him. I hate him. I hate his blank stare and his strong hands. I hate slipping on his half dried jizz in random parts of the house. I want to forget he exists. I want to rejoin the world. Covid was hell for us, no school no services just us trying to survive. I wish I had aborted him. I wish I had never met the love of my life and had a child with him. I wish I was dead. I refuse to parent a broken child anymore. He is a blank shell of a person and he feels nothing for any of us. Update/reply: Needless to say my husband and I are overwhelmed by all this. Thank you for the kindness and compassion you’ve shown. I am a frequent Reddit reader, but have never posted before. I posted in a moment of anger and frustration and desperation and I’m so glad I did. I don’t hate my son, not really. But I can’t live with him much longer, and neither can my husband. He will only get bigger and stronger, and my husband is especially afraid of hurting him trying to defend himself/me or even stop my son from self harming. His blood pressure is through the roof. We have found two residential programs with separate facilities for children and adults, where he can spend the rest of his days. One is a six hour drive, one is a six hour flight. We haven’t flown with him since he was four and frankly I will not do that to us, the other passengers and most importantly to him. A few frequent questions answered because I don’t think it’s possible to get to everyone and I’m heading to bed: His diagnosis: he has severe autism. He is nonverbal and not toilet trained. He’s not the autistic that does puzzles and is amazing at math and has special interests and some sensory issues (not to belittle anyone who is going through that or has someone going through it. I see you and you’re a valid person). He is completely nonfunctional to put it plainly. He has profound mental retardation, occupational defiance disorder, and will not get better. We have been to specialists all over the country and live in an area and have access to incredible care, we have had his brain studied. Usually parts of the brain will show signs of activity when stimulated by an outside source. My husband and I, pictures of cute dogs, favorite toys and food. His brain doesn’t work like that. He loves me no more or less than he loves anything, which is not at all. It’s a hard pill to swallow for sure, but it is reality. Adoption: we will not be trying for another child. Frankly, we are terrified this will happen again, as unlikely as that is. I would spend my entire pregnancy scared and I am tired of being scared. We would like to adopt, but residential care even with insurance is expensive and we would not be able to feel like we could properly provide for more than the child we have now. It’s a ongoing discussion and not one we will solve anytime soon. We have a lot of healing and work ahead of us to just be people again. I also want to acknowledge something: we are upper middle class professionals living in a very developed, wealthy area. We have access to services, doctors, insurance, a home, schools and professionals that many do not. We are educated and have enough time to advocate for ourselves and our son. Many special need caregivers do not have any of this. My heart breaks for them and my messages are open. That we can put our child in a facility is a privilege that shouldn’t be a privilege. That we can basically give him away and know he’s safe is a reality that many don’t face.

Thats a very difficult situation to say the least and abuse, even from a child, is abuse. Wanting to get away from that abuse is normal. Im sorry you're going through this and i hope you are able to heal.

I'm not going to talk about the Rittenhouse Case verdict or my opinion on it, but instead I wanna reflect on the insane amount of people praising Rosenbaum, including celebrities. In the Early 2000s, my younger brother was sexually abused with I think about a dozen other kids by Rosenbaum. The court cases are sealed because they/we were minors so I won't be providing the names of any of them or the exact charges. He and every other victim deserves privacy. We already had batshit crazy conservatives try to unseal the case so they could tout around the victims stories as a "gotcha" moment. Anyways, the fucker plead out of like 11 counts of child rape (there were more accusations, they just never made it to court) and only got like 10 years (ended up only being 8). My brother and I are late 20s/Early 30s now and he has mostly moved on but up until he was 14 he would cry almost every night and ask to sleep In the same bed as me or my sister or mom. I can only imagine what the other victims are going through. Now, somehow he made his way to Kenosha and was shot dead. Whatever. Couldn't care less. Also couldn't care less about the trial or the verdict of Kyle. What gets me is all these fucking celebrities calling him cutesy fucking nicknames and talking like him like he was such a great human being. "RIP Joseph" "Such a kind soul" "He didn't deserve this" Pedro Pascal is a good actor but somehow saw fit to call this POS a Hero. What finally made me lose it was Mark Ruffalo's "RIP JoJo" What the whole fuck? Literally petnaming him. I'm so fucking angry. This man was a terror who deserved hell 20 years ago and major celebrities are making him to be a Martyr. My brother is acting like he's ok through this whole thing and he has been on a media blackout. I on the other hand have been listening since day one and am so sick of people defending a pedophile. I'm so goddamned disappointed in our politicians and celebrities and athletes who all have acted like he was a hero. Had to get that off my chest, Thanks

Sorry to hear. I have been wondering how his victims felt after this. The people defending him are mentally insane.

I am still shaking from a few minutes ago, rhis is what happened: I went to go do my normal jerk off routine this arvo and everything is going welll, not great, not good, but as expected . So when i jerk off i hsve some paper towel scraps that I geyser into, sometimes for multiple uses. I prefer paper towel because it is sort of a cross between a sock and toilet paper. Not too weak but not too strong and you can recycle it which i assume is good for the earth. So, i grab my used papertowel square and I infold it from the crusty clump it was, and I geyser straight into it without ever looking and guess what i guess a little jumping spider snuck into it and made a little cum cave house. I geysered right all over the poor bugger and Im sure it just ruined his whole day, i tried wiping the cum off it but it wouldnt stop jumping around so fuck you asshole i tried to save you and you wouldnt let me. Im so pissed and sad i feel like i want to vomit because I love spiders but i also love to cum and i guess I accidentslly collided those worlds together and the outcome is pretty lame

Uhhm. I'm glad I read this post but uh. 🕷️

Ever since I got into puberty (which was when I was like 11) i've gotten weird comments from mostly my father about my body. My dad often makes remarks about my choice of clothing, which is mostly baggy etc. so basically it hides my body and stuff. He says stuff like that I will realize how stupid I look when I get a bit older and that I will start to dress sexy and that I should show off my body. He often tells me that I should start doing Yoga just for exercise in general, he really always kept saying that and then one day I had his phone because I was looking for something and every Single social Media platform he has was full of erotic women doing Yoga in explicit positions. Ever since then I realized how messed up everything is and how uncomfortable everyone in this family makes me feel. He told 11 year old me that it was funny how my "tits" jumped up and down in the car when we were driving bumpy roads. Him and my mom sometimes slap my butt, which is supposedly meant to be in a playful manner and not sexual. Today i lost it though. My mom was laughing and telling me that my dad had a dream, a dream where I was dressed sexy in a bikini and that he was surprised and happy that I was finally dressing sexy. I felt like crying. My mom was laughing about it. I just wanted to cry. Cry my eyes out so much. I dont know what to do anymore, im only 15.

definitely be careful around your dad. this behavior is weird with a capitol W

It was my wife, we just got married a week ago

had me in the first half pheww

I am not a "latinx" I am a LATINO. SAY IT RIGHT. No real latino likes to be called latinx. Latino is ALREADY GENDER NEUTRAL YOU FUCKHEADS. If you're talking specifically about a woman, then use latina. It's not disrespectful, it's not a slur. Spanish is a gendered language. Nouns have gender, adjectives have gender, using the "male" versions is gender neutral. When talking about a group of men and women, you use the male nouns, pronouns and adjectives. Trying to be inclusive you ended up being dumbasses. You're all about inclusion but fuck my entire language am I right? I am all about being inclusive but if you're gonna take a word from my language and culture, don't make it sound absolutely fucking ridiculous. "Gender inclusive language" is largely an American English thing. You'll never hear someone speak Spanish and say "latinx" or ANY OTHER fake gender neutral word.

I agree with this 100%. I’m sick of seeing “latinx” on forms I’m filling out. It’s not a big deal but it makes me a little annoyed each time I see it because it’s completely unnecessary

This is going to be long, but please bear with me. I (23f) am no longer in contact with my mom (Jane) because of years of abuse, manipulation, fear-mongering, and hatred. I was conceived through a one-night stand. Jane couldn’t get in contact with the guy and so carried and raised me as a single mother until she met someone. And god did she let me know about it. She made sure to tell me how unwanted, unlovable and disgusting I was. She admitted to neglecting me as an infant and toddler and how she would essentially have screaming matches with me. When I was 5, she met William and they fell in love. They got married within a year and William adopted me after his twin sons (John and Oscar-16m) were born. I was 7. Their relationship moved very fast and I believe it caused a lot of turmoil. I truly believe the pregnancy was to trap William, but that’s speculation and opening a whole can of worms. During the pregnancy, Jane would have tantrums about having twins. How she ‘only wanted one’ and how she’d only love the first one that came out. This was a new side to her that William hadn’t seen before and he shut it down quickly. Well, she kept her promise and only gave attention to Oscar. John was completely neglected by her other than to feed. She had intense PPD and that’s not her fault, but what is is how she handled it. She refused to get help and claimed PPD/PPP is for ‘insane’ and ‘bad’ mothers. At some point when the boys were a year or so old, she was admitted into hospital for having intense thoughts about hurting herself or others. She was diagnosed with depression, anxiety and PPP. She spent 5 months in hospital/a mental health facility. For those 5 months she was gone, I have never felt so much love from another person in my life. Bearing in mind, I was just 8. All I had known was yelling, and emotional abuse. When she got out, both sides of the family had a big sit down and told her their expectations. It was all doable; go to therapy, take her meds and they made her a list of emergency contacts who she could call if she was feeling it all a bit too much. She had a support system in place. But she didn’t use it. We moved out when William got home and found me at age 11 trying to cook dinner for my brothers (except Jane had turned the gas and electric off as ‘punishment’). Jane had locked herself in the bathroom and wouldn’t come out because John was upset (remember, she hates John). She had also thrown a ton of stuff around in a fit of rage because I said she probably shouldn’t take Oscar to the shop if she can’t walk straight. William packed our stuff up and we left for his mothers. Jane was NOT happy about that. When he found out she had thrown shit around and at me, he was furious. He filed for divorce the following Monday. The court gave him full custody with mandated visitations from Jane. I remember crying myself to sleep when I found that out. We moved out of grandma’s house and into a nice flat were we seemed to get our life together. Other than the visitation, we were good. Until William got a new job and we had to move across the city. This set Jane off, who up until this point, had been on mostly good behavior. We moved closer to William’s sister and her family. They all knew about Jane (aunt was on the contact list) but we all tried to move forward. Things were good for a couple of years but then I turned 16. The day after my 16th, I got a text from Jane telling me that she’s moving out and that I need to pack up my stuff from my old room. I went (stupidly) and began putting things into piles. Jane just stood in the doorway and eventually began bawling her eyes out. She began apologizing for everything she had done and how she feels like a failure. This is when she told me about the emotional and verbal abuse she inflicted on me as an infant/toddler and how she blames herself for my numerous mental health issues. This was all leading up to her asking if I could ever forgive her. I said no. I said that she may feel guilty, but she’s stuck in this cycle where she’s abused the boys as well. She lost her fucking mind and kicked me out. It got a little physical between us and she ended up screaming that I’m no longer her daughter and how she’s ‘disowning me’. When I got home, I told William everything. He was furious too and went to her place and arrived back home hours later with our stuff. I don’t know what went down and I don’t want to. We filed a police report (I had scrapes and bruises) and her mandated visits were lifted. A weight had been lifted off my shoulders. It was like this black cloud of negativity had finally eased up. I felt so much happier. I began to focus on school and my family without dreading having to see her. We couldn’t get a RO, but she kept her distance. She would send birthday and Christmas cards, but we never reciprocated. The boys know a bit about what went down, but William was very frugal with what he told them. He said he didn’t want to inflict unnecessary emotional damage onto them. Then, on their 16th, she shows up. Which was weird because she never shows up to anything. I kept my distance and stayed in the kitchen but I could still see and hear everything. I was shaking in fear and had to run to the bathroom at one point. She had bought them both Nintendo Switches. They both opened her presents last and both quietly thanked her. There was no insults being thrown around, no one said ‘let her go it won’t make a difference’. The atmosphere was stifling. In fact, it was Jane who yelled and insulted first. She called the twins ‘ungrateful brats’ and the second she stood up to yell, William and auntie began to push her outside. As she was being pushed, she points at the twins and yelled ‘You’re both fucking ungrateful, unlovable little cunts and my biggest regret is not aborting you when I had the chance.’ The party was naturally, ruined at this point and the boys are both totally emotionally destroyed. William left at one point to go and talk to her because she had blocked William (the only one who has her number) but I don’t know the specifics. It's been a few weeks since the incident, and the boys are both destroyed. Oscar has become a recluse and John isn't eating. I'm furious. I’m sorry for making this so long, I’m just so mad, traumatized and upset by the whole thing. EDIT: Hi everyone! I'm just popping in to clarify some things that I've been receiving in my dms and questions in the crossposts (because yes, I do read them). 1) I do have a reddit account but I only use it to post sims 4 content (kinda lame, I know) and I am only subscribed/following subs of games I play. My second year of uni has also been kicking my ass and so I haven't been online as much. I know her post got a lot of traction, but I didn't see it. Plus, it got deleted so it's not going to pop up on suggested sub posts Reddit is pushing. 2) I DID hear about my mother's post from the THT podcast, hence the weird timing. I know it seems a little coincidental, but I promise this is all real. 3) I have ZERO ill will towards anyone who sympathized with my mother as they were going off her original post. I've gotten many people dm'ing me about it and I just wanted to say that I totally understand why anyone reading the original post would think 'what a shit family'. It did suck to read everyone siding with her, but there is literally no reason to be mad as that's all the info they had. Obligatory 'thanks for the support' comment. I will be logging out now for my own sake.

Wow, firstly I’m so sorry that the woman who birthed you is absolutely despicable! Thank goodness for William! Not much you can do about her, but you’re already giving your baby bros exactly what they need. Love love love. I hope their pain eases and they realize that just because Jane birthed y’all doesn’t mean she’s your mom. A mom is a person whose love is warm and kind. Jane is definitely not capable of that kind of love. Quick clarifying question though, how did your mom make herself a victim for thousands of ppl? Did she post something?

