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(13F, Didn’t know what flair to use) I’m not gonna use a burner account despite my fear of posting on here because I want to express this wholeheartedly, if you’re a parent please take this post seriously, as I am not one (I think it would be MORE weird I was one 💀) but I believe this is important. Thank you. Please, for gods sake monitor your kids devices and don’t just slap them onto an iPad at the solid age of 3. I believe use in moderation is good however for gods sake, I’m begging you please don’t give them unmonitored internet access. It fucked me up quite a bit and I don’t want it to fuck them up. It may not sound like much an issue but I see it absolutely everywhere. I acknowledge I can’t control other peoples parents and magically make them not do this but if you’re an inexperienced who’s reading this, monitor your kids, especially if they’re extremely young (~10). As it’s kind of ironic for me to say this because adults are meant to teach their kids this kind of thing but there’s genuinely tons of dangerous shit on here, even on YouTube kids or something which you’d presume is safe. Now I don’t want to be a helicopter parent and I really appreciate all you parents, as raising a child sounds extremely tough and I appreciate you guys but please acknowledge this. (Sorry for bad English btw I had a massive school absence when I was 10-now and I’m currently looking to homeschool myself until I find something available). Thank you for reading Okay stupid edit but: Apparently actual parents have seen this and are talking about having discussions with their partners about this/stories about this happening?? I just want to say I’m glad my post is somehow helping people and I wish the best for all you parents out there currently reading this! Edit 2: I’m half asleep while typing this but let me phrase this, I’ll admit I was quite black and white with how I phrased this post but honestly I can see all the respective points of each input. I don’t think you should completely dictate what they can and can’t see but rather be careful.

Im only 21 but I’ve been on the internet since I was like 8-9 and I will *always* heavily advocate for internet safety. The shit I experienced and saw is not something I’d ever want another kid to see.

i fucking hate when people refuse to give homeless people or beggars their pocket change just because “they’ll use it on drugs”. you know what? good for them. like i give a fuck what they actually do with it? or people who get mad that i’ll give someone a dollar or something. where tf are they getting drugs for a dollar? and if they do then good for them. not everyone on the streets does drugs. they just need some help. i’ve been homeless before while in high school and the last thing i was doing was drugs. maybe some of these people do drugs but whatever it’s really not my business. i’ve been there and i’m never gonna ignore someone if i can help them the tiniest bit. if they decide that the help they need is drugs then they can go ahead. it’s not like anyone’s willing to tote them to rehab and pay all those fees.

>they’ll use it on drugs "Yea me too, it's going towards drugs either way"

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost two years now. Recently, she underwent an incredibly invasive medical procedure that would have been very expensive. Thankfully, my parents, who are incredibly loving and generous, paid for the entire procedure out of pocket. I was grateful that they cared so much about her and relieved that neither of us, being college students, had to bear the cost. The procedure went extremely well, and after four weeks, she was walking and out of the hospital. Given everything my parents had done, I asked her to send them a thank you card in the mail. I understood she might not be feeling 100% right after leaving the hospital, so I was patient, I told her to take her time. However, as months went by, nothing was sent. I continued to remind her about it, but she kept putting it off. The most frustrating part about the wait is that the place she chose to eat at everyday literally faces the post office. I feel like she had no excuse to not send it. Eventually, she told me that the reason she hadn’t sent the card was because of how I had been behaving. When I called her ungrateful for not thanking my parents with more than a over the phone "thank you", she responded that neither they nor I were entitled to anything from her. She said it was unreasonable for me to expect her to do anything in return, as it would make the gesture seem transactional. She is now upset, and so I am. I don't if I'm in the wrong or not, but I just wish she would do something more meaningful to thank my parents.

She should’ve done it even without you asking.

For context, im 17, and decided to download and app that advertised itself as a "friend making app" because im moving out of state for college soon and wanted to meet people in the area before I get there. What I failed to realize is that this was apparently just tinder....for kids... The things I saw were horrifying. 15 year olds posting videos of themselves twerking. 14 year olds calling themselves "bottoms". 13 years olds putting shit in their bios like "ill send if you send 😉" Like seriously, wtf? Why is this app even allowed to exist? I reported the worst of it, but honestly almost all of the profiles are extremely sexual. These are literal. Children. I honestly feel that authorities need to get on this, because this app is just blatantly allowing kids to post things that are going to get them taken advantage of, both by people their age and adult catfishers. I dont even know what else to say but im appaled.

That’s going to be a hub for perverts soon. You can’t even blame the children because they don’t always understand the consequences of their actions, but blame the damn parents that won’t fuckin sit them down and introduce them to activities for their age. Well not even the parents most of the time, but really participants of the media influencing kids to think that everything that sounds fun is okay

I'm someone who used to be addicted to porn at certain points in my life. I discovered porn when I was a child and watched it into adulthood, not realizing I had an addiction but I finally addressed it and stopped watching it and now the thought of it actually repulses me. I dated a guy recently who watches porn literally everyday and masturbates at least three times a day & he doesn't think he has an addiction and I'm grossed out that I even entertained someone like that. I think porn is harmful to society and creates a lot of deviant behaviors that people act on in real life. I know it's a profession for some ppl and I don't mean to shame them, but I personally wouldn't be mad if porn was banned forever.

I get you, it definitely ruined something for me.

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Congratulations! I'm so happy for you :))

so, god this is gonna be a long one. So about 3 days ago, i went into labor at around midnight, my bf then drove me to the hospital and then left to go back to sleep at home, i was a bit upset because this was my first kid and i hoped he would stay but i assumed he was just overwhelmed. Now, after i gave birth, i called him, he came to the hospital said he was sorry for leaving and all that, i said it was ok, even tho i was still upset but i was way too tired for dealing with it. I had read online that it would be polite to give your husband/bf a gift now that hes a father, so i did that i bought him a new tie (he likes ties and has a huge collection). almost as soon as i gave it to him he said "oh, by the way your not getting a push present. I had bought you earrings but, you were in labor for soooooooooo long you just dont deserve a gift so im gonna return them. If there is a next time, just try harder? Jesus". He didnt even say thank you, just said i didnt deserve a push present because i took too long giving birth, i don't know, that just made feel really not loved.

He sounds miserable and narcissistic. You and your child deserve better.

When me (24F) started dating my BF (26M) within the first few months of us dating, I was at his apartment while he was at work and I was just kinda tidying the place up. Well I went into a filing cabinet and found some dirty- and I mean dirty yeast stained panties. He totally convinced me they were mine and I believed him I really did. I did go on a 3 week vacation the previous month so I thought he got them from my hamper because he missed me or something, at least that’s what I thought. But anyways, that is not my main concern I just wanted to add the one other time he did something questionable within the five years of us dating. Fast forward to earlier today- about 4 1/2 years later, he’s showing me something on his phone and I got a glance of his photo album which included about four photos of what looked like him in line at McDonald’s or something and they were pictures of a girls butt that was standing in front of him. I just thought it was weird and nasty and creepy but most of all I felt bad for the girl because she has no idea those pictures exist. I asked him why he couldn’t be a normal shit boyfriend and download one of those secret apps, I also told him I wish a decent man would’ve caught him in the act and BEAT HIS ASS!!!! He just sat there and stared at the floor while I bitched him out. Just needed to vent… I have caught him texting girls before but this was invasive and made me extremely uncomfortable and angry that he would be so nasty. He’s a cute, decent boy. I just don’t understand what would posses him to do that. He victimized that girl. I wish I could delete the photos but I do not even want to touch his nasty self or his nasty phone. Again, just needed to vent. Wondering if this has happened to anyone else (probably not) but yeah. Thanks for reading.