Last week my (27F) fiancé (29M), we’ll call him Mason, broke up with me because I told him that I didn’t want to leave my job and move across the country so he could be a streamer. I make very good money here in Minneapolis, my family is here, and I love the scenery of the area (outside the city of course). My ex was basically a stay-at-home boyfriend, he worked only 20 hours a week as a barista at the Starbucks that is literally a 5 minute walk from our apartment. I work as a NICU nurse and I make good money, so I was never worried about our financials. What worried me was that, despite Mason having a biology degree, he was “never able to get” a full time biology job. I think he was never even looking in the first place. I told Mason that I would be happy to help him pay for the masters/phd program he was supposedly interested in doing, but he never put in the work to do any research into it or apply. Instead, he was obsessed with the idea of becoming a streamer and moving to LA. But, Mason “never had time” to stream or work on building a social media presence. He has literally 2 followers on Twitch and the last time he streamed was a year ago. I paid for everything: the apartment, our groceries, his medication, his pet fish, all of our dates (that I always planned), but despite working crazy hours I was always the one grocery shopping on my way home and cleaning the dishes and cooking and doing laundry. The only thing he would do consistently was clean his fish tank and turn on the roomba. But sure, *I’m* the problem when I tell him to stop piling the trash up 12” over the edge of the bin and actually take it out, and i’m the problem when I told him that I was not going to leave my job and pay for us to move to LA — and leave my entire family behind — when he’s literally done nothing to make his own aspirations come true. Dude sits at home for 50 hours a week in his underwear eating takis and playing video games that he *isn’t even streaming* and expects me to cook dinner as soon as I get home from the hospital. So we had a fight and he broke up with me. Genius move. So I cancelled the lease on *my* apartment and I’m staying with my sister while I go house hunting and deleting every trace of that idiot from my life. He’s tried calling and texting me, but I’m done with his leeching. I just wish other people could see through his carefully crafted lies because I have lost 2 friends who are just eating up his sob story. Can’t believe I’m such a mean mean girlfriend who won’t be my man’s mommy 😢 TLDR: My fiancé killed his golden goose over a trash bag and a non-existent streaming career

He would keep being the same guy - just in a much more expensive city.

I don’t even know how I’m going to write and post this on here but I just wanna get it off my chest. I’m a pretty tall and muscular guy, I’m also pretty social and have lots of friends. I’m a student so naturally I live by myself. My mother has always been against that idea and she also hates when I talk to girls or show a little affection towards other people, she always wants to be in my life and decide everything . My father passed away when I was a kid so I don’t know much about him and my mother hasn’t dated anyone since. So of course I spend a lot of my holidays with her. But when I visited her during spring break she was acting really off but I didn’t think much of it because she got pretty sad after my fathers death and she is still in mourning. I sat with her we talked about stuff, ate and watched movies. I went to to sleep early cause I had been driving a lot that day so I had gotten pretty tired naturally. Next thing I know is my mother sitting on top of me while I was completely naked and that’s when things happened. I was so shocked that I didn’t move a fucking finger or say a word it felt unreal. After her disgusting act she told me how much she loved me and that I was perfect and started praising me. After that I packed my stuff and drove crying the whole way home. I keep having nightmares about it every single day and every time someone’s touches me I remember everything, I also can’t stop throwing up every time I remember something. I feel so ashamed of myself. Even my friends have noticed that I’ve gotten weird lately but I haven’t told anyone and I do not know what to do. I can’t sleep eat or behave properly I just want this to end. I fucking hate myself for letting her do what she did. She tried calling me several times but I can’t even talk to her anymore. She also sent me a message saying that it’s my fault I resemble my father so much and that she wasn’t in the right state of mind. I’m fucking losing it.

im so, so sorry this happened. you didnt ‘let’ anything happen, you did absolutely nothing wrong. whether you go to the police or not (the text she sent could be used as evidence like another comment said) is up to you. i’d definitely recommend it, but i understand if you need time to process what happened. it would also definitely be beneficial for you to seek some kind of professional help from a therapist, but again, thats up to you i hope you’re able to heal from this, and that you’ll be okay again one day.

It's exactly as it says. This actually happened about seven years back in middle school. War on drugs is fucking ridiculous. Literally a guy got sent to the office because his eyes were red from crying. Wtf. Idk just remembered this suddenly and it pissed me off.

That's mega fucked up... poor kid...

If a man is raped ITS STILL RAPE. WHY IS THAT SO HARD TO UNDERSTAND. “Oh what a lucky boy” bitch shut the fuck you neckbearded goatfucker. I get if you want to get laid, but that 11 year old boy sure fucking didn’t. There are women who have openly admitted to raping (sometimes underaged) boys AND NO ONE GIVES A FLYING FUCK. How are these people not punished? If a famous man made a statement about him drugging a women he’d lose EVERYTHING. But you know what happened when cardi B admitted to that? Nothing. Fucking nothing I’m ashamed with humanity. I hope every person who’s ever sexually harassed someone and the police who choose to ignore those cases get their organs taken out while they’re awake. Edit: cardi B didn’t rape men, she rather stole from them while they were drugged

Its ridiculous how normalised small bits of sexual harrassment are when done to men as "they should enjoy it". I remember watching a clip of X factor and Nicole was rubbing Louis' face in her tits completely unprovoked, and when someone called this out in the comments someone replied saying he was lucky. Its so fucked up, and I hope that the fact that we're starting to call out the small things done to women we can progress that on and talk about the issues men face too because no one should have to deal with that.

AND STOP TALKING ABOUT THE “LOW COST” OPTIONS LIKE THEY’RE ANY GOOD

You're right; most people in the US can't even afford their rent, let alone therapy. I tried to do Better Help because it's always being pitched as a "low cost" option --- and I didn't have the $200.00 required up front. Therapy isn't an affordable or accessible solution for everyone, and that's a serious problem.

I was furious. Apparently she was getting a mobile order from chic-fil-a and she pushed a black person out of the way to get it. When the black person said “you can say excuse me” my gf got pissed, and called her the n word and they started arguing. I’m just disappointed since she’s either sweet or doing some insane shit. I know I shouldn’t stay with her, I just wish I could change her. I left her today and I still feel sad. Edit: I am white, my (ex) is half white, half Filipina

You definitely did the right thing, that’s disgusting behavior. That said breakups are still never easy.

Like I hear this a lot, and it sickens the fuck out of me. My mom had said it, other family members and some ex-friends had said this phrase. My mom used to make A LOT of anti-Asian jokes and what not, and I told her it was racist. She got mad and told me that she’s not racist.... I’m smart enough to know that she was. I think that phrase need to be corrected from “Black people can’t be racist” to “It doesn’t make sense for black people TO BE racist after dealing with racism themselves.” It’s immature, annoying, hypocritical on so many levels, and it makes ZERO sense. It’s literally mind boggling and I can’t stand it.

I seen black people be racist to their own people, and no I am not talking about Uncle Ruckus, no relationship, but also asian people being racists with each other and of other races. In order to make things short, ANYONE can be a racists, regardless of race, against ANY race, even their own.

i don’t even know what to do right now. i’m so lost. no one i can talk to is awake rn. i went out with friends and two went off to do their own thing which was fine but the second im alone with one he keep asking over ajd over if we can do something. i said no so many times that i don’t want to do this especially where we were at. that didn’t fucking matter. i feel so fucking gross. i feel so crushed. i didn’t think id ever go through this again. why wasn’t me saying no the first time enough.

Do not shower. Do a rape kit. Call the police. Don’t wait and please please don’t shower. It can get rid of evidence and you are NOT GROSS this was NOT your fault. Even if you did nothing like fight him off when he was abusing you.

Everyone that thinks this is directly targeting their own religion and feels the need to defend it needs to take a moment to ask themselves why that is their knee-jerk reaction.

The problem is not what the religion says 99% of the time, it is the people who abuse religion to secure and monopolize their power. Example: I am Muslim. Islam, at its core, is a religion of peace and choice-- gave women marital and property rights, promoted free thinking. The modern "Islamic" countries are basically the opposite from these ideals, which is a massive tragedy.

Today was the worst day of my life. After recieving the worst report card in the entire class, I (14y.o. male) was called by my therapist into his office (he was helping me with my drug problem). He came 20 late and didn't even ask me how I was or something like that. The conversation started with him asking me if I masturbate. I said "yes, but not very often". Then he proceeded to tell me that it's wrong and I should jerk off more (what the actual f-?). After telling me that "masturbation is great" for a while, he told me strip. It was nothing unordinary, because he was also my physiologist, so I didn't think anything of it. He told me lie down, which I did, then covered my mouth and started "doing it" with his hand. I wont go to detail, because I've heard that's what makes pedos horny, but after he was done literally forcing me to finish, he cleaned me with a paper wipe and asked me if I liked it. I said yes, being scared as f-, but I was on the verge of tears. My literal f-ing therapist literally f-ing r*ped me. Please tell me what to do, I have already told my parents and am going to some mental check-up. Sorry for bad english btw, living in eastern europe.

call the number for child protective services in your country and also the police. the sooner you do it, the better. i’m so sorry that this happened to you

Maybe this will get downvoted and maybe you think I’m being too emotional, but this fucking war should bother me. I live in a safe country but I care about those innocent people. And maybe I am naive and some of you feel offended when I say this, but I hope you get me… FUCK PUTIN, YOU BIG PIECE OF SHIT! AND FUCK EVERYONE WHO DOES WHAT HE SAYS!! KILLING INNOCENT PEOPLE! WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU?!! I DON’T GET SOLDIERS. JUST BLINDLY FOLLOWING CRUEL RULES! WOULD YOU KILL YOUR OWN FAMILY, IF THEY TOLD YOU TO??! I can’t stop thinking about this innocent little 14 years old girl, who got murdered. Poor little baby 😥 Makes me so incredibly sad. Her parents were waiting for her to come home safely. But she will never arrive back home. I can’t imagine the pain and suffering her parents are going through. And all those other innocent civilians. It breaks my heart. No one deserves this shitty war. I have so much more to say about it, but I won’t. Rest in peace, little angel 💔🥀

I'm in Switzerland and I still fear it all. I don't want anyone to get hurt, I don't want any bigger war happening I love my life, my family I'm just 19 years old, and I'm so scared and nothing I can think of gives me at least a bit of peace. I want to sleep, I can't, I'm nervous and shaking, and I have no idea what's coming. I hope so bad something happens and nothing escalates into something really bad

It was sudden and random when I got the news. But it hit me that it was real. She really is gone. I can’t stop crying. It’s been hours. I miss her so, so much. She really was the light in my life. She was there when no one else was. She was the one who helped me try and love myself again. She was perfect in every sense of the word. She told me she was going to marry me one day. We met last year, and started dating on the 16th of March. It was just our one year. We only went on one date. I promised I’d take her on another, and we also wanted to go stargazing together soon. We wanted to do so much. But we can’t anymore. I couldn’t even get to say goodbye.

Reading this made me tear up. She sounds like a very great person. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope you take care of yourself after these news. I'm sure she was happy that she found someone like you that loves her.

I am a 25 year old woman, i live in Oklahoma. I've seen Texas and Oklahoma both make abortion harder to access, now the Supreme Court is trying to over turn Roe vs Wade. Half of these new laws aren't even being voted on, like the one in Oklahoma. It just now is what it is aprerently. I dont have kids, because of all the shit parents I see all the time, all the kids who are in foster care, the planet is dying, Putin, China. God, its like everyone is dying and suffering all over the world, except a handful of us, but God forbid I decide not to bring more life into this shit world. I dont have kids, partly because of medical reasons. Now, if I got pregnant, I could die or be crippled for life, on top of raising a child with the new laws. Its fine if you want to believe abortion is wrong because of your religion, that doesn't mean it should be forced on me. The people in this world make me sick. Update: I must have really pissed some of y'all off lol. Im getting pms now. I won't entertain them, you will be blocked. I won't be harrased, intimidated, or swayed on this. Feel free to waste your time trying though.

I understand as well, I live in Oklahoma too and I am deeply saddened that the only reason for you to be able to get an abortion in Oklahoma is if the pregnancy is harming the mother. That means that you can’t terminate rape pregnancies.

I can agree to disagree, but not about this. Let me tell you why: 1. Within the first 8 weeks, the “baby” is actually just a zygote (unspecialized cells that have not formed tissues, organs, etc.). 2. Early term abortion is simply the expulsion of these unspecialized cells. 3. Murder is the brutal killing of a fully developed human being that has the capability to think, feel, and act. Abortion is the removal of unspecialized cells that cannot do *any* of these things. 4. People will still attempt to get unsafe abortions even if the law changes. 5. You can’t force someone to be a mother who doesn’t want to be. That’s pro-birth, not pro-life. Being pregnant and giving birth is a grueling and dangerous process. If a woman doesn’t want to be a mother, she shouldn’t be forced to go through all of that suffering. 7. Telling people not to have sex is just illogical. People are going to have sex. People are going to rape each other. Protection is going to fail. Sometimes unwanted pregnancies JUST HAPPEN. 8. If you haven’t been in this situation, you will never understand how it feels.

Getting upset about an abortion is like getting upset about antibiotics Im taking these pills to kill and remove cells that are in my body that i dont want SAME THING 😐😐

Pls upvote. I deleted my old account becuz of my ex and my friends. Thx for the upvotes

hey mate, i think r/FreeKarma4U is the sub your looking for. still take my upvote, i know how that shit feels mate.

I am sorry, everyone. This shit is terrifying. People here are trying their best to stop the war. Everyone is terrified and pissed because nobody asked us. Our opinion doesn't matter to them. People in Ukraine, you are strong. If any Ukrainian is reading this, I want to say that I am truly sorry. Russian and Ukrainian people are not enemies. We were never supposed to be enemies. Now so many people are suffering from the doings of our shitty government we didn't even choose. They are all just a bunch of liars and cowards. The TV is full of lies and propaganda. They are trying to hide the truth from Russian people. Cops are arresting everyone who is protesting. Just HOW can you beat up a person who is protesting AGAINST THE WAR? I just want to live normally. Without the war that government of MY country started. Without this meaningless and stupid war. I am fucking terrified to live here, but it isn't comparable to the fear of Ukrainian people right now. Stay safe, everyone. I hope we can end this madness together.

I believe that all of us as people no matter who we are or where we are from, we need to stick together. Even in spite of our governments . Their are many corrupted governments that are not the true reflection of the countries people and I also believe this to be true of Russia and Russian people. I feel for the people of Ukraine Just as I feel for the Citizens in Russia who desperately wish this war never happened. Just remember you are your own entity your own mind. YOU are not your government and YOU did not choose to start this war. So it is not your fault.

She was shot in the head by a jilted ex. My sister is gone forever, because some guy didn’t know how to hear “no” and had a gun in his possession. My nephew is now motherless, because a guy with a known history of drug use was able to buy a 45. My mom is having to bury her 19 year old daughter. Now my family is just another statistic. Editing to add: I am reading every comment and I do appreciate all of the kindness and compassion from everyone. I’m getting overwhelmed trying to reply to everyone, but please know that I see your comments and I am grateful.

I'm so very sorry to hear that, it must be awful to be going through this... I can't imagine why anyone would give a gun to someone so clearly unstable.

Happened all within the span of an hour and a half. Me and my wife were sitting on the couch just watching some. Netflix. All of a sudden she flings herself to the ground choking up bloody mucus turning blue and purple. I get her on her side, slamming her back. Couldn't get her up as she is 9 months pregnant. Now here I am sitting in the hospital wife had three seizures and I don't know if our first child is okay. I'm fucking losing it guys, ain't got nobody to call, no one to vent to. Just feel like I'm going to fucking explode.

An update: Did an emergency C-section both my wife and baby are on respirator. Wife has not been conscious since she got on the stretcher. Had two more seizures on the way to the hospital. Her blood pressure sure won't stay down so they have her under anesthesia. Thanks for all of Yalls kind words and prayers. I'll keep y'all updated

IM ACTUALLY CRYING MY MOM SHOWED ME EMAILS THAT MY DAD SENT TO MEN ON THE INTERNET AND HE WAS ASKING FOR FUCKING "M4M RIMJOB NAKED PLAY" AND SHJT LIKE THAT😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 IDK WHY SHE SHOWED ME IM LIKE TRAUAMZITED I DIDNY WANNA SEE THAT THATS PROB WHY MY DAD DOESNT LOVE MY MOM CUZ HES FUCKING GAY💀💀💀💀

Your mom shouldn't have involved you. That was incorrect behaviour.

Mom, you never told me anything about sex when I was young. You never prepared me for anything. And guess what? I ended up pregnant at 16. So logically I should totally take your advice that I shouldn't have gotten my 13 y/o on birth control or given her condoms. Because that makes total sense. She won't follow my footsteps. She won't be in the situation I was in. She won't have to make the sacrifices I did. Because I'm a decent parent, not an "idiot", not someone who "made a huge mistake". I'm a parent who knows what teenagers do. I'm a parent who knows that teens need to know and be prepared for some adult situations. I didn't fuck up, YOU DID. I'm not making the same mistakes that you did. So shut the fuck up already.

I hate how people act like ignoring a problem is going to stop if from happening. Good on you for doing this.

I was driving, just picking up eggs and cheese. Nighttime, pretty dark. I go past an intersection, I have a green light, and all of a sudden I smash right into someone. A guy on a trail bike who blew a red light, no headlights or tail lights or anything and it was dark so I didn't see him. I stop the car and sit for 15 seconds, I start hyperventilating. I get out slowly to see what's happening. A small crowd has formed, someone is calling 911, a couple people are trying to help him, so I just sit on the curb and look at what I've done to this guy. I can see the blood coming from him. I can hear these sounds as he is choking on his blood. He looks bad, but I couldn't do anything but stare at him. People come over to check if I'm okay and of course I am, but I can't believe what I've done to this guy and I'm shaking and can't get an answer out easily. Time passes, police come, I give the police officer my info, the guy gets into the ambulance, and I just go back to my car. Police officers say I didn't do anything wrong, and there are a lot of witnesses that corroborate with that sentiment, it was near a festival, and I drive the two blocks or so home. I just found out today that I killed him. He was in his 20s, like me. He had a child. I keep on imagining people coming to me and asking why this happen. I keep on imagining his family or his friends coming to me asking why. I imagine his son asking me why. I imagine police coming to arrest me. Over and over in my head I play through these scenarios. I've been staring out the window whenever I hear anything happen outside expecting it to be someone who has come for me. This is fucked! If I didn't get eggs he would've been fine. His kid would've had a dad. Hell if I was going slower it wouldn't have happened, not to say I was speeding but idk. If I had better perception maybe? Idk it's just fucked and I feel bad. Edit: Thank you, all who are commenting with the kind words. It is very nice of you all! Tbh I feel like I'm capitalizing on this person's death, stealing glory or something from killing him because of all this attention. Just do you know I'm fine!! I'm not like, crying in my bed or anything. I'm not having a panic attack about it, or am anxiety attack. I'm not thinking of doing anything bad. I don't feel traumatized, I feel normal! If anything I feel like I should be worse off. I feel like another person wrote this post, honestly. So much attention. Please do not worry for me. I've just been laying in bed. I watched a movie. I'm actually unironically fine.

This sounds absolutely terrible and unbelievably hard but it’s not your fault, had he not ran the red light he would still be alive, if you hadn’t gone out it to shop for groceries someone else probably would be in your place . This is a tragedy but it’s not your fault and beating yourself up will not help you, him or his family. It’s gonna get rough and I strongly suggest seeking a therapist before it starts to get worse, I hope you’re able to get through this, it was a terrible accident that was caused by him breaking a law not by you.

im tired of abusers being in kink spaces and claiming their moral failures are welcome there. its not a kink, its a sickness. im tired of abusers being in the furry fandom and garnering huge popularity as "popufurs", fursuit makers and artists. i dont feel welcome there anymore. im tired of abusers being in regression communities and pretending that their disguising paraphilias are welcome in a safe space. and im tired of being recommended companies made by pedophiles when i ask for tools to help for regression. im tired of abusers trying to worm their way into queer spaces, welcoming themselves at pride and claiming their moral failures are kinks or sexualities. claiming anyone who doesn't accept them as bigots. im tired of abusers in the anime industry and fandom, the people who create sexual fanservice of minors and animals and those who defend it. im tired of abusers in the gaming industry. you already know what i mean. im tired of abusers in the government, as lawmakers, in the school system, as influencers, as parents, as lawyers and doctors and therapists and cops. im tired of the cunts who think jerking off to pretend zoophilia and pedophilia makes it okay. im tired of abusers as strangers, walking by, pretending to be normal, and id never know. did you know an estimated 1 in 3 girls are sexually abused before they turn 18 and 1 in 5 boys did you know beastiality isnt illegal on a federal level in the united states only 310 of 1000 cases of sexual abuse are reported someone in the US gets raped every 60-90-ish seconds or something and like only 10% of men who are sexually abused report it isnt that fucked up isnt that fucked up why are we so fucked up - EDIT: thank you for the gold and other awards! to add: the last line was rhetorical. i know why these things happen. i know why we're this fucked up. you dont need to answer it. but also feel free to. also, please, if you have an issue with what i said in this post, go elsewhere. i am not wanting or willing to argue the moral relativity about sexual abuse nor the glorification of it. its unhelpful and disrespectful and overall useless. all you're going to get is blocked and maybe possibly reported. also yes, i know non-offenders exist. this isnt about them

I agree. Pedophiles worming their way into the LGBTQ space has really set us back years as far as where the community wants to be, because the people against the community believe that we vouch for them, when we vehemently do not. Yet here they are ruining things for the rest of us. And I agree with everything else.. if there's anything that some humans will be, it's cruel, no matter what. Look at any zombie apocalypse show. Still got your abusers and creeps.

Look.. I’m a gun toting red-white-and blue bleeding conservative. I believe in smaller government, less government over-reach, teaching people self governance and less taxes. I am a veteran of oif and oef and believe in the idea that the constitution set I stone for our country. My nephew came out as transgender and wants to be referred to as a female, she is biologically male. I broke down. And not because I’m against it.. I broke down because I believe in the idea of freedom. To live your life the way you see fit as long as you don’t do damage to anyone else. I’ve never put too much thought into it. I might even not agree with it. But does that matter? If you believe in freedom, your beliefs fall to the wayside. I completely support my nephew. It’s going to be a hard life for her. But I would gladly and willingly pick up my rifle in defense of her. Fuck your religion or your pre-conceived ideas. Let her live the way she wants to, or deal with me. That’s my vent, thanks for listening.

I think a BIG misconception is that all "freedom loving conservatives" automatically double up as religious nut bats which it seems like you don't because you didn't mention god at all in this post or from comments I've seen. I personally think that if she was comfortable enough to come out to you despite your politics then you must be doing something right. For future reference though you can call her your 'niece' lol.

Today is my birthday, I went to olive garden ( My favorite restaurant ) I invited my parents and a close friend of mine. My friend walked in the restaurant with a godamn laptop and headphones, And pretty much refused to talk to me while playing some game. I had dinner and tried to look past it and have a good time. Half way through he got up and said "it's been good man I gotta go" and he left. My parents a few minutes later thought that him leaving meant they should leave aswell. So they left and a sat there for a good ten minutes, then I paid and got in my car, I just sat there crying for a while. Then I went home, right now I'm just sitting here typing this, honestly man it feels like no one cares about you sometimes. I just wish some people weren't such fuckheads. (Fyi my parents were very respectful about it, I could've said something)

Happy birthday and honestly, you're too young for this. Nobody deserves to get treated like shit by not only their "friends" but also their parents. I hope you find a new circle that not only loves but appreciates who you are as a human being. Again - happy birthday 🎂 🥳 ♥️

He was 44 and the most selfless amazing human being I have ever met. He was beautiful inside and out. 2 months after he was diagnosed with a pancreatic neuroendocrine tumor that metastasized to his liver he is gone. I don’t even know what else to feel or say. My best friend is gone. *Wow Thank you everyone. I’m really just in shock still. Anthony Justin Braden was the healthiest person I knew one of the strongest people I’ve ever had the honor of being with. His back started hurting in September badly. He worked so hard everyday he thought he just did something to it and then he started losing weight which he thought was because of working so much. He told me then he’d been having black poop and the same night at the end of Nov he threw up coffee grounds. It took him so fast. The most handsome and kind man. This world is so cruel.

I’m so sorry for your loss. I wish I could give you a hug.

I have never told a soul on this Earth about this but maybe it will relieve me and my inner child. I am currently 22 years old now, but this trauma has carried on with me but I think it’s time to live my truth. When I was a child, around 6-7, my parents were already divorced but were still (somewhat) seeing each other because of me and my 3 other siblings. But there were multiple times where they would have sex in the same room as me. One vivid memory I have is, I sat in front of the TV in the middle of the night while they were behind me having sex, and it was LOUD. There were also times that they would either kick me out of the room to do so and I could still hear them. Worst of all, is seeing my dad full on naked at such a young age. I was constantly exposed to sexual exhibition when I shouldn’t have been. It affects me to this day and I’m well aware of it. If I’m sleeping over somewhere, and I think someone is having sex or I could hear them having sex, my body instantly freezes. It’s like I’m a child all over again. I feel like this trauma also ties into me being as hypersexual as I am. This trauma has messed me up for so long and after all these years, I’m finally able to say something even if it’s just in a post. But after this, I think I’m finally going to sit down and talk to my partner about this. UPDATE: WOW thank you guys for the validation and support, I feel so seen. I had the conversation with my boyfriend and it was extremely relieving, despite how difficult it was. My inner child thanks me and most importantly thanks you guys! I’m going to continue taking steps in my healing journey…This push was really needed.

That is sexual abuse honey.

Today, my sister (5F) was having an argument or something of the like with someone in my family. I don't know who, or why, but she was getting extremely fired up and angry. She said, point blank, 'I'm glad I killed baby Bubby.' For context, 'Bubby' is the nickname my family gave my little brother (16m/o M) before he died. When my siblings and I were at school and my mom was at work, my dad went to change the laundry and consequently leaving my baby brother and, at the time, 3 y/o sister alone in the room together. A few minutes after he left, she came into the laundry room and said 'Bubby's sleeping'. My dad ran into his room and found my brother strangled in the blind cords. He died in the hospital three days later on October 1, 2021... We all thought it was some freak accident and have been mourning his death for just over 2 years. Now, though, what she said changes everything about what we thought. I don't know what to think or feel other than shock or pain. Is it possible for a three year old to even think of, let alone DO, something like this??? Thank you for reading... (Edit 1: We are now getting her therapy and as is the rest of our family. We are hoping that it will help everyone to process what all has happened in the last five years.) (Edit 2: My sister is five years old, she was three when the accident happened.)

I say all this as a layperson. I would think she needs some serious therapy and a potential psychological evaluation. One of two things is possible from what I can tell from this post: either your sister has internalized serious blame over your brother’s death, having been the only person in the room and therefore “responsible” for him (from her 3yo POV), and has transfigured that pain into the idea that she did it on purpose to try to take agency back over the pain; or she actually intentionally harmed him and needs evaluation and assistance immediately for the best possible outcome for her moving forward.