Guys if you ever feel bad for yourselves remember these guys get girlfriends

I am someone who was sexually active over 20 years ago. Before high-speed modern internet (and consequently modern porn with 24/7 free access), sex was so much fun. The sexual tension and build-up on dates was strong, men would get erect just from kissing or a long hug. If a woman was good at oral, it was a surefire way to get him to cum quickly. No one ever tried to degrade me, slap/choke/burn me, hound me for dark roleplay, etc. Before around 2012 I never encountered a man who couldn’t get erect. Being good at sex and being attractive was a proven method for keeping men happy. I’ve been dating again the past 6 years, and I have encountered tons of men who: -bring up violent or degrading sexual preferences on first dates -do not get hard unless you’re rubbing their penis or doing something taboo - men in their 20s, 30s, 40s needing viagra -men who can’t finish through PIV -men who can’t get fully erect even with oral, let alone finish -men who are interested in sex but they can take it or leave it -men who need a whole production to finish I look better than I ever have. I’m told regularly that I’m beautiful and sexy. I know what I’m doing in the bedroom. I go for average men (I don’t even try to go for men who match my level of attractiveness because there’s too high of a probability of him being a player). I’ve tried talking to many different kinds of men and I’m discovering that sexual dysfunction is probably the norm now. I feel sad because I’ve just decided to be celibate. I’m tired of trying to find what was so easy years ago. I’m tired of getting to first or second base and leaving because I already know they are sexually dysfunctional in some way.

The porn industry is so profitable that they're refusing to even acknowledge that porn addiction exists.

Being a pedophile is not okay in anyway. There is nothing good about being a pedophile and if you are one and trying to show that it is okay, stop. Pedophiles dont belong in any communities, especially not the LGBTQ+ community. Being part of the community is attraction to same sex, not wanting sex, not having a select gender, being your authentic self. It's not showing attraction to a child. That's disgusting. If anyone thinks it is okay please don't talk to me, find help and dont try to hide that with a community that is all about pride. There is no pride in being a pedophile. If people are trying to accept it in LGBTQ then might as well add attraction to animals. It wont happen cause it's wrong just like pedophilia. The LGBTQ community has it hard enough in this world as it is, we dont want to be associated with pedophilia. No one does. Again if you have thought of children in a sexual manner, find help. That is not normal. Dont normalize it. There are laws set in place to prevent sexual acts against children for a reason. So it is absolutely wrong to think that way Edit: I want to say that everyone's comments are very good. I want to thank the survivors in the comments that had enough courage to talk about this hard subject. I understand that pedophilia is considered a disease to some and I think it is to. Yet it doesn't feel right to place them in the LGBTQIA community. Pedophilia is an attraction to a range of ages. Many of you have compared therapy for a pedophile to conversion therapy and that truly shouldn't be compared. There is only one thing that is similar between the two. It sometimes has no affect or doesnt work for long. I understand that can control it but either way they come to someone and tell them there is more of a chance they will never talk to them again. It is a big lose lose for them. Thank you for so many upvotes. It's the most I've ever gotten. Hope you all have a good day and happy holidays

Part of what Pride means to me is, no matter how weird someone may think I am, or how hard they find it to relate to some of what's seen in my community, it is *all* consensual. Pedophiles don't belong here.

Shout out to all the mothers who dont psychologically and emotionally scar their children for life. Yall the real mvp

I really felt this post. I never say happy Mother’s Day to my mom but to myself because I raised myself. So I think I deserve the credit

I am taking a mandatory class on pregnancy. I feel awful but can’t change the way I feel. All the women in class are gushing over the whole process and I’m (female) gagging. This is torture. I’m so sorry if anyone is offended but I find everything related to pregnancy just gross. I feel so conflicted.

I feel the same way. Pregnancy terrifies me and I have no desire for it. It is not worth the risk for me

Disgusting animals. Imagine comparing a person literally feeding their child to making a kid suckle on your dick. DISGUSTING PERVERTS Edit: I probably won’t be reacting to any more comments but before you go off, I was specifically venting about people sexualising the act of a child being breastfed - and I have seen people compare breastfeeding to e.g. public masturbation, because they think it’s “equally as inappropriate”. You don’t have to look particularly hard to find people with these opinions, this is fucking Reddit. This post wasn’t intended to shame anyone with a lactation or adult breastfeeding kink. If you see a person breastfeeding in public, just fucking ignore it. They’re not doing it for you, for society or the male gaze - they’re doing it for their child.

I don’t know why people are finding anything about this to be controversial. People need to leave breastfeeding mothers the FUCK alone

Let me preface this by saying I know all of these things shouldn't be said about a child and I should be the parent in this situation and handle it, but I don't know how at this point. She's never been like this, even as a toddler, it started about 5 months ago. Every day. Tantrums, screaming, not cooperating on anything. Everything is the worst day, she hates us. Any time we ask her to do the littlest thing even brushing her teeth it's high pitch screaming no and throwing herself on the floor. I've had to force ably bathe her sometimes while she screams as she refuses to do it. We've tried calmly trying to talk to her about this and her emotions and she just screams at us that she doesn't know. We tried taking things away, giving them back from exhaustion, sticking her in the corner, spankings, ignoring her only made her get physically violent and start throwing things. When it started I was working a lot and she barely saw me so I changed my work schedule to be home more, it didn't help it just made me more miserable. I tried spending a lot more time with her and she'd just throw tantrums then. We try to take her out for fun things and she'll throw a fit if we don't do exactly what she wants the whole time so we'll have to leave and waste money. We tried to keep her home from daycare seeing if that was the issue, but all she did is keep me up as I sleep during the day cause night shift and torment her brother who's 10. She's made this house miserable for all of us, no one wants to be home. My son would rather be at school than at home. He tries to talk to her and reason with her buy nothing works. She'll make a mess directly in front of me and I'll tell her to clean it and she'll scream she didn't do it and throw a tantrum. She destroys the house and refuses to clean up her mess. I try to be loving toward her but she's drained me so much I don't want to be around her or associate with her at all cause when I do I get screamed at. It's every day all day. I feel like I'm in an abusive relationship. None of us know what to do. She doesn't show any sign of autism other than this so I don't feel it's that. I've talked to her about sexual assault. I'm trying to get her into a therapist but we've been on a wait list for months, we got her into cheerleading to get her out and about with friends. We can't take her anywhere, we have to take shifts in who goes to the store because shell throw a fit the entire time because we wont buy her literally everytying. I'm sobbing writing this and I hate that I feel this way. Today she had to be home as her day care lady was gone. She kept me up all day screaming at me because the Xbox wasn't working and I lost it. I screamed back at her and she didn't seemed phased by it at all. She just fought back. She's seen me break down and cry because of what she does and she doesn't care. I've kicked her outside onto the porch before and watched from inside while she screamed. I'm surprised the cops haven't been called on us yet cause it sounds like we're beating her 24/7. We're all so tired. We hate being home. She makes our lives miserable. Sometimes I wish I could just send her away and I hate getting those thoughts. I just want it all to end. Edit: I've spoken to her about SA before as she was almost by another child when she was 4. She was cleared by a Dr and therapist of any kind of knowledge of what had happened. I'm very well aware of that kind of reality and always been hyper aware of these things Edit 2: Thank you everyone for the kind words and help. Yall have no idea how much it's helped to know this isn't normal and I'm not crazy. Yall have opened my eyes to problems I didn't even know could exist and I'll be taking her to a children's hospital to see what we can do to help her. Unfortunately I have to fight her dad on this because he doesn't believe in therapist and medication but I'm taking her regardless.

You need to take your child to an ACTUAL DOCTOR for behavioural analysis, your child sounds either autistic or traumatized by something that has happened, she is in constant distress and needs PROFESSIONAL HELP Please do not just think this is somehow normal bratty behaviour and get her the help she needs before it destroys you and her

I hate how I just can't stop eating when I'm anxious. There's this whole media and romantization of people getting anxious and working so hard they forget to eat, they get skinny and this is called beautiful. Meanwhile I swallow 3 sandwiches in dive minutes like it's nothing, it's shit, Idk why it's so frustrating to not be aesthetic.

I feel you on this so much, I've always envied people who could just forget to eat because I think about food 24/7, trying not to show it on the outside, never wanting to ask if anyone else was hungry because I was afraid I'd be the only one and everyone would just see me as a fat, disgusting, gluttonous pig it's gotten a little better over time, but I still never forget to eat, no matter if I'm stressed or anxious or sick I always want food

I'm pretty affectionate, especially towards family. I say "I love you" about a million times but my brother is pretty stoic and doesn't really like that so I just stopped saying it to him (nor saying i don't love him, I just don't say anything) Anyway, I kinda mumbled it under my breath today when he gave me some candy (he always gets me and the rest of the family little candies) and just as I was turning to leave I heard a really quiet "I love you too." My day is instantly better. I love my family

Its always nice to have the more stoic individual soften up

MAP? You’re attracted to minors? Call yourself what you really are. A PEDOPHILE. FUCK THIS WOKE SHIT IF YOU LOWER YOURSELF TO DESTIGMATIZE PEDOPHILIA. Professor Allyn Walker, you are everything what is wrong with the woke movement. You bring a bad name to the transgender community and the LGBTQ community. There is no saving the woke community if you go down this path of normalizing pedophilia.

How have we gotten to a point where this even needs to be fucking said... I don't want to live on this planet anymore.

So, I'm going to give you the quick version. Check my post history for the whole story. So, a few days ago I discovered a video on my husband's tablet of my underage niece(14/15), naked, in our bathroom. As soon as I understood what it was I called the police and relinquished the tablet to them. Since then I have gotten an emergency custody hearing set up for this coming week. Surprisingly (to me at least) the judge issued a temporary order of protection barring him from contacting anyone in my household or coming on the property. Our household is me (35f), my cousin (35f), her husband (37m/ military, currently away from home), their two sons (12 and 6) and my child (5/ fathered by my husband). I didn't think they would issue it because there has been no violence or threats of violence, but the judge was adamant and I am slightly relieved. I have counseling set up for myself and my daughter and am working with a legal advocate to navigate these processes and start the divorce. I'm holding it together for my daughter but every second I feel like I'm going to pass out or throw up from the emotion of it all. Three days ago, I thought I had a loving partner and husband. I thought that I had broken the cycle of abuse that has followed my family for generations. The suddenness of it all has me feeling on the verge of collapse. I never wanted to be a single parent. I loved my husband and meant my vows, but always told him that the one thing that would make me turn my back on him and walk away was anything having to do with kids/abuse. I have no regrets, or even real feelings about the loss of my marriage, right now. I know I did the right thing. My current focus is on keeping my daughter safe. But how do you pick up the pieces from this? How do I help my daughter and niece get through this and ever be ok?? I feel completely alone, though have found a community of friends, that I didnt realize I had, ready to bend over backwards to help. I've slept, maybe, 4 hours since it happened (2 days ago? Idk they've all run together.) I've reached out to everyone I can to try and help me figure things out. I have no money and no access to any bank accounts. I haven't worked for the last five years because of postpartum and PTSD. I've spent these years busting my ass in therapy to make sure I was mentally ok enough to parent and be a functional adult. I don't know how I'm going to pay bills of keep food on the table, but I am in contact with a women's shelter that has promised to help and I am going to contact social services and see if we can get emergency assistance. I'm also pretty sure he sabotaged my cousins car, which is the only transportation we currently have (had). He was at work when everything happened and when he called me to let him know he was on his way home, I confronted him and then told him he needed to bring her car back or we would report it stolen. I called his Dad and had him meet my husband at the house to take him to their house ( my daughter and I were laying low at a friend's house). He's driven her car since she got it 6 or so months ago and it has always been fine. It got him to work that day and back with no trouble. When I went to go to the courthouse the next more the car broke down half way to court and hasn't been drivable since. Yesterday, I discovered his google email was logged in on my daughter's tablet. I went in and looked at his search history and it confirmed everything: "how to empty oil from car quickly" "No oil car damage". It got worse from there: "Can you plead the fifth at a custody hearing", "can you lose custody of your child for unrelated child pornography", "When does child pornography become a federal offense" and so on. I have been in contact with the detective and let him know about all of this. And now, I'm just trying to remember to breath. Edit: I made a post on r/foodpantry if anyone is able to help. Thank you all for the support. You have all helped me let go of the guilt. I will be forever grateful for this community's support during this trying time. Edit2 : The post in food pantry was removed. My title/text were shocking when they shouldn't have. Also, I'm unfamiliar with Amazon and was in a rush trying to post and think of what we need so I just selected whatever popped up in whatever quantity with out looking at prices and quantities. I couldn't figure out how to add some basic food stuffs (said I need a prime membership,idk). Any way about it I'm completely emotionally and mentally drained and don't have the energy to figure out how to fix it. So, I'm not going to repost it at this time. I may do it later or just try and figure out local pantries. Thank you all for the support.

jesus, i’m sorry you’re going through this. you don’t deserve to have your life flipped upside down and inside out from this, i sincerely hope this situation gets better for you. thanks for doing the right thing and reporting him anyway.

I'm queer and boardering on Ace. I love going to pride in order to celebrate having my basic human rights. But I feel so uncomfortable seeing people dressed in kink/bondage wear. I'm part of the kink community, I understand their role and importance within lgbtq people getting their rights, etc. But the most important thing in kink is consent, and I don't consent to being part of your kink. You're actively using the public in your kink without their consent. You're making them view inately sexual things without their concent. Also, every pride event I've been to has not been age restricted, so that means minors are there. Yes their parents consent for them by bringing them, but their parents could also consent to beating their child, doesn't make it fucking okay. So really the parents consent means dick all when it comes to the morality of it. I just feel so gross and uncomfortable. It's a public event for everyone was everyone should be able to feel comfortable. Yes you could argue being in their kink gear in public makes them comfortable, but I hate wearing clothes, doesn't mean I should go to public events naked so I'm comfortable. I just feel so grimey and assaulted afterwards.

I also don’t get this. Couldn’t agree with you more. Never been to a pride, mostly because of what I see of it. (Also I hate crowds) It’s just… so much. So oversexualized. Kink isn’t inherent to being gay/bi/whatever and I’m sick of some people in the community acting like it is. If anything, there’s statistically more straight kinky people because there’s more straight people in general. Don’t get why sex and kink has to be such a huge part of these celebrations. And taking kids to that environment is extra fucked up. You wouldn’t take a kid to a strip club or a kink club.

I’m 25f and a virgin. It’s my choice, and that’s cool but nobody is pure. I’m not untouched snow or some ethereal maiden whose innocence can summon unicorns, I’m a fucking mess of flaws and weirdness like everyone else. The concept of being pure really grosses me out tbh, I am petite, babyfaced, autistic, anxious and because of these things come off as very soft and sweet to those who don’t know me well and people(mostly men) constantly call me “pure” and “innocent” and it just feels so icky, infantilizing, sexist, and all kinds of creepy! I’m not a baby or a doll and if I remind you of those things and that’s a turn on for you please introspect on why. Please don’t put me on a pedestal because I am not responsible for when your image of me shatters after realizing I’m just a normal human being. Purity is overrated and it’s been perpetuated as an ideal by fucking pedophiles!

i know exactly what post ur referring to lmaoo

and even nude so frequently. i understand teenagers have sex, i understand that it's an important part of the show's story, blah blah blah. my issue is the frequency and the intensity of the sex scenes. loooong graphic scenes. they showed a completely nude 15 year old after sex. they don't have to show all that... they never do. there are ways to imply sex definitely happened without that degree of graphic. there are ways to discuss nudity in the show without showing a bunch of 16-17 yr olds dicks flopping around. when i post about this on the Euphoria subreddit, people defend the show and are annoyed i would bring it up.. okay then. thats why i am venting here. it's concerning as fuck. the media seems focused on the drug use in the show and im like... WE ARENT GONNA TALK ABOUT THE UNDERAGE PEOPLE FUCKING CONSTANTLY?? OKAY!

Because sex sells, honestly that's the only reason.