I work at Target, and I’ve seen a lot of questionable things working around people everyday, but never as bad as I did the other day. I was stocking pads and tampons on the shelf when a lady with 3 kids, all of them crying, walked up to me to ask where the handheld fans were at. There was one child in particular who was crying very loud, and the mother said “You have been doing this all day! You are getting on my last nerve!” And I’ve never seen a mother smack a child in the face, right in front of me in the store. This kid only looked about 5-6 years old. The smack was so loud I felt it pierce my ear. I didn’t know what to do. I wanted to yell, tell her to stop, just, SOMETHING, but I just froze. I feel so bad for that kid. This poor child is way too young to understand emotional regulation, and a parent is supposed to comfort it and provide entertainment and distraction to ease the child. I don’t understand how a parent can be like “my child is crying, well the best solution is to cause it pain!! That’s clearly going to stop the crying” It honestly kinda caused some type of trauma resurgence for me. Corporal punishment is cruel. Hitting your child doesn’t teach them to act better or be better people, just makes them change there behaviors around the parent out of fear of pain, while slowly driving them away from you.

My mom used to beat me, and she would tell me, "Quit crying or I will give you something to cry about!" She used to try to justify it by telling me that my grandpa used to beat her with his belt. I didn't put too much thought into it at the time because I was 8 and below, but thinking about it now at 34 years old, that's not a good justification and she knew how badly it felt, so it would look like she wouldn't want to inflict that trauma onto me.

My father accidentally sent me a text message back in July 2021. The message took way too long to register in my head. The last line said “I love you baby and I can’t wait to see you tomorrow.” The problem is, my parents are married. They live together. Why tf would my dad say can’t wait to see you tomorrow to my mom?! Oh right. HE TEXTED ME INSTEAD OF HIS SIDE PIECE. And that’s how I learned my dad was/is having an affair. He immediately called me and asked me to delete the message. He said it was nothing and that more feelings would be hurt if I say anything. I’ve stayed quiet. My mom and I were watching a tv show and she made a comment on the show about how devastating it would be for a child to know a secret about a parent and not say anything. I froze. But still said nothing. Just nodded along. So there. I’m telling you all. Cause it’s been eating me alive every day. UPDATE: I talked to my dad about it and how I felt. He has not told her about the text but he did tell her about the other woman. And I’m fine with this. So my mom knows. Thank for those with kind words. Everyone else who told me how horrible I am can have the day they deserve.

tell her... to keep this secret will hurt her more then telling her now because when she finds out later not only will she be peeved at him but you 2, so i would tell her... but then again i have a big hatred of cheaters and i think that there the worst kinda people

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You will bully me, you will downvote me, you will report me ,but I just basically don't give a single shit at this point. I may be emotional and say a lot of stupid things right now, but here it goes. Let me just say I'm absolutely 100% against the war, I'm on the side of people, it's a magor tragedy and I still can't believe it's happening. I don't support Putin, frankly, I don't support any country in this conflict, because it's every country's fault. (This text is not addressed to all redditors. You'll know if it's addressed to you or not. It will find it's receiver.) But that's not why I'm here. I'm here because I'm fucking sick of you. I'm sick of your fucking games, I'm sick of your speech, I'm sick of your comments "Fuck Russia" "Finally Ukrainians killed another Russian soldier". I'm sick of your trust in news. You basically believe anything that's anti-russian at this point, you don't double check. You know why? Because it's anti-russian! Why would they need to desinform me? But they do. And they do it a lot. But if some pro-russian news pop up, it's propaganda and you need the source, or double-triple check (Russia desinforms too, my point is you double check only those, whose opinion you don't like) . But most of all I'm sick of your peacekeeper games, "StOP thE WaR! ItS inHUmAne". I'm not saying that's a bad position, no. It's a good position, and I support you. BUT WHERE THE FUCK WERE YOU ALL THESE EIGHT LONG YEARS? WHERE THE FUCK WERE YOU ALL WHEN PEOPLE GOT SNIPED AND KILLED ON MAIDAN? WHERE THE FUCK WERE YOU WHEN ARMED SOLDIERS STOPPED BUSSES WITH FLEEING REFUGEES AND BEAT THEM UP HUH? WHERE THE FUCK WAS YOUR ANTI WAR SPIRIT WHEN PEOPLE GOT KILLED IN DONBAS FOR EIGHT YEARS? WHERE THE FUCK WAS YOUR HELP WHEN PRESIDENT POROSHENKO SAID: "We will have a job - they do not. We will have pensions - they don't. We will have support for people - children and pensioners - but they don't. Our children will go to schools and kindergartens, and they will sit in their basements. Because they can't do anything! This is how, this is how we will win this war." ABOUT DONBAS AND IT'S PEOPLE?!?! Imagine if Putin said that. Just imagine what would happen to your minds. You'd be screaming and screeching. Every little fucking snail will have an opinion about this. But why didn't you screech then? Answer me. Why? I know why. Because now, politics is a trend for you. You do it because it's a trend, it's like a sort of a game to you all. You didn't dig into this topic then, that's why your knowledge consists of mainly things, they told you now. That's why to you this war started because Putin is a power hungry maniac, not because of a complex and multilayered geopolitical situation between eastern and western blocks. That's why to you, Zelensky is a white angel with golden wings, who bravely goes to the frontlines to his soldiers and asks evil Putin to stop the war, not a president who not only ignored all Russias offers to stop the war in Donbas, but mocked Russian government for even suggesting such a thing. I'm not writing a fairy tale here, these are all facts. You are all fucking hypocrites, you care, when it's a trend to care, not when people are in need of care. Because they were, they were in need of care for eight fucking years. You were silent. You were busy doing things that matter to YOU. You know who actually cares? The fucking sides. US(not United States). Ukrainians and Russians. When YOU people claim Russians as war criminals, Putins dogs, maniacs, barbarians, when you cheer for burned corpses of my people, how do you think we feel? We feel relieved and good, that finally we got what we deserved?(they got what they deserved if Ukrainians) Ritorical question. NO WE FUCKING DON'T. WE SUFFER, EVERY DAY AND NIGHT WE CAN'T SLEEP BECAUSE OF WHAT'S HAPPENING AND YOU ARE JUST SPILL GAS ALL OVER THIS FIRE. Let me tell you a secret. Half of what you believe is happening is a lie. Because you don't do anything to double check or research something on your own. Because you started to receive information at the peak of the information war. Please, I'm begging you, start thinking for yourselves, research, observe, analyze. If you don't want to do that, just don't do politics, you are just causing more pain and misinformation Peace Edit: Please don't make this about me, think of people I am talking about and people who are truly suffering.

OP the sad reality is, most people don’t care. It’s as you say, politics are a trend in the west. People don’t bother to do actual research and just watch their favourite news source while condemning other sources they deem fake. You can already tell by some of the comments here that people don’t care. If it’s not what they believe is true, it’s all lies. I’m not sure what to say other than I’m sorry for you and all the innocent citizens that have to go through this.

Hi anyone reading this I really hate how people assume I shouldn't be alone with my niece because I'm a guy. Today is a hot day so I took my niece to the park after getting her favorite ice cream cone for doing great in school this week and for the fact she likes to learn. So at the park she's running around having fun I can't chase her like I use to( bad back).there is a couple of lady's on the other side watching me as I am relaxing and one walked over to me. She asked if she's mine I said no she's my niece. The woman had a disgusted expression and asked does her mom know she's does why the hell wouldn't she. The woman said afterwards men like you shouldn't be let alone with kids. I told her and nut jobs like you shouldn't have any she looked surprised and stomped back to her friends when one started either picturing or video taping me while one was on the phone. it I chose to just get my niece and take her to the book store so she can read some books and I can find some nice recipes to cook with her anf my wife. Why can't I just enjoy a day in peace it was such a nice day too. Edited to add. Hi thanks for all the support I gotten from a couple peoples comments that there seems to be something missing but this is all I can think of I truly don't know why she did this and I don't know if a did something that might have triggered her. Also I spend a lot of time with my niece because she's dealing with a rough home custody issues and not to mention the fact her half siblings get special treatment. I do these things with my niece because her parents haven't been paying attention to her work in school or her efforts in the extra curriculums she's been doing not to mention the fact she doesn't feel welcomed at home. She's a very smart kid her teachers believe she might even be able to jump a grade I want her to feel rewarded for her works and good behavior and she really loves this unicorn Sunday cone it taste like overly sweet cotton candy I prefer mint

That’s ridiculous and outdated. I’m sorry you had that experience. You sound like a great uncle who cares about your niece.

I was at the grocery store earlier. This guy sneezes, so I say 'Bless you', just to be polite. Y'know what a good response to that is? It's 'thank you'. I don't believe in a higher power, but I still say 'thank you', because I'm not a jag. Shit, I'd take a minor nod, or even fucking silence while you wholesale ignore my entire existence. I'm not particularly socially outgoing, so I'd ***loooooove*** to just be ignored. You know what the wrong answer is? It's 'No thank you', and then launching into a 3 minute diatribe about how you don't believe in one or many gods, or how it's not the stone age, or how much more 'evolved' and 'enlightened' you are because you don't believe in religion. Why don't you 'evolve' into someone who takes a shower, or be 'enlightened' enough to shave your shitty patchy neckbeard. I could maybe understand if it was some angsty teenager, but this was a guy who looked like he was in his 30s, *at least.* You're not cool, and I'm pretty sure that everyone that saw you turn beet red while ranting at a stranger at a Safeway thought that you are a fuckwhistle. Grow up, and eat a fucking salad every once in a while.

One of the reasons I answer "I'm not religious" when asked is because the term "atheist" can conjure up images of dudes acting like this. Like I get it, I live in the south and cashiers sometimes say "Have a blessed day!" I just say "You too!" and move on with my life instead of screaming in a stranger's face.

i took the ACT recently and got a 33. for the uninitiated, the ACT is scored out of 36, and i think average is 18. a score of 33 puts me at the 99% percentile, meaning that i did better on that test than 99% of my peers. so i come home and say "i got a 33 on the ACT!" cause hey, even though I hate standardized testing and everything it stands for, i'm actually pretty happy that i did that well and my mom immediately starts talking about how i should start studying the section that i did worst on, so i can retake the test in June and improve my score i am. so tired. i just wanted her to be proud of me. i did really well but it's not good enough

Wtf? a 33 Act score can easily get you into honors programs for college straight out of highschool + grants and extra scholarship money if you apply for it. She’s just being a “mom” and probably doesn’t realize how insanely good that score is. Maybe she’s being a little overprotective, maybe she’s a little miserable and unintentionally lectured you so you wouldn’t get a big head. Idk, It sucks that she’s not sharing your excitement but maybe she was just in a bad mood or something. We’re all human and make mistakes, I’m 100% certain that even though she is a little strict on you, there’s absolutely no way she’s not proud that you scored so high. Will definitely be bragging to her coworkers if any of them bring up their kids scores (which 9/10 won’t be anywhere near yours. I made a 22 and have one of the highest act scores out of everybody i talk to)

She's a lying trashbox and now Johnny Depp just got fired from fantastic beasts. I hope he wins his appeal to the UK supreme court. I can't believe that she hasn't been fired for her shit. The evidence is unreal, she's a manipulating bitch. I seriously hate her so much for what she's doing to him. This whole scenario is bullshit. I really hope karma gets her soon. I will never watch any movie with her name attached to it.

Its so disgusting that we almost got his career ruined and was now fired but that trash still mantained her job at aquamen, even after the whole proof she was guilty, even Loreal (i think), kept supporting her saying she was the most brave woman and to all brave women like her....hell naw, i dont understand why if its a man he loses it all just by rumor but women dont even if theres proof of it.

It grosses me out so much. I genuinely don’t understand how any adult can be like that towards a child. I feel awful for my minor friends that have had bad experiences with pedophiles. What kind of sick person would actually do that to a kid of all people? I was/am disgusted when I learned my ex is a pedo. I’m younger than him & even I know better. Anybody that sexually exploits children is deranged. My heart really does go out to the kids & people that have fallen victim to pedophiles :(

I’ve been thinking about this a lot lately, especially with this whole Kendrick and Drake beef going on.

When my mom started dating my abusive stepdad, they had sex very loud. I remember one instance in particular, the one that traumatized me the most. I was a about 9 years old and sitting in the living room with my older sister sleeping on the couch and my siblings sleeping in the room down the hall. My mom, an alcoholic at the time, and him were blackout drunk one night and decided to have sex, which is fine. It's totally normal for two adults in a relationship to have sex, but the thing that's not fine is how loud they were being, practically screaming. Hearing them do that disturbed me so much that writing this now I'm holding back tears. I asked them to stop, which they didn't. I asked them over and over until I was balling my eyes out and screaming for them to shut the fuck up. My stepdad came out with his erection very obviously showing through his sweatpants and screamed in my face that he loved my mom very much and that it's fine for them to have sex, meanwhile I was crying and trying to ignore his erection that is burned into my brain. In order to distract myself, and to spite them, I blasted captain underpants on the TV, to which he came into the living room and turned it off. These instances continued through their relationship and the fact that we lived in a trailer didn't help because there was no privacy and it rocked back and forth. One night I was scared so I snuck into their room and put myself into my mom's arms who was asleep, but she started moaning and I realized they started having sex. I left the room. Looking back on this instance, I don't understand what happened. How was she moaning while she was asleep? I remember her being asleep. Couldn't she feel me in her arms, so why would she do that? Why would my stepdad do that if I was in the room? Did they not hear me? Did I just happen to come in at the wrong time? Were they having sleep sex and they didn't realize I was there? Or did they just not care... Ever since, these occurrences have haunted me. I'm not someone who cries easily, but writing and talking about this makes me cry almost every time. For instance, once in the car with my mom and stepdad in the front seat, my dad began teasingly touching my mom near her groin. This reminded me of what happened and I tried not to cry so I wouldn't make a scene, but I began screaming stop it over and over again while crying uncontrollably. Once I calmed down, my stepdad simply said, "well that was strange" and the rest of the car ride was silent. My mom apologized for everything eventually and said that she really hoped she hadn't fucked me up. Well, you did mom. I didn't say that though, I lied and said I forgave her. My mom told me that my step dad thought I got off on what happened. Thinking about everything and how it has affected me, that statement makes me so angry. How could he think that? Sometimes I wonder if I've overreacted, though. Sex is normal and healthy, isn't it? I don't know. Is this normal? edit: thank you everyone for the upvotes and positive responses! I really appreciate your feedback edit again: I feel like it's important to note that I'm not innocent either, and honestly I feel like I'm just as bad as my mom. After the things I experienced with my parents, I think my understanding of what's appropriate around family was warped. Honestly I didn't realize what had happened with my parents was as bad as it was until I posted this. When I was around the age of 12, which in my opinion is old enough to know better, I used to masturbate under the blankets with people, my family and friends, in the room. There was this one instance in particular with my little sister and our friend Bella where it was really hot that day so somehow we thought it was okay to have a cold shower together. It wasn't sexual in any nature, but being naked in a shower with your little sister and a friend, who were both around 10, is creepy and fucked up regardless. I don't remember whether we had bathing suits on or not, but I do specifically remember getting dry and I had a towel wrapped around me and I flashed them because people often thought I was a boy so it was a "told you I'm a girl" sort of thing. I guess it was supposed to be funny, but really it's just fucked up and I should have known better. I don't know why I did that because the whole time I had this pit of anxiety in my stomach and I just forced myself to act like I was comfortable because, "this is normal, right? We're all girls." No. No it's not. It's something I look back on a lot and I wanted to share it because I feel it's unfair to act like I haven't done similar things to what my parents did to me and my siblings. idk

That is straight perverted, no other way to spin it. I'm so sorry, no child should be subjected to that. I wish you all the best healing.