My cousin is 20 & foolish. She has a bad habit of letting men get to her, though she pretends she doesnt care about men. She’s been seeing this sloppy thug dude for some time, saying “he’s cute, so I can hang out with him” & I told her his looks & charm doesnt matter in early stages, because its mainly a game. She ended up going to his place. Her and I are really close, so she tells me everything no matter what it’s about. She ended up texting me that they had sex, & described it to me saying they were just kissing naked but then he kept asking if he can put it in, but she was uncomfortable cause he didn’t have protection so she said no. She said he kept saying “please?” while sticking it in, eventually getting what he wanted without her approval. When she told me that, I told her that is RAPE. She started giggling, saying “i mean yeah, but like, it felt really good tho!” Dude.. i wanted to slap her… & theres nothing I can do to get him in trouble because i have no proof this happened…! A few weeks pass, shes sick & he cheated. I don’t know if she caught something (god i hope not) but he left by the time she was sick, messing with another girl. Once he left her, i talked with her & she mentioned shes better off without him. I was happy she realised, until THIS WEEK. She takes the dude out, pays for his stuff, lets him drive HER car (which he almost messed up), everything. He’s literally a bum that raped her, cheated, & why the hell is she still congested & saying she feels sick after weeks? I don’t know, but she keeps entertaining this dude. She didn’t even know him for 6 months. I dont know what more to say to her. Do i just watch her suffer..? I did everything I can to help… she wont listen...

You can’t help someone who doesn’t want to be helped.

I (m 21) am so sick of my parents constantly parading their sex life around. Ever since I was little, my parents have been very... sexually active. They don't mind the noise, and sometimes the house shakes with how... hard they do it. My dad would look at bdsm posts on Instagram, and didn't care if I was around. There would be nights that the only way I could escape the shaking and noises would be to sneak out at night and wait till it was over. Then there was the time I took my dad to a hockey game for his birthday, and he kept taking out his phone to sext my mom. Right next to me. When I was around 16, my mom started a "spicy" Instagram account along with an Onlyfans. She had converted her old personal account, and because of that, perverts were able to find my account and send me dms, saying they wanted me and my mom together, that they wanted to rape me, and other really gross things. I ended up blocking my mom on Instagram, taking down all photos of her on my own account, and distancing myself from both my parents online, since my dad would often share sexual images of her on his own account with really graphic captions. I thought it was over after that. But when I was 17, my dad started hanging up budoir photos of my mom. The photos were almost all nude, with only langerie or her hands covering herself. I felt gross, and whenever I complained about it, my dad would flip out at me. He made it seem like I hated women, or didn't support my mom. I honestly don't give a fuck if she wanted to take sexual pics, but I don't need to see them. Within the last year the photos have evolved into full on nudes. Breasts and lower parts out for everyone to see. My friends don't come over anymore. Within this past year, my parents have really lost all shame. They dirty talk on the couch next to me, thinking I can't hear. Whenever my parents drive anywhere, my dad holds my moms thigh, almost uncomfortably high. Sometimes I'll walk into a room and they'll be full on making out, and don't stop when I'm there. Or my dad will have my mom basically pinned to the counter, loudly kissing her neck. I'm grossed out just typing this. I also recently started driving hours (I didn't when I wad 16 due to Covid and then didn't get around to it) and the keychain on the keys for the car I've been using says "I promise to always be beside you, under you, or on top of you, love (my moms name)". I asked my dad if I could take it off since it was weird, but since it's not my car yet, he said no. The house has been shaking more often, and every night I can hear them. I feel weird and uncomfortable at the idea of talking to them about it. I've tried before, but all they said was "At least you know we love each other." But I've spent my whole life feeling violated by their "love", and it's only getting worse. I'm trying to move out. I really am. But I pay rent at home, and I'm also in college for the rest of the year, and it's really expensive to get even a shitty apartment in this economy. I feel like I've tried everything. And I know I'm only home a few months out of the year, but I dread coming home because of my parents sex life. I just don't know what to do anymore. I feel so violated, grossed out, and uncomfortable.

move out and never talk to them again. they sound extremely immature and narcistic

I don’t give a fuck about what you think my lunch looks like! You’re not the one eating it, bitch! Everyday I have to hear a smart ass comment about what I’m eating. If it’s not a smart comment then I’m getting asked a series of questions that will unlock my ability to eat my lunch, once I have answered them. Leave me the fuck alone! I want to eat my food and drink my mothafuckin’ juice!! Go…away…motherfucker… Let me eat my FOOD!!!!!!!!

I hate when people also try to insult your food too like "ew I don't like that" okay bitch?? And??? This isn't for you anyway and I wasn't planning on sharing????????

I brushed my teeth today, I took a shower today, I cleaned the kitchen today, and I COOKED! Depression is whack but I'm so proud of myself for doing so much. Edit***** The amount of support I have received is way more than I could ever ask for. I just posted to get my excitement out, but I am so grateful for everyone who responded. I have the first day of my job today and this encouragement and support has only made me more excited to take my life back into my own hands!

good job!

My wife and I have what I would call a horrible sexual relationship. She does not want more children, (nor do I) but is a fundamentalist Christian, and doesn’t believe in contraception or Condoms. I also don’t think she truly cares about me in the least. But if she catches me using pornography, she is devastated. This (wanting to control your partners sexual habits) doesn't seem to be limited to only religious people, but this specific “reason” kinda does. No idea why I should owe anyone my celibacy. For context, we had sex maybe 4 times last year.

It seems from your post history that you like your wife's sister. If that's the case, you need to make a decision about what you really want. From what I see there's two options: 1. You stay with your wife. If you're going to be a good husband, then sit down and communicate with your wife. Tell her how you feel and that means you're going to have to cut any and all contact with your wife's sister, because as you said youre emotionally cheating and that isn't right. I'm going to re-iterate COMMUNICATION is key here ... 2. Leave your wife. Get a divorce because its not healthy for either of you. Forget about whatever bills you have to pay, you made the decision to go behind her back and talk to her sister. Decide, if this is what you want to do, then do it. You won't bring her down anymore (by sneaking behind her back) and in this way, she doesn't bring you down (by telling you what you she doesn't want to have a physical relationship)

I genuinely hate being a black woman in this stupid society. What infuriates me the most about being black is the stereotypes and how some of us enforce them. I hate how some of us are racist to other races then they proceed to get mad when they're called out on it. Like we aren't immune from being racist ourselves just because we are black. I hate how even some our own people hate us and are colorist or call us whitewashed for not fitting the stereotypes. How am I whitewashed for not cursing a lot, HAVING GOOD GRADES, for my entire music taste to not just be rap, and for wearing clothes that I think are cute? I hate being followed around in stores and being stared at by the employees. I hate how normalized it is for others to call us monkeys and seeing "well well well" on the comment section of a video of a black person committing any crime. I hate the absolute obsession some non-blacks have with saying the n word. Especially non-black influencers like if you know it's an offensive word that could get you cancelled if you said it then why say it.. they're honestly stupid. Edit: I really appreciate all the support in these comments and the kind messages I got (also I'm a teenager so stop it with the weird dms) I'm glad that other people can relate and everyone in these replies have helped me see things differently. Thank you everyone 💗

Stupid comes in all colors, sounds like you are a good person so love yourself and don’t worry about anyone else

I was severely bullied in middle school by this girl who hated me for no reason. She would threatened to beat me constantly, threw my stuff into the trash, pushed me randomly when I was walking, called me names, etc. Today I'm 22 and found out she died last may. I'm not sad about it and kinda wish she'd died sooner so I could have a nicer time in middle school, but I'm feeling kinda bad for thinking like this. edit: this post got so big and made me feel even shittier, but this is a good thing since wishing someone's death over acts made when they were kids is in fact terrible. I'll try my best to forgive her memory and let this finally go

Completely normal thinking like that. Feeling bad for thinking like that is also just a sign that you are a nice compassionate human being.

Let me clarify. They SHOULD be accepted, they SHOULD be supported, but to celebrate them, call them brave, courageous, or being proud of them for it is just hurtful to the spouse. what if the straight spouse came out and said 'I have discovered I have no sexual or romantic feeling towards my partner, so I am leaving them to persue other people'. They wouldn't be celebrated; they would be vilified. The double standard here sucks. I'm going through this now. I love my wife. I support her, and accept her for who she is. But having people celebrate the end of my marriage so she can be with someone else, and congratulating her for it has me just burning.

hey- I just wanted to say that my parents went through the same thing and nothing is more confusing, but they're good friends now with a lot more respect and civility towards each other than when they were together. It was the best thing that could have happened to them. I'm not sure, or saying your situation is similar, but it never hurts to find a good ear to talk to, maybe talk to a therapist if you can.

My dad falls asleep not even **ONE MINUTE** into the movie. Once he passes out, he is knocked out *cold*. But for some reason the very second the credits start rolling, he wakes up. I mean the *exact* second the movie blacks out and credits appear, he wakes up. After the movie, he’ll ask non-stop things like “What was the movie about?” “What’s the name of the movie we just watched?” “What was the ending?” “Did (character name) end up surviving?” Which, if he actually watched the movie instead of dozing off, he would know the answers to all those questionss. Edit adding onto annoying things my dad does: My dad also inquire a lot about the movie before hand. He’ll ask things like what the genre is, if it came out recently, how long the movie is, if it’s popular or has good ratings, and just if it’s a good movie. Answering these queestions are fine for him but when my mom reads him the movie description he decides the whole movie is spoiled and theirs no reason to watch it anymore. My mom gets way too emotional while watching movies. If a background character dies, she sobs for the remainder of the movies. If the two main characters get separated, she sobs for the rest of the movie. Even if the ending of the movie is cheery and good, she sobs. Why? Because it’s *so heart-touching to see everyone get a happy ending*. All you can hear is her sniffling and whimpering when she cries. My little sister has to use the bathroom every 20 minutes. She makes us pause the movie and wait for her to come back so she doesn’t miss anything. For the first 10 minutes of the film, she’ll get up every minute to grab something or put something away. My older sister makes jokes every time she gets the chance, talks quite a bit during the film, and chews loudly and makes a mess of popcorn. She’ll also get up for a refill and make noise in the kitchen cooking more popcorn. She insists on us not pausing to wait for her but we have to because of how much noise she’s making. She’ll even tap your shoulder to get your attention to talk to you. I prefer to stand while watching tv in our living room, and my mom has a serious problem with this. She thinks it is incredibly unnerving to see me just standing there for an hour straight and insists on me taking a seat. She doesn’t wanna watch movies with me because I prefer to stand while watching them. Kinda unrelated edit about y’all’s comments: guys please stop commenting on whose fault this “issue” is, how I should be grateful for these moments, and anything else that’s been commented a bajillion times here. Movie watching is something we do sometimes to hangout as a family and I’m just complaining that it never works out. We all have issues with each other cause of something weird or annoying we do. Because of this, we choose other family bonding activities instead of movie watching. These moments aren’t taken for granted; like, we work around it cause sure we can’t movie watch together but we find other things to do together. And the “you’re the weirdest” or “your fault for all of this” comments are just rude. Like I’m not saying I’m not weird for standing while watching movies. I’m not saying it’s anybody’s fault for not being able to watch movies together. I’m just complaining about how we all just can’t bear to watch a movie together. We all have our own thing we do that ticks everyone else off and makes movie watching together impossible.

Look, I know this isn't what you want to hear but I'd love to watch **OPs Family Watching a Movie: The Movie**

seriously stop. i dont care about the 12 year olds I encounter, i'm talking about the grown men who treat me like shit once they hear my voice in the call. it is fucking scary some of the stuff you guys say, hearing it up close, getting piled into my brain. stop repeating how inferior i am when i miss a shot. stop asking me for nudes and spam dm-ing me after a game. stop please. this is my favorite hobby and im sick of having fun then going into one match and exiting it feeling like im going to burst into tears. its terrifying to be threatened, i dont care if its online or not. no i dont want to be your girlfriend, no i dont want you to boost me, just leave me the fuck alone. sorry for the improper writing im just upset and typing really fast

These kinds of people are one of the reasons why I quit online gaming. Mute, report, block. That’s my motto

I know Im going to get jumped on down voted for this but I am upset/pissed/insert word of choice here and I need to vent. Im a human trafficing survivor. I have survived things as a child that made grown adults vomit when they heard my story. Im not here to tell my story though Im here to bitch. Rape is not a kink. Rape is not a fantasy. People that support this specific kink, write these kind of stories or perform these horrendous things for ENTERTAINMENT should be subjected to a psychological exam. There is something SERIOUSLY wrong with you if violating another human in the most brutal way gets you off. Now Im not talking about CNC or "consensual nonconsent" where its clearly been negotiated that its just pretend, just a play acting and the person having things done still has dominion over their body but has temporarily given it up. Im talking things like "Rape" audios, where the writer gives an explicit step by step and the victim is clearly a crime victim. Im talking movies and tv shows that use this horrendous form of abuse as a plot point. What makes it worse is I cant complain or say anything to combat the hundred plus reactions of "this was amazing" or "soooo hot" or Im kink shaming. But thats my whole point...it shouldnt BE a kink! Why as a society has this become acceptable, even 🤢 encouraged?? I have to carefully screen reviews on things I watch or read or ask friends to avoid the dunked in ice water panic that I get when confronted of reminders of my trauma. Why is it so damn mainstream and accepted?? We teach consent, use the #yesallmen #metoo but then turn a blind eye or cheer it on when its in entertainment form. The cognitive dissonance is maddening. I dislike humanity severely some days. In my not so humble opinion all of that sort of "entertainment" should be behind locks and age verification and not just out in general media. If you want that deviance you should have to jump through hoops and search for it, not me and other survivors forced to walk like its a field of landmines just to avoid it. Anyways.. let the down votes begin.

Thank you. Thank you for standing up and shouting louder than creeps. World’s laws are above human ´kinks’ and poor excuses to justify their crimes. World’s laws are not about society’s laws, bias, it’s not about being tolerant of a crime bc it get mixed in the wrong box with normal chill stuff. I wrote a whole book about those rules of the soul, and I still receive, years after, hate letters at my address. You give me more hopes for fixing the next generations. It is still worth the try. Never give up. Hell is above Earth’s surface, you’ve traveled out of it. I wish you all the best from now on, and to love yourself a thousand more times than any hater could hate you. All my wishes to you. You’re completely right.

You fucking idiots bullied the studio and sent literal death threats to release the game and stop delaying it and then bitch and moan when its filled with bugs and glitches. They rushed it out to make yall happy and then, when its rough, you complain. What did you assholes think would happen. I dont feel bad about the product you got.

I have 46 hours currently logged into Cyberpunk, and I absolutely adore the game. It's very evident the people complaining are looking for things to complain about. It is still the best RPG of its kind, and it's not even close. It's the first game since New Vegas to have me this invested, interested, and obsessed.

Nowadays all you see and hear is how men hate women and how women hate men and its honestly just so fucking annoying, thats it, thank you for reading.

A vent that i do not need to open it and read it? Awesome. Take my upvote.

I find it laughably hilarious how schools LOVE ABSOLUTELY LOVE to preach anti bullying messages and try to "Discourage" bullying but if a kid is actually being bullied they do jack shit to stop it. They either try to help the victim get help in some way such as a counselor or something but do very little to the bully ya know the one causing the victim their problems in the 1st place? Also STOP PUNISHING VICTIM!!!! Why is it of a kid is being whaled on by an asshole kid the second that kid hits back they get an equal or sometimes worse punishment then the kid who was beating them HOW THE FUCKING FUCK IS THAT FAIR!?. Like what do schools hope to achieve buy doing that? All that does it make kids not wanna speak up about it or defend themselves because your teaching them "oh if you defend yourself you'll be punished" like seriously all your doing is discouraging kids from standing up for themselves. Truth is schools don't give a shit if a kids being bullied cause if they did niethier of these problems would exist.

When I wasin high school a girl tried to fight me and I didn't fight back but still got suspended for 5 days (same time as her) should've punched her in the face... the outcome would've been exactly the same except she would've known not to fuck with me. When I have kids I'm going to teach them they need to stand up for themselves/fight back. You can't count on the school to protect you or advocate for you and that's fucked up

It was announced that Elliot Page and his wife are divorcing and a lot of comments say they aren't surprised and I feel the same. I even saw a comment that said "my now wife is transitioning and it's taking a toll on our marriage but I'm trying." No shit it's taking a toll on your marriage! Look, I love my boyfriend for everything *he* is. Inside but especially out. He's the perfect *man* for me and there's nothing like a *man's* arms around me and having great sex with him and his *penis*. If he wanted to transition to a female, it would break my heart and I would be by her side but break it off romantically. You can say all you want that that ain't right and makes me a shitty person and I would be but I'm a straight woman who likes *men* and need dick to fuck with a *real* man. **Edit: I'd like to clarify that I'm not at all calling FTMs not "real" men and vice versa. Some seemed to have understood that while others took it the wrong way. I'd like to say I'm sorry about that and didn't meant to offend anyone.