She died this morning. She was only 19 years old. She had her whole fucking life ahead of her and now shes fuxking dead from an overdose. She called me yesterday and told me she was using fentanyl and i got so fucjing scared for her and wanted to beg her to get some help but she hung up before i could. I was supposed to call her today and beg her to go to rehab or something but im too fuckkng late. Shes fucking gone and theres nothing nobody can do about it. Its so fucking unfair. She was a beautiful young woman and was just starting her adult life. She was so happy and funny and smart. And al it took for her to be turned into nothing but a memory was that fucking bullshit fentanyl. And all this 8 months after our grandma died. It hurts so fukcing much that even alcohol cant numb the pain rn. I just feel like my cheat was ripped wide open and my heart was ripped out. And thw only thing i can do about it is cry and scream and hug her picture. It just hirts so fucking much. Edit: thanks for all your kind words everybody. My heart goes out to all of you who have also lost someone very near and dear to your heart. Idk if ill ever get used to it but some of you have given me hope that its at least a possibility. Askwali.

I am sorry for your loss, all I can say is the hurt is there because your love is so strong. Don't dismiss your pain, it means you care. It will feel like you can't get back up but I promise you, you will be okay. Reach out for support, let your emotions out and take care of yourself. Your sister would have wanted the best for you just as you did for her.

I’m just so frustrated at social media, I’m so tired of people calling this hoax. My great aunt, my uncle, and my cousins father in law, gone in one month. I live in Brooklyn a community that has been hit so hard by this virus, nobody is going out to protest, nobody is calling this a joke here, and nobody is making this political. We are literally warning the country about a virus that can take there loved ones, and the response is that it’s a hoax.

I'm sorry for your lost . I can see your frustration and I'm very sorry. I wish people took this more seriously. I think that as long as some places are in business people won't understand the severity of the situation. As long as some people say it's okay , too many people will continue to act like they do. It's so depressing when you have tons of commercials saying "we are in this together " and it's clearly not how many present themselves.

Like, man where to begin lol. I'm a male and being that I'm 6'4 and mixed, but appear black, jeeze Louise, I CALLED THE COPS DUE TO A WHITE LADY STEALING PEOPLE'S MAIL, MINE INCLUDED. that needed to be in caps. Two white female officers pull up, and start talking to the lady who is now outside crying because I yelled at her AS SHE WAS STEALING MY MAIL "this is your one fucking warning next time I'm gonna knock your head off" Something like that. She then puts my mail down, in the mud, and says "is that a threat? Are you THREATENING A WOMAN?" trying to get all loud, so I'm like I'm not getting involved I do not wanna end up in jail after knocking some heffer out. I stay inside call cops, the two white female officers show up as stated before, talking to the lady outside first, then come to my door knock on my door "What seems to be the problem here, I hear you're threatening people?" I explain I called them, why I called them due to the thief woman they just spoke to before me, and show them my mail parcel in the mud. To which they respond "its not an issue that we spoke to her first sir, were getting the full story" To which I respond "so the full story starts off with accusing me of threatening people?" The two female officers lol they then start going full rambo: "just keep your hands by your side sir, is anyone else in the house sir? You been drinking? any drugs today, no weapons anything we gotta worry about?" Me: "yeah I called you guys and have a loaded RPG on the coffee table" (this was the moment I knew I fucked up, like unless you're Chris rock, fucking Dave chappelle, like unless u have a white guy first name and make people laugh, you can't be joking like that) "how about you step outside and talk to us sir" After asking why, and being told "it's for everyone's safety and to "talk" I step outside to a SUV pulling up with 2 additional male cops, who get out full like swat like anything you could purchase to look "cooler" as a cop these guys purchased, and just stand with hand near holsters to show I suppose just in case "this escalates" At this point I'm looking around at all these clowns, the person who stole from me, and officers slowly approaching telling me to calm down. I couldn't help it, I just blurted out: "Do you want me to lay down with my neck exposed so you can kneel on it? Is that what you fucks want? If I'm not under arrest I'm going back inside, as I don't want someone accidentally murdering me today." They continued talking some bs about just wanting to talk, and I just went inside and locked the door. and that Reddit, is why black people, don't call the cops. Reason #6748836372.

For mail theft, contact the USPS. They have an postal inspector whose jurisdiction is federal. Way more threatening and effective than your local police.

I (19F) was mad at my cousin (18M) because he would be horrible about my trans gf. He would post very homophobic, racist and sexist things on instagram and tiktok. So in general, he just really pushed my buttons. He was recently involved in some anti immigration protests and an image of him was shared online because the police were looking for him. I was annoyed at him that day so I identified and named him to the police. He went to court yesterday and he’s looking at 2-4 years in prison over his violent disorder in the protests. I can’t even imagine the chaos if anyone ever found out

Imo sounds like you did the right thing he sounds vile

We're in our mid 20's, they've got less than a decade if we're lucky, half that if theyre not. I feel guilty because I pushed them to get a symptom checked and now they're on a clock. Its incurable and they couldve lived without the knowledge for longer, I can't talk to anyone about it because they've only told me so I guess I'm here now. I've lost people before but never anyone this close. As soon as they left I just broke down & havent stopped crying. I feel so selfish that I'm so upset because it's not about me, they've got so many dreams, so much they want to do in their life and they'll be dead by 35. They're the most incredible person I know, my absolute ride or die and they're the last person that deserves this. Not that anyone does but especially not them.

You pushed them to get a symptom checked. This is what friends do when they care for eachother. You didnt give them the symptom. It was there. You got nothing to feel guilty about. If anything, you have prolonged life.

Basically I was on an 18+ website. Saw a picture in the main chat that I liked and pressed on it to download it. Only problem is that at the same time I pressed someone else sent a message so I accidentally downloaded their picture instead. Their picture had CP and a link to sell more. Im so unbeliveably disgusted and terrified. I did NOT NOT NOT want that on my phone. Deleted it immediately ofc but still ew ew ew. I really feel bad for them kids. I REALLY HOPE WE HELP THE CHILDREN I sent a tip to my local police and Im super nervous that they'll wanna talk to me (Im really shy and nervous as a person as it is, and Im ashamed of how much 18+ websitrs I visit) At least pls mail me first I really hope the kids get helped and that I dont get arrested for bad timing. I am many things but a pedo is not one of those things.

I have a 20 something nephew (I am the aunt that he calls when he freaks out) that had something like this happen (he contacted the FBI). They never followed up with him. Law enforcement realizes that somebody who is a pedo is not going to be reporting anything to law enforcement (since digital trail could come back to them).

I(18f) have had a rocky relationship with my parents for as long as I can remember. My parents are stuck in the 1700s and they think that a woman’s only purpose is to cook, clean, and have kids and because of this they have always treated me lesser to my siblings (I am the only daughter out of 6 kids.) So, when the topic of college came up they told me they would not be contributing at all as they don’t believe a woman should go to college. Instead they want me to find a husband asap and start having kids. I on the other hand want to go to college in Europe and travel the world. So, a couple months ago I booked a flight to Paris and have decided to backpack around Europe for the summer until college starts. I have secretly saved up lots of cash from jobs and investing over the years as well as an inheritance I got from my grandma (about 20k.) I’m really excited however I feel so guilty everytime I’m by my family as I know that in 2 days I will be leaving and never coming back. What should I do? I know I have to tell them that I’m leaving but how and when? Update: so, I’ve just had the hardest 24 of my life. I’m also going to be simplifying this a lot. Yesterday at 6:00pm I packed my final things, told my parents I was staying the night at my friends and I wouldn’t be back till dinner the next day, and gave my brothers a final goodbye. My friends then picked me up to go out for a going away party for me. Then, after the party I got back to my friends house where I stayed the night at and then at 4am I left home for my flight. Once I was boarding my flight I texted my best friend, (who has a key to my house) to go into my house and leave the note explaining everything on my bed. (My family wasn’t home, they were all at church) Once I turned off my airplane mode I was flooded with hundreds of missed calls and texts; all from my family asking if this was some kind of joke. All I replied with was a picture of me at the airport with all my bags, which I sent to my mom, and then put my phone on do not disturb. I am writing this at the US embassy in Paris rn while sorting out all the paperwork. It’s so pretty here in Europe (although Paris is a little more dirty then I thought) and I can’t believe this is my life!!! As always, I’ll keep u guys updated!

This is a perfect time to write a letter. You can leave it for them in an obvious place or mail it to them as you’re leaving

My husband has made sure I know I need to make him finish every night. It doesn’t matter what type of mood I’m in or if I’m not feeling it. I just got back from a work trip a week ago and every night I’ve had to make him finish 2 to 3 times. And he purposely make it take longer so it hurts after a while. He’ll want to bang at ten until sometimes even two in the morning when he knows I have work in the morning. But he doesn’t work so it’s fine. If he wakes up before me on days off, he’ll either wake me up to bang or just start masturbating on me and touching me in ways he knows I don’t like. It’s just so annoying and I would like one day that isn’t on my period were I don’t have to have sex with him.

Okay. Spousal rape and spousal sexual assault is something that is not often discussed but it’s actually illegal in a v lot of countries and absolutely immoral and wrong. What in the actual fuck, lady. Pack your fucking bags and gtfo. The bum doesn’t even work?!?! So he’s not meeting up to his “manly duties” (according to his antiquated Stone Age views) while he expects you to keep your end of the bargain? Fuck. That. Noise. Seriously. Bounce. Go to your parents, go to your friends, so to a god damn motel. Just get the fuck away from this turd.

I am so relieved. For weeks I was terrified that I had cancer, but today my doctor confirmed it's not cancer!!!!!! Today is a good day. Edit: thank you for all the good vibes, everyone! Have an awesome day :)

A very good day indeed!!! 🎉

No, Jessica, having 8 bodies when you're in 8th grade isn't a "flex." It's terrible. You're not a baddie for sleeping with people when you're just a baby. And these young girls have to stop thinking confidence and exploitation are the same thing. You should wear anything you want *that's reasonable for your age* You are not going to fucking school in a tube top and a mini skirt. You're just a child. You're going to wear awkward jeans and justice tees like I did. And you ain't wearing makeup either. I know social media makes you think you have to be "sexy" and grown up and wear makeup, but you're just babies!! Edit; yes I do realize that adults and social media are the problem but there comes a point where kids no longer look like kids. They look 20 years old sometimes. On one hand you got the teenagers that do not care regardless of how many people tell them to be safe and this and that and they end up getting groomed or kidnapped or molested or God forbid what else; and on the other hand you have the group of teenagers that does care but they just want to feel liberated. Unless you are fully educated on sex and the dangers of online predators, and grooming and whatnot, you absolutely should not be dressing up in incredibly clad clothing to feel liberated. I know some people may disagree with that. I also want to say I am all for teens learning about proper sex, and it is most definitely true that in some parts of the world there are teens out there with a very high body count by the time they're in eighth grade.

Children losing their innocence too soon has led to a myriad of problems with the youth. I watched one episode of 'Euphoria' and was thinking, "why is this so popular with adults?!" I feel gross watching teenagers fuck. It's weird.

Ugh. I really don’t like my job sometimes. One of my coworkers is AFAB and is trans male. This is important for later. He’s an okay worker but he is about as pleasant to be around as a nest of hornets sometimes. I’m civil with him but he’s the kind of person who is only happy when everyone else is miserable. We’re supposed to stay politically neutral on the clock. No political or religious or any type of discussions of that sort allowed. Makes sense because that’s only going to divide us further. Unfortunately this guy flouts the rules constantly, trying to pick fights. All in all, a real ball of sunshine. Anyways, we had a new worker join us. Shes nice and we all like her. Well, I introduced everyone and all seemed hunky dory. We were doing our jobs and the new worker asked me if “she knows where it is” when we couldn’t find an item. Well, little Mr. Joy of Joys overhears and tears this poor girl a new one. Poor girl was apologizing profusely, claiming she forgot (which makes sense because she had only just met him). But he was PISSED. You would’ve thought she had drowned a bag of puppies in front of him. I said “Hey dude. It was an accident. She apologized. Just chill!” But Mr. Ray of Sunshine turned on me (which I could tolerate). Fortunately our boss came in, overheard what was going on and shot down the argument: Look, I don’t care who you are on the gender spectrum. I really don’t. But if you treat someone badly because they made a mistake in addressing you…that’s on you, not them. I’m just so frustrated with him.