As a trans person and having a master's in biology, that is fine one hundred percent, if you're boyfriend changed, he would change his physical identity to match how he feels on the inside. You however can't change your sexuality so no one would blame you, a lot of people who come out as trans break up but still remain close friends, if you would like to ask questions or anything, this is one of my fields

I am 14. I was 14. It has only been a handful of months but it feels like a lifetime since then. I was running from my abusive parents home and terrified out of my fucking mind, carrying my school backpack and my stuffed elephant. I was too scared to go very far, so I was just wandering the office park down the street from our apartment complex and trying not to break down crying. I was trying to come up with a plan, and I figured I would sleep outside and then wait for the school bus the next morning and go straight to the only person I trusted there, the school counselor who knew about my family and was trying to help me. They would do something, I just knew it. Well, it was the middle of winter. I was already shivering violently in my shorts and hoodie that I had run out in, and I would definitely have gotten sick or died trying to sleep in that cold. I had sat down for a moment in front of some random office building, and a woman came out. She sat down with me, brought me water and granola bars and candy. She asked me if I was okay. I said no. She eventually did end up calling the cops, but she hugged me and promised I would be okay. She talked to me until they arrived, and hung around the whole time the cops talked to me. She told me about her kids, about her ex-husband, who had also been abusive to her. How she made it out, and how good she was doing now, and how she believed in me to do the same. She stayed with me until i was taken away and gave me her buisness card, which I'm looking at as I type this. Cortney, if you're out there somewhere, I will never be able to thank you enough. I was brought back with them, but I'm alive and I know who I can call if I need help. Just the fact that I am lucky enough to have someone behind me is so reassuring.

bless u both <3

The man I've seen weekly for the last like, 5 years, someone I trusted, who has helped me SO much, someone I felt was also a friend, was just arrested for murdering his father. I feel betrayed. I can't stop crying over how sad this is and laughing over how absurd this is. I need to find a new therapist but I know I'll never find one I connected with as much as I did to him. I don't know what to feel and keep cycling through emotions. I never thought I'd hafta utter the words 'my therapist killed his dad' but here we are.

Well if he helped you he helped you. It doesn’t undo the work he did. Onto the next one!

I hope your dick shrivels inside your body and never sees the light of day nor a woman's thighs again. If it ever did. Fuck you. I need advice and you consistently downvoting it before any one sees it is annoying as fuck. I am having a hard time and the last thing I need is some loser stalker hell bent on internet votes. I could give two shits about about the votes itself. Its the fact that it dropping to 0 = less viewers and interactions from there on. Let me know when it falls off fuckwad. Edit: pls dont upvote this or give awards. I was particularly frustrated yesterday and this person just added fuel. I dont want to get banned from anywhere. Also I am not saying dont downvote me. If you dont like what I say go ahead. Just dont stalk me pls

A lot of people hang out after posting something where new content is posted, and downvote it right away so that there own content has more visibility. It could also be something as simple as your post being too long. Sonetimes people will click a post, see its too long, and downvote it for annoying them. Sorry if you have a stalker, but could be just normal reddit shenanigans.

I was in my room in front of my computer trying to study, and it so happened that I got hard, I got onto my bed and started doing "you know what". As I was in the middle of it, my mother entered my room. I screamed "KNOCK FIRST!", and then she left after catching a glimpse of me. She knew exactly what I was doing, and now I don't know what to do, I'm extremely panicked, and I've no idea how to cope, because I'm about to have dinner with my whole family in a bit, and I can't even look her in the eyes properly, I'm full of shame.

As a mom to a teenager. I wouldn’t worry about it to much. Akward for you both but not a big deal. I bet she knocks from now on :)

We are already LC with my mom but she buys things for the kids and then drops them off with us. I got tired of explaining that no, I don’t think Grandma found any pink shirts this time, either, so now I just get the bags from her first before showing him. Well, we got another couple of bags of clothes and, surprise surprise (/s), no pink shirts for my son! She went to three different stores. My son (almost 4 years old) has told her repeatedly that his favorite color is pink, and his favorite shirt is his pink Dolly Parton shirt. His favorite shoes are his pink sparkly shoes. His teddy bear is wearing a pink shirt to match his Dolly Parton shirt. His favorite color has been pink since he could articulate a favorite color. So, I stashed the clothes my mom just brought over and I am going to take my son on a personal shopping trip, just me and him, and we are going to the girls sections first and making pink shirts a priority. I haven’t done this yet because it has been hard with the pandemic, shut downs, having a baby to haul along with us, and the rest of my list of excuses. I tried doing some online shopping and catalog shopping with him but he had a hard time focusing enough to pick out clothes. Well, no more excuses! And, if you are a person who does what my mom does, just know that your actions make a difference and it is probably not the one you are going for. My mom has turned the kind and generous act of clothes shopping into a way to confuse my son into thinking that something like his favorite color could be “wrong.” She thinks that my son doesn’t notice or care, but he *does* notice and he *does* care. It is confusing for him. He sees other little kids his size wearing pink shirts, and Grandma buys pink shirts for his sister all the time. He knows that he has told her that his favorite color is pink but he doesn’t know why she won’t buy him pink, so then what does he think? Kids are smart and observant, and my mom gives my son way less credit than he deserves. Well, it’s her loss! Edit: I can’t believe I left this out, but my husband’s favorite colors are also pink and purple and he owns a number of pink clothing items (and I am pretty confident that he looks exactly like [Jason Momoa](https://imagesvc.meredithcorp.io/v3/mm/image?url=https%3A%2F%2Fstatic.onecms.io%2Fwp-content%2Fuploads%2Fsites%2F14%2F2020%2F11%2F06%2FInStyle-December-Jason-Momoa-Lead-2-2000.jpg)). It is actually pretty easy to find adult men’s clothes in these colors, but I rarely find little boys clothing in pink. Thanks for the silver. Fuck gender stereotypes. Look sickening!

My one son went through a phase of pink clothes when he was 12. At the end of the school year he got an award for “the biggest supporter of breast cancer research” as a joke from a teacher. My BIL looks intimidating. He lifts weights and was in the Marine Corps for twenty years. He loves wearing pink shirts. It’s his favorite color. Tell your mom men can and do wear pink. It’s a color. That’s it.

Every fucking time they fucking have something bad happen instead of disciplining that stupid fuck, they just laugh like a bunch of fucking retards and every fucking time she does something bad the fucking hogs that are her parents just fucking enable more of it. And everytime that little fuck in the blue shirt cries, which is at least 3 times/episode, I want to smother him with a pillow filled with razor blades. Fuck this show is so stupid but my sisters both love it so much, I just want to watch Iron Giant with them because ik they'll like it and it's something I loved as a kid but everytime I fucking turn it off they cry.

I’m so sorry but this made me laugh and I needed that rn. Lmao. I haven’t seen much of Peppa pig except like the time she rudely hangs up on her friend. Fucking bitch

DO NOT EAT PRINGLES FAT FREE POTATO CHIPS. THEY WILL GREASE YOUR BUTT. Don't even say a word. I like potato chips, and can't eat them very much or I'll get more fat (hush all of you). I tried out these Pringles Fat-Free chips because they were super low-cal. BBQ flavor. The hell. The can said they had 70 calories per serving, which meant the whole can had 490 calories inside total. I could munch through a can in a day with my lunch, dinner, etc. So I got several cans, and began enjoying one a day for the past four days. But what they dont freaking tell you... Except in tiny print you cant read without a damn electron microscope ...is that the primary ingredient is something called "olean" which I have since learned is Latin for "Unwashable & Indestructible Butt Grease." Oh Yeah. I'm not even kidding. So today, while I'm standing in the living room debating whether or not Laundry or Dishes will get done first, I get the urge to fart. I live only with my husband, so sweet. I let the honk loose and its wrong. Something just sounded wrong. I know my own wind, and I have never farted a sound that sounded like a fart wrapped in a pillow. Oh yes, something was very wrong. I had just shat myself. But this evil olean makes crappi g yourself sound almost like a regular fart, and had I not been particularly attentive, it could easily have gone unnoticed, I'm telling you. THAT's how utterly covert and evil this olean stuff is. What the Holy Hell?! What if I'd gone out to hang with friends or gone for a drive, what then? So I walk carefully to the bathroom and disrobe. Before I even sit on the toilet, I wad paper and carefully wipe from the front. Sure enough, it was light brown, and had the texture of soft spackle. You Pringle bastards. I sat down and pushed a bit, and lo, out came a jet that I didnt even feel an urge for one minute earlier. It piled in the bowl like brown marshmallow fluff. The problem rose when I tried to wipe. I went through a whole damn roll of TP and could not get it all off me. Soooo. I jumped in the shower. Yep, its gross, but it had to be done. There I stood, water pouring down, cheeks spread, and using my own hand to make certain I'm clean. That was when I discovered that after using my hand to wipe myself (before I soaped the area) my hand came back covered in some sort of transparent grease. It was so damn foul! The grease made water bead off my hand. It was tacky too, and very difficult to manage. So I grabbed the bar of saop and went to work. You Pringle bastards. The bar of soap came away coated in grease as well, and would no longer wash. I had to turn the water to hot and massage the soap for five minutes to get it to the point where I could use it again. It took me an hour to get this damn grease off my pucker. I shudder to think of what its doing INSIDE ME right now, but I will damned sure never eat that stuff again. Pringle bastards. This is where the joke about "anal leakage" came from. its real. To Hell with Pringles.

Are you a horror writer, by any chance?

You may think its a roast. Its not. People need to put an end to that way of thinking.

I’ve had people say that a lot to me. I don’t sound “black” at all, to the point where people would legit be surprised to see I was black cause I sounded so “white”. I don’t sound white, I sound proper and the fact that being white is associated with being/speaking proper is sad.

I'm in my 20's and still a virgin because I'm not ready yet. I don't give people shit for having sex, it's not my business and I literally don't care about what people do with their bodies. I just wish that people wouldn't make me feel bad for waiting until I wanted to do it. I even caught an ex friend of mine shit talking me for not having sex. I literally want to cry about it right now. Whats worse is that I've had so many negative experiences with intimacy that I just start to feel really gross when I'm intimate with someone. I need to work through those issues before I'm ready. Edit: Oh my goodness I was not expecting this post to get so much attention. Thanks for the really nice comments and good advice! Some information that I left out was I did not tell my friend about me not wanting to have sex yet. My ex told them and then I caught my friend talking about it and being really rude. I keep this information private but I understand the confusion. I'm also not into the whole purity culture thing and I'm not in the mindset that I am giving away some sort of gift. I'm just not ready yet and don't want to force myself to have sex before I feel ready. I literally don't care if others are having sex or not. My issue was with the fact that I was made to feel bad about waiting. I think that we just shouldn't judge people for what they do with their bodies.

I'm in my 20's too and I share the same stance. I personally don't see the value in it, so I don't do it.

you just shouldnt have. you KNEW I was autistic. you KNEW I go nonverbal and cry and all kinds of other shit when stressed. when I tried to explain that yeah, my brain is fucky sometimes and I can have days where there is some regression, you told me you didnt want to 'raise' me. like wtf? you knew me for literal years and heard me talk and open up about all of that. just because I can do Adult things like make doctors appointments and give head doesnt mean that my other issues just Magically Disappear. just because your coworker has autism doesnt mean you get to hold up their customer service facade and say I'm 'faking' symptoms. I hope you stop being such an insensitive prick.

That fucking title. I've been saying those words for years. Also applies to friendship. It always goes: >Ooh, autism... So cool, I love autistic people! >Hey, can you, like, not be *actually* autistic? That's straight ridiculous.

And I found her. I touched her and said to my boyfriend 'She's cold'. I couldn't put 2 and 2 together until I saw his face. Then I tried to grab her arm and it was already in rigor. Telling my grandparents and having them come downstairs. Seeing my brother come out of his room asking what's happening. Hearing my grandparents start to scream. All I could do was let out some tears and hold my brother. Called 911. When they were just about to take her away I couldn't do it. I didn't want them to take her. I was numb and sad and now I'm ripped to pieces. The image of her cold and laying on the couch is permanently etched into my corneas and I don't know how to make it go away. I keep replaying the day before and that morning over and over in my head. It's on repeat yet somehow every single moment reruns and overlaps eachother and the only constant image is her lifeless body. I have no idea what to do anymore. What do you do after someone dies? After your mom dies? Doing anything other than cry feels guilty. I held my piss for 12 hours because I was too sad to get out of bed. I don't want to eat. I just want to sleep and cry. And on the other half of my brain is just all the things I'll have to start doing next week. I shouldn't be thinking about that right now but literally what am I supposed to do? She was only 47. It wasn't supposed to happen now. Edit: I just want to thank everyone for the responses. It's really overwhelming and I never thought I could feel so cared about by such a community, let a lone strangers. It's hard and I'm going between a lot of emotions. I'm grateful that I have family here to support and support me, and I'm thankful for all of you as well. You're all so amazing. Thank you so much.

I am so so sorry. you’re so brave for processing your emotions with words and sharing them. It’s okay to feel sad. It’s okay to avoid everything as you grieve. Your feelings are valid. Be kind to yourself by acknowledging your reaction.

Tastes pretty bad, actually. Sometimes, it's neutral if the guy is on a clean diet, but the texture is super gross no matter what. I mean, I'm sure my pussy don't taste like peaches or whatever, but that doesn't change anything.

Cum is just ball boogers

The title says it all. I’m a huge true crime, murder TV show nut, always have been. I find it fascinating. But one thing that will never cease to disturb me is when I meet fellow true crime fans, get excited because I found a friend with a mutual interest, and then immediately I am horrified when I realize they fetishize murderers and rapists. Ted Bundy and others like him were able to slaughter so many people *because* of their charm. And sociopathic murderers still exist; just because we caught bundy and Manson doesn’t mean there’s not dozens or even hundreds of them walking among us. By fetishizing, idolizing, and drooling over the likes of famous serial killers of the past, you are motivating, validating, and feeding the egos of the serial killers of the future. They see you talking about how hot these men and women are, how you’re attracted to the danger or whatever, and you’re giving their ego a boost, giving them more motive to carry out whatever sick shit they dream about. Many of them *want* the fame, notoriety, and “groupies” that come with being a prolific or horrific killer, and by showing them you’re already a part of the monster fan club... you’re just giving them more reasons. I watch true crime stuff, yeah. But I sit in awe and horror when I watch it. I don’t see bundy and think how hot he is, I see the last thing women he killed *ever* saw, and its sobering. If you have any reaction along the lines of “I want to sleep with that man”, you need therapy and you need to shut up. Edit: before you defend these types of posts, I want you to sit and think about how the victims family feels. Spouses, children, aunts uncles cousins, friends... seeing people lusting over the monster that took their baby or loved one away from them for good. It’s not okay, quirky, or cute.

I agree. Most women I had talked to say that they find Ted Bundy hot...why? He isn't attractive at all! He looks like a dad who's given up on rekindling the spark in his marriage and hates life.

My mom is a single parent and uses dating apps for both finding potential dates and also just to "people watch". We usually sit on the couch and entertain ourselves by looking at the guys using cheesy pick-up lines and stuff. I wanted to join in on the fun and make an account to lurk as well so I downloaded Bumble and made a profile. I'm barely an adult and my profile says my age. It forced me to have a picture of me so I just chose one with no makeup, messy hair, pjs, etc. My bio read "don't match with me I rarely open this app". Basically I wanted to be as unappealing and invisible as possible. We had some fun looking at the ridiculous things people were saying. I got over 200 likes in an hour and assumed it was bots (at least until the following things happened.) Everything was fine until I realized the default age settings were 18-80+. I noticed this because I was seeing 30+ year old men show up on my feed. I thought it was strange and had an impulsive idea to change the age filter to 50-80+ just to see if people were actually liking a profile wayyyy too young for them. Well, they were. I instantly got 4 matches in a row ranging from 54-62 years of age. I felt sick and immediately unmatched them and never sent a single message. I later got 7 more when I was away from my phone, unmatched them all and set my age filter a lot lower. I just feel sick that in a few hours over a dozen 50+ year old men decided it was perfectly fine to swipe right on a girl who was barely above the age of consent. And the amount of 30-50 year old men who liked me was far more. Curiosity killed the cat, I suppose.