Yeah, that's shitty. I have a few friends who aren't cis, and while I wouldn't say it seems like they enjoy getting misgendered, they never make somebody feel bad about an honest mistake. Especially when the person misgendering them immediately apologises.

It REEEEEAAAALLLLYYYY sucks when you get back in touch with a friend you haven't talked to in months because of adhd lack of object permanence, and last they knew, you were pregnant and they were excited for you, and you have to tell another person that you didn't get to keep your baby. In October, my baby died at 22 days old from a brain condition. It reopens the wound every time I have to tell someone, including doctors I haven't seen since it happened. Fuck. My. Life.

I'm really sorry

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This is sickening to read to say the least but we must stay vigilant for our children!

FINALLY. FUCKING FINALLY. JUSTICE FOR 15 YEARS FULL OF ABUSE. SHE IS THE REASON I WANTED TO DIE AND NOW SHE IS FACING JUSTICE. HALLELUJA ITS JUST 40 DAYS BUT IDC Edit: Thanks for the awards! they mean alot to me, especially on a post like this! ❤

Congrats bro. Idk what your story is but I am very happy that your abuser(I'm assuming you are the victim) is getting some justice. Even if it's only 40 days, her integrity as a person within society is ruined publicly now by serving time. Every job, credit check, loan application, etc. she will have to state that she is a convicted abuser. Serves her right. Stay safe OP! ​ edit: spelling error

I’m a 15 year old male who just lost his mother, my twin bother and I (along with our father) are trying to stay positive, I just need good messages (Dec 23) Update: Just had the funeral earlier today and now I finally feel at peace with the loss, thank you to everyone who sent kind messages and I wish you all nothing but the best

I'm so sorry for your loss. It's natural to be in shock right now. There are stages of grief, you'll go through all of them. There is no right way or wrong way to grieve. Be there for each other and carry on, it's what your Mom would want. Remember all the good times and honor her memory. I wish you peace.

We went to sleep that night like it was all normal, I woke up the next morning, got my daughter awake then tried to wake my wife. My daughter (2yo) tried to wake mummy up first but couldn’t so then I tried but looked down and realised something was very wrong so I raced to put her back in to the other room then ran back rolled my wife over and began cpr, I got my phone out and called emergency services that made me do cpr for 15-20 minutes before they arrived and pronounced her dead on the spot. I burst into tears I held my wife and cried with her for several hours before they took her away. It is at this point my whole life changed in a single second of events. I could no longer stay in that place because the memories and images were so strong I just couldn’t handle it. It broke my heart, and the hearts of so many other people she always put her self before others and was truly the kindest person you would have ever met and she has been taken far too early. My life now is a complete wreck, I have to live with my parents now which sounds good but not these ones trust me on that. Everything has been reminding me of my wife and the emotions are just unreal and so strong. I’ve cried many times in the car driving home from work. I just don’t know what to feel right now and how I should handle this situation and to top it off I just lost my older brother last year. It’s been tough. Edit: Thank you all for the kind messages, I’m crying just reading them. There is so much more to the story but I could keep writing for a long time. It’s been three weeks since the day and in my mind I can fully just see my wife lying there on the floor. It’s like I can see the morning that it happened from a 3rd person camera view and it repeats over and over again then I remember the cpr my first time actually needing to do it for real but what they don’t tell you in first aid is the sound they make when you push down it’s hard to describe but that has been stuck in my head too. The emergency service operator made me count when I was doing it 1 2 3 4 over and over and I was just crying so much and trying to do cpr was so hard, it’s not like doing it to some stranger. You whole life is falling apart in that second, you cant stop this is the love of your life but no matter how hard I pushed it wouldn’t make a difference I was to late. Why didn’t I wake up during the night, why couldn’t I have done more. Just why, I let my wife down. I should have done more but I didn’t and now she’s gone forever. I’m not going to disclose how my wife passed because I feel like I’m disrespecting my wife and I hope you can understand that. Some people have caught me off guard when they ask how it happened and I probably should not of told them but I just didn’t know how to respond in the moment cause my emotions are so damn high and now I feel really bad about that. I should probably stop typing, you guys are great thank you again Edit 2: paragraphs

I’m so very sorry for your loss. This is heartbreaking and I can’t even fathom the pain this is causing you 💔

A few hours ago I woke up to my brother on top of me on my bed and I couldn’t process what was happening he got on the floor a second later and there was no lights on so i picked up my phone and used the light to see what was going on and he had no pants or underwear on. He left my room and I got up to lock the door and I was so confused idk what just happened I questioned myself if i was dreaming and did that actually just happen then a couple seconds later he unlocked the door and came in and was saying weird stuff like he was on drugs, which he definitely was and he came in and closed the door and the lights were still off so i cant see whats going on and he tried to get on top of me and i started yelling at him to please stop i thought he was going to rape me or do something terrible. Then he got out and did a bunch of crazy things running outside naked and jumped on peoples cars. My mom wasnt home while it happened it was just me and my other brother. I dont know how to feel i still cant even process that happened I needed to vent

Call the police immediately!! Your brother is a danger to himself and others

Fuck your moments of silence. Your silence is what got us here. "This happened because we don't have enough Jesus in schools" If your god lets kids die because we don't pray to him enough, then fuck your god and fuck you for worshipping him. "The problem isn't guns, it's people." Then how about we stop giving the problem unfettered access to guns, hm? "We don't have a problem with guns, we have a problem with-" Whatever the problem is, it's uniquely American. Which means it's not poverty, or mental illness, or whatever other bullshit you were gonna finish that sentence with. The problem is uniquely American, so unless whatever you're about to blame it on is also uniquely American, you can fuck right off. Fuck your thoughts. Fuck your prayers. Fuck your silence.

>Fuck your moments of silence. Your silence is what got us here. Well said

Do you know how long those fuckers take to make? I see you through the drive through window. I have to take care of making your burgers, Chicken, and Nuggets. And you have the fucking audacity to look me in the eye and order that many fucking nuggets. I don’t care if it was for a party. You aren’t supposed to be partying anyways. So don’t order 200 fucking nuggets! And to top it all off, the fucking sprinkles on the turn ice cream. You COMPLAINED WHY YOU DIDNT GET THEM AFTER 2 MINUTES! FUCK YOU YOU IMPATIENT ASSHOLE.

200? Holy shit dude.

To begin this post: I am black. So anyways. I’m so tired of black people pulling the whole “Its because I’m black!” Response out of their ass when they get called out on doing something shitty. Recently there was a video of a black guy going around Walmart with a gas tank in his grocery cart pretending like he took it out of an elderly woman’s car. She became upset and the scene started and ended up with a man telling the guy to get out of the store and that he’s acting suspicious (or something like that) and the guy goes “WhY beCausE I’m BLAAAACK!!!” That shit pissed me off so fucking much. Then there’s that other lil fucking twat burger in the UK terrorizing people, trespassing and taking a woman’s fucking dog. Guess what he says “Its because I’m a black male doing these things” bro shut the fuck up. You’re being an antagonistic buffalo scrotum. It has nothing to do with you being black. As a black person…. I’m tired of hearing this shit!

In a job 20 years ago a black colleague accused someone of being racist. His response was: "I don't care you are black, I just think you are a c**t!" It didn't go any further as he was being very honest.

Whether you are kidding or not. If you copy someone's laugh (in an exaggerated way to emphasize how weird or unique it is), or even just say "you're laugh is weird", you are a douche. Don't make people self-conscious about something so positive. You are making their life a little worse.

I know right!! Also I'd like to add that this does not apply to laughter only but to a person's voice or how they speak aswell. Victim here. I don't talk much to my family nowadays since I'm now overly conscious about my own voice. MY OWN VOICE WHICH I HAVE NO CONTROL OVER. You aren't being funny. Sorry for venting here, I needed to get this off my chest and it's kinda related

She spends 5 hours a day on that stupid app, up to 8 hours a day on weekends, and it has replaced everything else in her life. Her personality used to be free spirited, inventive, outdoor loving, and fun. She rode horses, she volunteered, she sewed, and read more books than a library could hold. She hasn't done any of that in months. Ever since she downloaded that stupid app her personality has just become the shit she sees on tiktok, when of course she's not staring at her phone watching tiktok for hours on end. Lately she's been telling me to get her a $5000 kitten because a person on tiktok had one. She doesn't even say the breed of cat, just that she wants a "Toast cat". She obsesses over makeup even though she rarely leaves the house because she sees hours of that shit a day. Tiktok interferes with her work, her home life, whatever hobbies haven't been completely consumed by the stupid fucking app, and even her schoolwork. She's in her twenties and working on her Masters, and I have to beg her to put down her phone and work on her homework. She'll procrastinate until 11 PM when a paper is due at midnight, and I know for a fact her grades have gone down the drain. But most embarrassing is that she won't even get intimate with me anymore; it distracts her from tiktok. Her idea of cuddling is facing away from me and staring at her phone, moving away if I get too close. Sex is her doing her best impression of a dead fish, making no sound and not moving, staring wistfully at her phone and counting the seconds. Then at the first opportunity she'll gleefully say, "TIKTOK!" shove me away, and completely disregard me to watch videos, whether or not either of us has come close to finishing. That the only sound she makes is that stupid app's name is making me hate the idea of sex. I hate Trump but when he announced that he'd block Tiktok I cheered, because it meant I might just get my girlfriend back.

You should tell her what you just told us. Maybe she doesn’t realize how far gone she’s gotten? I hope so, for your sake.

I got my cat a few months ago and he REFUSES to keep my door closed. It doesn’t lock so when I close it he just pushes it alllll the way open. I wouldn’t mind him staying in my room but he gets mad the second I close the door and pisses all over my things. I’m cat piss phobic so I avoid that at all costs. My sisters room is directly across the hall so if she were to get up at any point, I’m caught. My sister can be a real judgmental prude (I love her but it’s true) and even though we are both grown ass women, she would never let me live it down if I got caught in the act. I hate to be graphic but I can’t even get wet enough to do it anymore bc I’m so paranoid that either she’s going to walk in or my cat is going to piss on my stuff. I think this might be the most infuriating shit that has ever happened to me. My pussy and I are fully depressed at this point.

Lock cat in sister’s room so he pees on her stuff instead?

Me cago en la puta me cago en dios y en todos vuestros muertos hijos de puta que os den. Qué bien dibujas, me encanta lo que haces, buah que bien lo que haces QUE OS DEN QUE OS JODAN GILIPOLLAS. DECIR POR DECIR estoy hasta la polla de controlarlo todo y esforzarme al máximo en vano meteos la mano por el recto y daos un puñetazo en el colón gilipollas. Que nadie me va a contratar para concept artist, que nadie le intereso una mierdaaaaa que yo lo se no hace falta que fingaís que soy interesante ME MEREZCO MIERDA Y SOLO MIERDA JOSOOOSXKDOSJDE AHI LO LLEVAS SOY GILIPOLLAS QUE SORPRESA ME MEREZCO UN MOJÓN Y POR LO TANTO DESEO QUE A VOSOTROS TAMBIÉN. SOLO ME INTERESO YO YO YO YO YO SIEMPRE YO pero joder vosotros también que me intereso por tu vida personal, joder como estás la depresión la ansiedad y tras tu monologo me desahogo yo y lo diriges hacia tu puta vida? Seamos honestos importo un carajo. Unicos trabajos a los que voy a aspirar... hazme un dibujo de Harry Potter, hazme una montaña en el belen METEOS LOS DIBUJOS POR LA URETRA SOPLAPOLLAS. Que yo hago cosas mas elaboradas anda si es que me la suda en verdad ni siquiera estoy enfadada con nadie solo es que me puto odio. Bueno vamos mal eh en dibujo como tengas esos problemas, que has estado haciendo DIBUJO CADA PUTO DIA 24/7 EN. VANO. SU PUTA MADRE QUE OS JODAN CASH CONSUPUTAMADRE COMO TE LLAMES EMPRESA DE MIERDA Y LA OTRA NO TE CONOCE NADIE A LAS TANTAS ME HE IDO A DORMIR HACIENDO EL PUTO PORTAFOLIO QUE OS JODAN VALGO MUCHISIMO MAS DE LO QUE OS CREEIS DE LO QUE NADIE SE CREE Y NO NO FINGAIS QUE AY QUE BONITO DIBUJO TODOS SABEMOS QUE NADIE NADIE ESTA TAN INTERESADO EN MI DE VERDAD. LA PUTA LIBIDO LA PUTA LIBIDO JODER QUE SI QUE QUIERO QUE UN TIO ME ARROPE Y ME MIME, QUE PUTO ASCO DOY. JODER ES QUE SOY PATETICA HOSTIAS VIRGEN PATETICA, UNA PAJERA SACIALE A TU PADRE LA PROSTATA CON LAS VELAS DE TUS MUERTOS GILIPOLLAS Ya está.

I understand nothing... but i upvote anyways

yesterday morning my dog ended up passing away in my lap on a car ride to her favorite lake. her health had been on a steady decline after the vet found a large mass in her throat that was presumed to be cancerous about a month ago. the last few days she really wasn’t acting like herself at all (lack of appetite, drooling, and attempting to isolate herself in the yard/rooms she had no interest in prior..) so my family and i scheduled her for an in-home euthanasia that was supposed to happen on tuesday. we had just wanted to take her to the lake one last time and she didn’t even make the 40 minute drive. she ended up laying down on me and resting her head on my lap. i assumed she was sleeping but 20 minutes went by until i noticed she was completely unresponsive. she had died and i didn’t even notice right away. it’s eating me up inside because i knew she wasn’t feeling good that morning. i should’ve just went to a vet and had her put down that day but i overestimated her and thought she could hold on until tuesday. i don’t know if i ever will forgive myself. my childhood dog i had for 12 years passed away in 2020. we decided to do an in-home euthanasia for him and everything went smoothly and he passed with honor. i was heartbroken but i was at peace knowing he wasn’t suffering that badly towards the end. but my sweet girl died on me in the car and she deserved so much better than that.

She died in your lap, I'm sure her last moments were happy and peaceful, probably not even painful because otherwise she wouldn't be so calm. Sorry for your loss and don't feel bad.

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Now this, is a true r/vent post.

okay so we moved to the new house on new year so 3 days ago, and today i lied to my mom about something and she knew i was lying and said “i saw u on the camera in your room.” and when i tell u my heart dropped it literally dropped, why does my mom feel the need to invade my privacy and put a camera in my room???? like for once can’t she just respect my fucking privacy? i’m honestly disgusted, i couldn’t believe it when i found out and i found out a few minutes ago and i can’t not speak to her but i’m trying to only talk to her and respond as little as i can. i’m so mad i feel like crying. update: i talked to her and sorted everything out. thanks for everyone’s advice it really helped.

That’s so fucking weird. No child needs a camera in their room unless maybe they’re a toddler.

He chased me up the stairs, stripped me and beat me in our bed. He tried to rape me but couldn't because he'd had too much to drink, so he kept hitting me and kept saying some awful things. He wouldn't listen to me at all - I begged and cried and he didn't care. He eventually walked away and passed out. I had to help him into bed and hide him away from our children before they woke up for the day. It was the night before our son's birthday, and the whole family arrived at 10am for a full day of activities. I didn't want to ruin my son's day so I didn't flag it to anyone. He's full of remorse, and tried to kill himself when the family left. I've loved this man for 16 years - I left an abusive family when we got together and he's been my protector and safe place ever since. I feel so numb towards him - I can't sleep in our bed anymore, I haven't slept in days. I don't want to throw away our family, but I can't see him as the man I've loved for 16 years anymore. Edit: Thank you to everyone for your comments - reading through them helped me to process this some more. To answer some q's: - Yes, he has been abusive in the past. He stopped about 7-8 years ago, got therapy, and was doing much better, other than the occasional verbal outburst. - Your comments have made me see his other patterns of abuse - it hurts to admit that. My rose tinted glasses have clearly been on too tight. - We have two children, the youngest being 5 months old. All in all I know I need to leave, I just don't know how /need to plan it out better. I have no family or friends (family estrangement was my choice, friends not so much) which makes it harder as I have no support. I'm the family's earner, do taking time out to sort this is difficult without careful planning. I don't know when I'll be able to get out, but I know that I will. Thank you kind strangers.

Right, listen girl. You haven’t slept, you’ve just had a traumatic experience and this is absolutely not acceptable. However, lack of sleep and that lack of feeling of safety isn’t a good mix to make huge life changing decisions. Tell him to go away for a few days. Get some sleep. Reflect.

i don’t know if this is the right subreddit so please remove if not allowed !! i was supposed to marry my soulmate yesterday. except he passed away earlier in the year. i knew his life would be shorter than mine ... but i thought we had another twenty years together. we never considered the possibility that he would not recover from his transplant. i can’t tell anyone in real life so. that’s my vent.

I'm sorry that you have to go through this, and especially sorry that you feel so alone/unable to talk to anyone. I hope that you can find peace despite the grief and that you're able to find people who make you feel heard and loved

I say white men because that is literally the demographic I SEE. They come to these impoverished countries, don’t wear condoms when they have sex with prostitutes(majority who are just trying to survive) and get to go back to their comfortable homes in first world countries while their children starve, don’t get an education , and ultimately are cycles into being a prostitute. They are left with identity crises and with no father figure. This is modern day colonization. And let’s not talk about the fact that a majority also have sex with underage children, nasty pedophiles. I watched a documentary where these child r*pe victims (it’s not sex work, it’s rape what they do these kids) were being rehabilitated and as part of therapy, they were put in a cushony room where they could hit the wall and yell. These poor girls were traumatized from being sold to make money. These men fucking repulse me and then you see them flirting with these young, pretty women LIKE YOU ARE BALD, RED, AND HAVE A BEER BELLY holy shit the delusion to think they’re actually into you. It’s like these men try to feel young once again because women in their countries don’t find grandpas attractive and won’t feed into their delusions.

As someone who worked in a rape crisis center, I agree 100%!!!!! And it breaks my heart how much society bags on sex workers or trafficked women and not judge the men who solicit them.

I was just chilling doing leg extensions and a girl came up to me and asked how many sets I have left. I said “I have 1 more set to go” so I finish the set then grab some paper towels and equipment spray to clean the equipment , I wipe it down while she’s standing there, staring at me like I just killed someone, I just brushed it off and walked away. And then she shouts, and I mean properly shouts “don’t think you’ll get anything out of this creep”. Everyone started staring at me like I’m some type of fucking weirdo, I walked away and decided to do some boxing to let’s some anger out. Ruined my day tbh 😔

Sounds like a right proper Can we say the c- word here, because sorry, I think that's like the definition right there

A little over a year ago I was almost sexually assaulted by a girl that I was dating. She was on top of me and wanted me to finish inside her. I was not wearing protection at the time. We agreed that if I’m on the verge of finishing that she would climb off. Later that day she texted me saying that she considered not getting off and have me finish inside her. When someone doesn’t give you consent and you do it anyways that is called sexual assault. Doesn’t matter what gender you are. For those who call men gay for sharing their story you can fuck off. You are just as bad as the abuser. Edit: Thank you all for reading and the support and thank you to those who shared their stories. Much respect to all of you.

Female here, and I wanna say that you are absolutely right. There are women that hold little regard for the rights and autonomy of men out there. Those women CAN be rapists and sexual abusers. And especially, women adults who have sex with minors are not “cougars” or the young boy is not lucky, he was raped and she is a PEDOPHILE.

Today I decided to enter quora (a website about questions) to find some answers and I'm fucking horrified, there are hundreds of pedophilic questions there and even grown ass adults admitting to having sex with their underage children and all this disgusting shit gets dozens of upvotes and not a single negative comment and quora doesn't remove them, i once saw a comment with 86 upvotes on quora from a man telling how he LITERALLY HAD SEX WITH HIS 11 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER, like what in the everloving fuck?!? And in any post asking for help like "I'm 14 and my dad is harassing me, what do I do?" there are always comments from sick pedophiles saying "fuck with him" or "suck his dick", god what the fuck is wrong with people on that website

The quality of quora has really gotten down. A couple years ago I used to be super active on quora and there's some very fascinating people that write on there. I learned a lot. Became top writer twice and received a Patagonia jacket one year with "top writer" and what year it was embroidered into it. I still use it today, it's a great jacket.

Well I do have a lot more reasons but I would say BTS plays a huge huge part in this. She talks about BTS so fucking much I just could not fucking take it and I couldn't even fake it anymore. Every time we talked either alone or with other people she would bring fucking BTS into our talk even if I was sharing my emotions she would fucking be like "JImIn wrOTe SOmThiNg abOUt ThaT oN TwiTtEr" SHUT THE FUCK UP ALREADY. Every time I tried to ask her to talk about something other than fucking BTS she would get quiet and mad, WELL SORRY every fucking time I went to see her and wanted to talk or do something fun she would just get her laptop out and we would sit without talking and watch BTS stuff. It was her entire fucking personality, BTS and being in a gay relationship which she does not have anymore so I guess it's just BTS now. And I never told her a fucking thing when breaking up with her so to not hurt her but I wish I fucking did. And I don't want to fucking hear about BTS or jimin or suga or whatever the fuck the names are ever again

Sounds like a case of BTSD.

Debatably, everyone is entitled to a basic level of respect and decency. That’s why I respect pronouns, because I feel everyone is entitled to basic respect and decency until they prove to me otherwise. What you aren’t entitled to however, is attraction. That’s something you have no right to demand from anyone. You’re taking decent people who are supportive of your cause, and telling them they are transphobic because they don’t want to have sex you. I wouldn’t say it’s “*biting the hand that feeds you*” exactly, but you get my point. It’s really not helping the cause. I haven’t let these comments effect my views because I know not all trans people feel that way, but still. If you can’t respect my boundaries, I’m not going to respect your pronouns. Before anyone says “*no one’s saying it is*”, i’ve seen this thought process voiced a lot, especially on Reddit. In fact this post was prompted by comments regarding/voicing it.

I never understood the sentiment that it’s transphobic to not be attracted to trans people. Sex is something that is personal, it is the most intimate you can be with someone. People have the right to be as selective as they wish to be regarding who they have sex with. As long as you aren’t spouting bigotry and demanding they have no rights then who you share your genitals with is entirely your choice and no one has the right to tell you it’s wrong.

Tw for: sexual assault, eating disorder Fuck you, Dennis. It happened a decade ago and I’m no closer to forgetting how you ruined my family’s life. You destroyed my mother’s pride, you made her marriage unstable, you caused me to be actively paranoid of the police. My mom was doing nothing but holding a barbecue for her sports organization. You were a part of that and you broke into our beer fridge. You attempted to drive home and lured her out knowing she had gastric bypass. She can’t hold liquor, she needed to pass out after parking the car because that’s what SAFE drivers do. And how do you repay her for driving you home? You assault her and, because you’re a student at her workplace, you cause her to lose her job. I was so paranoid about not having money that I developed an eating disorder. I would routinely get lightheaded at band practice because I wouldn’t pack dinner. I got reporters trying to find my mom at all daylight hours. And it took my mom five years to get off the registry, you absolute bastard. And for what? No apology from the police, from the court, from the friends who abandoned her. All because of you. And I don’t want an apology from you. Your apologies are worthless because you’re only afraid because I’m a threat to you. When I messaged you on Twitter 5 years ago and told you I’d break your kneecaps I meant it. And I know it was your doing and not hers because even if polygraphs aren’t accurate, at least she was willing to take one and she PASSED. You refused every chance you got, and even when subpoenaed you tried to avoid it until you could get your bitch mom to threaten to “make my mother disappear “. I know that I can’t bring myself to enact physical harm on you. I have a life to live outside of prison. But you better hope and pray I don’t get a shred of success with my novels, because I’ll take you to court over the psychological damages you caused me, my siblings, and my parents if I do. And your little mommy isn’t going to save your ass, because I’m not afraid of her. I hope your wife knows what you’ve done, I hope she’s made peace with the soulless monster she married. Because I sure as hell am not gonna let this go until I know you’re getting kicked while you’re down in life. And to those who say “Well he might be better now”— I. Don’t. Care. He never apologized to my mother for what he did, never tried to make amends. He can die in a ditch and I’d sleep better knowing he’s gone because my mom wasn’t the last woman he assaulted. Marriage doesn’t make you a good person, it just affords you an excuse to pretend to be one.

I hope both you and your mother can heal from this eventually. I'd be more than willing to lend a hand for anything

I can’t make any posts because I don’t have enough Karma, but to get Karma I have to make a post?! Anyone see a problem with that requirement.

Comments give you karma as well, not all subs ask you to have karma in order to post

I'm 45 and I've been with a guy who's 14 years younger for the past 7 months. Initially he was very cool about me being very sexual. We met on a dating app and I talked about kinky stuff in my profile. I'm not ashamed of having had sex. Within 2 dates he asked me to be monogamous and I honored that. We had plenty of amazing sex at the time. Recently he let me know that he wants to stay together for an indefinite amount of time but that because of my body count I'd never be a suitable wife. When I tell him that I don't appreciate him making a value judgement about who I am based on my past he says that's just how it is. It's such a rigid way of thinking. And it feels extra mean for him to say this now because it's not like he didn't know what kind of person I was going into the relationship. If he'd told me he thought that way I'd have stayed the hell away.

This is sad and you are completely right. Feeling about body counts aside: if he didn’t want a sexual person, why get with a sexual person?? But I would legitimately think about splitting. If after 7 months, even with all the feelings, he stil feels insecure about your past, I doubt he will ever move past it. You can’t change your past so you might as well find someone who loves that part of you as well. I promise you, we are out here. Not nearly as many people care about body counts like that. Especially past the age of 21 lol we are adults

There's a coworker who I found out has 'godself' pronouns. This coworker identifies as nonbinary and prefers the pronouns 'god' and 'godself'. This person explained it as a 'xeno gender' called 'godgender'. This person gets very furious if someone doesn't use them, such as when people are talking about this coworker amongst themselves. ... I'm just going to come out and say it.. this makes me feel really uncomfortable. I'm muslim (moved to the United States a year ago) so it just feels wrong to me to call a human being a god.... At the same time, I've heard that transgender politics are a minefield right now in the United States. I even heard that you could lose your job for refusing to use someone's pronouns. I'm not sure if that's true or not, so I'm not sure what to do... I don't want to make enemies here, I'm just saying it makes me feel really uncomfortable...

Unironically, this person seems like a troll. Not you, OP.

I hate my brain for making me randomly remember this at 2AM so now I have to get it out of my system. A few years ago, I has just started talking to a guy, and we seemed to be hitting it off. He was polite, smart, funny, and we had common interests. Then one day, he brings up that he has a horse, and wants to show me a picture. I'm an animal lover so I'm quite eager about this. He sent me a picture of a lovely golden brown horse that he told me was named Sandy. "Gorgeous, isn't she?" he says. I reply something along the lines of "Yes! She's beautiful!" Then things went zero to 60. His next message to me read "To be honest, I f**k her quite often." I'm in complete shock, and trying to reason to myself that surely he doesn't mean it literally, that he's just making a messed up joke. He hadn't said anything weird or creepy at all before this point. There had been absolutely zero red flags or foreshadowing to this. I ask "Wait, really? Literally?" He confirmed that yes, he does literally have relations with his horse, and on a regular basis at that. Needless to say, I noped the heck right out of any further communication with him.

This can't be real. Surely you're just horsing around?

ESPECIALLY when the characters are supposed to be teenagers. ​ Literally 4 minutes into the Yellowjackets pilot, a girl is getting fingered by who I am assuming is her boyfriend. Going into this the camera shows her desk/vanity with magazines on it and shit, setting the scene for a teenage's girl's bedroom. I understand teenagers do this in real life, I know people have sex. It's a part of life. ​ Maybe I just don't "get it" but to me it's pretty fucked up that you can see this in a TV show on Hulu, but if you Google that same thing you might go to prison for child pornography. And I do get shows are fiction, and acting, and consent, etc. But like damn. Every time a show has some 22 year old playing a teenager showing herself naked, it's almost like encouraging and normalizing the sexual exploitation of teenagers. ​ Adult characters too. There are far better examples but this is the only one I can think of the top of my head. That scene in House of Gucci where they're having sex in his office. Like why was it so long? We get the point, you know? What does it actually ad to the story? I wish cinema would go back the early 2000s where they would just imply sex, or if it was a full blown sex scene it wouldn't be 20 fucking minutes. Call me a prude idc. It's just my vent and how I feel.

Sex always sells but must it involve children? Even if they are fictional characters played by adults, it is still creepy to play up the “sexy teens having sex” trope. It’s a lazy plot device that needs to stop.

I want to preface this vent by saying that I think BLM has great intentions and has done really great things for our community and other POC as well. I don't hate BLM, I don't disagree with the movement, I just hate what it's done to MY generation only. If you're a young millennial or a Gen-Z, you are probably using a lot of social media. Chances are you have at least seen Social Justice happening on those social medias. Well, great we spread the word and now everyone can support BLM, right? Right so now it's a fight between white girls and black girls to prove who's better, now its who can wear braids in their hair, now it's who can speak "ghetto", now it's immediately policing people who don't fit your stereotype of what you want a POC to look like and that's what I'm mad about most. I have a blood disorder, my skin is light and I wear wigs over my protective styles so first glance, you wouldn't know I'm black, maybe not a POC. JUST BECAUSE I DON'T LOOK LIKE WHAT STEREOTYPE YOU IMAGINE BLACK PEOPLE LOOKING LIKE, DOESNT MEAN I'M ANY LESS BLACK. I hate trying to contribute to a movement that constantly argues with me ABOUT MY OWN RACE. Constantly I get told what race I am, people literally accuse me of lying (like why would I do that), and black girls don't take me seriously. So thanks Gen-Z, you're ruining a movement that was meant for people like me and literally shoving me out of it. Edit: I did NOT expect this to blow up. A couple things i want to mention that I guess I didn't. I don't BLAME the BLM movement, the reason I fault it is because that movent made this kind of behavior very popular among people in my generation and no one is educating them on actually supporting POC vs being an ignorant white savior.

That's crazy. I often hear similar stories from people who suffer from albinism

Okay, and? They are. It's a common side effect. But what was keeping me so skinny was drug abuse and anorexia. Stop acting like you care about my health. I'd rather be fat than dead.

I was told I looked ‘so thin & happy’ when I was abusing literal meth. People can fuck off.

here’s practically nothing positive about it and it only harms women and makes guys have unrealistic standards on how a woman's body should be or expecting every woman to be interested or okay with BDSM or kink in general it just grosses me out, I see stuff like that it makes me wanna take a shower and distract myself from what I just saw.

not to mention how they create hypothetical pairs for story like incest, teachers or even some professions. i really HATE HATE how they normalised SCHOOL GIRLS uniform as foreplay and now its one of the most sexualized attire (you can even find difference. write schhol boy and school girl and see difference in google photos). even nurses are sexualized. poor women work 24/7 in hospitals and dont even get to go home and they sexualize this shit. i just hate porn industry to death, thats it.

The rules for each individual sub are so profoundly difficult and annoying to follow. Trying to post anything on this website: “sorry you didn’t capitalize your 14th letter and write a haiku about your grandma’s best flavor of homemade cheezits” Fuck off

ahhhh finally someone who agrees, you cant post shit anywhere, like "forgot to flair? the post gets deleted and you have to wait another 30 minutes to try and post it again" jfc its so damn annoying

This past Monday was a day off from work and I (23M) went out to golf and have some drinks with a really close buddy and his parents who were in town. After that we went to a local bar and grill that’s our favorite and had some more drinks there. Then we went back to his place and that’s all I can remember. My gf said I called her when I got home and stayed on the phone until 3 hours later. I don’t remember any of this, I don’t remember anything past getting to my friend’s house and driving home. I blacked out until around 1 AM when I came to in my car, in the middle of an empty parking lot about an hour away from my house, with hickeys/welts or hand marks on my neck, semen on my boxers near my ass that wasn’t mine, and a laceration/tear on my asshole which I could feel. Apparently I called my gf freaking out and telling her all this and telling her I was jumped and raped. I don’t remember this either. Then I got home, and fell asleep and woke up about 3-4 hours later. I at least sobered up somewhat and went and got a rape kit done at the medical facility at my work. Having done that they’re still waiting to get the results back to me but they said they found GHB in my system. All in all, my gf says none of this makes sense, that there’s “too many missing pieces”, and straight up that she doesn’t believe I got raped. She kept victim blaming me, shaming me, and discouraging me about this whole situation. She has me blocked now and won’t talk to me at all because of this. Saying “I can’t do this, I don’t believe you. You went out and did something with someone”. She even went as far as saying “If that’s what you wanna tell people happened to you, go for it but I don’t believe you.” I don’t know what I did wrong. I thought that I could turn to and come to the person I loved the most. I never thought of all people, especially her being a woman, and experiencing something similar, that she would do this to me. I wish I had a recording of what happened or some sort of way to track everything. But because I got raped I lost the woman I love the most. What do I do? How do I fix this? i just want her back. More than anything I want to find who did this to me.

You may love her, but she's acting like an outright ass right now. It's actually terrible she's treating you this way, because you very clearly went through something traumatic. I know you wanna fight for her, but it might be best to let go. For the sake of yourself and your own mental health. She doesn't seem like she would budge, and is irrational enough to literally block you over what's quite literally suspicion on her part. I'm very very sorry you went through this OP, and I hope you can work through everything, try and get justice, and go to to therapy if it helps. One thing I wouldn't suggest, though, is trying to win her back.

Whenever she refers to my private area she calls it my toot toot and it annoys the hell out of me. Because it sounds like she’s talking to a baby. Also, toot toot is the sound a horn makes, not a body part! And I actually looked it up online and there’s a website that’s a dictionary of sexual terms and they call toot toot a slang sexual term for vagina! So that makes it gross that she calls my vagina that! [https://www.sex-lexis.com/Sex-Dictionary/toot%20toot](https://www.sex-lexis.com/Sex-Dictionary/toot%20toot)

When I was little we had a neighbour ( I could not stand her ) and she came over to our house after dinner to drink coffee alll the time. And when she had to use the bathroom she always said: I'm gonna squeeze my lemon. 🤮

There’s a trend going on on TikTok where Americans who now live abroad explain how they realized America really “screwed them up”. One person explained how they live in the Netherlands now & they were confused about the number of sick days his job allowed him to have. When he was told that there are no limits, he said that he kept asking the question because he couldn’t believe that the Netherlands didn’t tell you how many sick days you were allowed to have. Another person said that they were pulled over by the police (I can’t remember what country this was) & their heart was beating out of their chest & they kept their hands on the steering wheel, didn’t move, & looked straight ahead. He said as soon as the officer approached the car, he immediately told him that he can relax, got straight to the point, & gave him a heads up that he was speeding & to slow down. This shit REALLY bothers me because we’re taught that we’re the best country in the world & we have this & that, but the ppl here are led to believe that everything is a luxury, including respect and sympathy. I’m so glad this country is being really exposed for what it is.

Yeah, I remember seeing a video of some black men talking about living in Korea, how no one bothers them and how they froze at first seeing a police car coming up toward them slowly. But then, they realized the police car was only slowing down just to round the corner. Some were talking about their surprise that cops don't carry guns in Korea and they're friendly and the police have cute mascots and their motto is like "we're your friends" or things like that.

I just saw a thread under an article of a FULL GROWN WOMAN raping a THIRTEEN YOUR OLD and the comments were just teeming with a bunch of you fuck faces being like “wHeRE wErE ThESe tEAchErs WheN I wAs iN SchOoL?” Fuck you. You know damn well if it was a male teacher and a female student you’d be fucking irate. But if it’s a woman raping a male student THATS FUCKING JUSTIFIABLE?! ITS FUCKING RAPE!! THERE IS SO MUCH PSYCHOLOGICAL FUCKING TORMENT THAT GOES WITH BEING RAPED!! If you’re one of those justifiers and you fucking comment I’m gonna bully the absolute fuck out of you. I’m going to tear you down to your lowest goddamn form and make you confront what you are, a low life pedophillic scum bag. You look in the mirror and face the fact that your mother can’t stomach the sight of you. You’ll die alone. No one to love you. Not even an animal. No one will fucking love you, no one will want to be associated with you. You’ll walk your miserable waste of a life knowing you’re the lowest form of societal ass. Fuck you and fuck your entire fucking bloodline. If I had a fucking time machine I’d go back to your first ancestor and wipe your entire genetic data out of the fucking Gene pool. Fuck you

I don't, thats for sure. SA is SA. Doesn't matter who it's coming from.

i hate receiving creepy DMs from men. i hate getting catcalled. i hate having to conform to beauty standards. i hate being afraid of walking alone in the evening. i hate the having the expectation of being “lady like”. i hate double standards. i hate being seen as less than men. i hate having the expectation of having kids in the future. i could go on and on abt this. (no, i’m not trans or anything. i love being a woman despite having to deal with these things constantly.) EDIT: so i’m getting a lot of men in these replies trying to invalidate the things that ive personally experienced as well as countless other women. also the “men have it worse” thing isn’t necessary here. it’s not a competition of which sex has more struggles in society. i never said that men don’t deal with their own societal issues! this post is abt the struggles of women, NOT men! please stop trying to insert yourself into something that isn’t relevant to you. make your own post if you’d like to discuss your struggles as men. EDIT 2: ive noticed that in the men in the comments would rather debate women on this post rather than making their own post abt their struggles. it really shows that they only want to engage in arguments, otherwise they’d freely talk abt their oppression on their own accts. why is it that men’s oppression is often only brought up when a woman is talking abt her’s?

Same.

A few weeks ago I reconnected with a few friends I lost touch with in high school. We chatted about all sorts of things, trying to catch up after so many years apart. Then we all went our ways. A few days pass and I hung out with one of them. He told me about how he overcame his mental health issues and other personal problems. I was happy for him. Every few days we kept meeting and chatting and he really likes sharing about he's love life and don't so I listen. As he was telling me about his love life he told me that the other guys were surprised that he managed to date someone incredible around his age (we're all in our 20's). That led me to ask about who they were dating and going after and my friend told me that in the group he was the only one that didn't date minors. I was told that the other guys slept with 14 to 16 year olds regularly. The kids parents don't care that their daughters are sleeping with 23 and 24 year olds. That shattered my views of them. I'm still upset

I’d question why the guy is hanging out with pedos. I’d report them to authorities and get them set up. It’s gross. You’re right to be upset. I’m upset. I’d be upset at the one that is dating adults because it seems he’s still hanging out with the other guys. They are surprised he is dating someone increíble around his age? What’s so incredible about a little girl???? It is sickening. Please report them. All of them.

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Can relate

Something no one tells you when you’re suicidal, is that even the smallest people will remember you. They’ll wonder why you haven’t bought crickets for your reptile, where the pictures of your girlfriend went, or why their favorite cashier hasn’t been there for a while. People notice you. People love you. Even if it’s for your jokes, even if it’s for your patience, even if it’s just seeing you around. People miss you. People love you. People care. I’m grateful for everyone who is still here today, no matter how hard it is. I love you.

I go through so much extreme frustrations to the point where i would think of ending it all. What stops me is simple hesitation until i just quit it for the moment. You changed my view, kind stranger. Thank you. Ill think this whenever i need to. I love you too.

Stop using it,lol. It's latino/latina. Do people not see the hypocrisy in saying they know better than our language/us? Just stop,I nor a single Latino/a likes that term and quite frankly it's annoying

As a Latina who is very whatever about my gender identity, this term irritates tf out of me. It's because the X sounds English. My brain wants to say X the way we would in Spanish, in a word like...Ximena, Oaxaca, etc. But no, it's pronounced ecks. Why! If we're going to have a gender-neutral (which is unnecessary imo) term, Latiné sounds way more natural.

I’m tired of being subjected to so much sex media. I hate how movies and tv shows now have so many sex scenes. I miss when a couple in a movie went to hell and back to be together and they enjoyed romance before ever getting together and the movie would end up with a kiss. It was romantic and beautiful! I love that they would confess their love before getting together. Now they sleep together and go out and after allll of that maybe you get an “I love you” and it turns into such a big deal. I hate how I have lost hope in men. I immediately think they’ve had so many partners. I hate how men say “I wouldn’t be able to resist myself if I was near X woman”, I hate how normalized hookup culture is. I hate that men gush over Syndey Sweeney so much and for one reason only. I hate how sexualized she gets. I truly have lost hope that men are not wild animals that only see ONE thing and that is sex. I’m in my mid 20s and I’ve never dated anyone and it’s becoming harder and harder to find a man who matches my moral values and principles and at this point I feel like I am running out of time. Bring romance and respect back.

"Bring romance and respect back." ❤️

I'm so hurt I shouldn't have to remind people it's my birthday I don't expect gifts but a phone call, a simple happy birthday. My twin sister ignored me she's upset I've been considering stopping treatment she refused the flowers I sent her. I may not make another birthday. Maybe I'm just being entitled I don't know but I'm so hurt. Just wanted to vent

Happy belated birthday! It should be celebrated, and you are right to feel hurt.