These comments are full of the type of guys that see absolutely no problem in older men fucking/persuing 18 year olds until…they themselves get older, have a daughter, raise her, care about her, see their 18 year old as the naive young adult they are and not an object, and oh shit, now a bunch of middle aged men wanting to fuck her doesnt seem right…

i dont exactly wanna kill myself but i just. want to dissapear in some other quick way. nothing feels worth it and i just don't wanna live past being a teenager maybe it's me trying to avoid responsibility because i don't want to grow up, i just don't want to be on my own to most likely crash and burn. i just don't want to die but i don't want to live either if it makes sense. if i could just shut off my brain and restart from some point being someone else i probably would.

Yep. My psych meds got me out of suicidal depression, into regular "what's the point," depression. End me. But I won't do it.

Now I can’t put money into my account and order the thing I wanted too till Monday or Tuesday tho so fuck you🖕🏻

I mean jokes on him though

Are you fucking kidding me? The second my dad's in the ground you're just going to bring some dude over to live with us? I told you "No, I don't want him here" so why the fuck did you even ask me how I felt if you didn't care. But yeah, fuck my feelings, just like you and dad decided to be addicts instead of raising your kids, nice job by the way, you got one of your son's killed. And you know what, fine. Go ahead. Fuck it, just bring some dude to live with us now that my dad's dead. But seriously?? FUCKING HIM ON THE COUCH WHILE IM UPSTAIRS IN MY ROOM?? You knew I was continuously entering and leaving my room, you and him saw me, so why did you have to fuck him right then?? Lady what the fuck is wrong with you. Jesus Christ. Nice to know that still after all these years you'll always have someone else to prioritize over your kids. God I can't wait to get back to work and get the fuck out of this house. Edit: Thank you guys for all the supportive comments. I didn't expect my rant to get so much attention. For context, I'm 17, CPS won't help me, (I don't know why, I think I'm too old or something), and I haven't got anywhere else to stay. Honestly it's fine. I don't know if she's still on anything but it doesn't matter to me, I've just got one more year here and then I'm going off to college, out of state so I can keep away from her until she decides she wants to be a proper mom again. Thank you all again, you've been very, very kind.

im so sorry, you’re mums exactly like mine. i hope you’re able to get away from that toxic environment.

Fucking hell, the shit is making me panic, what the fuck do I do, why are places already getting involved, where the fuck will the kids go, what the fuck is going to happen? Will we be stuck? What's gonna happen with the covid restrictions if ww3 happens there will be a bigger rise in covid, I'm scared. Edit: Big-man Boris said there is an 80% chance war could happen this week

just go with the flow dude

Five minutes into this debate and it’s clear Biden is too old and Trump lies too much. Neither of these geezers should be president.

We're Screwed Massively.

I’m exhausted. I have 8 natural children. I’m married, Christian. I never leave my house. I don’t have any friends. I never go out to eat. I literally cook, clean, take care of my entire family. My sister is older, works a ton of hours. I help my elderly mother babysit. IM A SLAVE. I have to beg my husband for anything I may need. I dropped out of college to be a mom. Trying not to become a bitter old church mother sitting in the back of the church with a stale hat and a purse full of candy.

Honestly why didn't you divorce him when you found out he had a mistress that was a years long thing? Why stay with someone who obviously doesn't love you and care for you the same way you do him?/genq

his show is terrible, and how he treats his guests are terrible. the fact that he received NO criticism for telling a schizophrenic girl that she was living in a fantasy world, humiliated her, and let her be laughed at on national television up until now is horrendous. that poor girl went through so much trauma and he just listed it all casually in front of thousands of people. he’s a terrible human being and i hope his career crashes and explodes. he does NOT deserve a platform. Ever.

Sending the kids to “Turnabout Ranch” because of their emotional abusive parents!

I had a crush on a guy for sometine now, and he probably already knew that. Last night he sent me a message saying "hey i like you, let's date!". I was exited as hell and replied with how i feel and saying yes to the date part. Minutes later he sent a voice message with his friends laughing in the background saying "You would like that very much huh? I wouldn't hook up with you idiot, its April's fool" This was just, aouch

At least now you know he was an ass? Sorry that happened to you, that was a dick move.

I still can’t believe he’s dead. And now people are posting the picture of him hanging online. God I’m fucking so miserable and I just wish he was alive and I just can’t take this pain. I’m going to his funeral and I can’t even look up his fucking name online cause I’m afraid I’ll see his fucking hanging body.

Social media is one of the worst things that happened to us, technology wise. Thats disgusting. I am sorry for your loss. You may never know what anyones going through (not saying you didn’t, but the ones posting it may not). I can not fathom the things that this lost ones family has gone through. Stay strong please.

I fucking love you random fuck. I love everyone for no reason just cuz I hope you have an amazing day whoever you are I love you sincerely. TOMORROW WILL BE A GREAT DAY YOU WILL BE HAPPY YOU WILL BE GREAT DON'T GIVE UP DUMMY!

"And I love you random citizen!"

why do drug addicts have to bring kids into the world just to mentally fuck them up? Im so fucking tired of my dead beat mother coming in and out of our lives i tried to live with her once and all she did was ruin me and make me having a burning hatred for myself why tf do you drug addicts have kids knowing exactly wtf u are going to do them and then you assholes beg for pitty no one have empathy for you no one has pitty for you you’re a embarrassment and a dead beat if you’re currently dealing with a drug addiction GET FUCKING HELP YOU ARE MAKING YOUR FAMILY FUCKING HATE YOU YOU’RE KIDS HATE YOU MORE THAN ANYTHING NO MATTER HOW MUCH THEY SAY THEY LOVE YOU THEY HATE YOU PLEASE GET FUCKING HELP EDIT: In the comments youll best understand what this edit means as its about my mom. So I decided to stop being petty and immature and let the past go and not necessarily forgive my mom but forget what shes done today (01/28/24) we went to the city and picked my mom and her dog up so we could keep her dog cuz shes gonna try to go help she came back with us and is gonna stay a few days as we was heading back every asked if i wanted food cuz we stopped at a gas station i kept saying no that i was good but my mom was the first to get back to the car and she kinda made me eat some of the things she got and she said in a calm way “dont said me any messages like that again or ill have to beat your ass” (me and my family as a joke always say were gonna beat each others asses lmaooo) but its been a few hours since we been back and its been really good between us i helped her wash her dog and we been talking and laughing a lot im really happy to see her and that shes here but im gonna be broken when she leaves again i wanted to stay mad at her to avoid this but there is no avoiding it i now realize i need her im mourning my dads death still but 4 years later its way more painful than the day he died and i truly need her it feels good to have her here im so glad she doesn’t hate me and she still has the humanity to not hold a grudge against me for what i said theres a lot i said i regret saying but there some i dont regret saying but I still think drug addicts shouldn’t have kids I still wish i didn’t go through that but fxck the negative times all im thinking about is our good times It feels so good to let the past go and have her here

Grew up with alcoholics. I didn't have a peaceful childhood. I hate my father, I pity my mother.

thats it. i hate shitting, taking a dump, pooping, whatever ya wanna call it. i hate everything about it, i hate the feeling while and after shitting, i hate it. i hate the dirty feeling it gives me. i wish i would never have to shit ever again. typing this while shitting btw

Do you feel better now that it's off your chest?

I really feel so annoyed with alcohol culture, how people feel better because they can drink more, how people get drunk every weekend, it’s so fucking boring, that people that the only way of having fun is drinking and go partying are the most superficial and empty. Like going drinking and partying once in a while is okay I do it, but damn that being the only thing you do? The worst is they don’t even realize they have an issue and they feel superior to people because of this. I even feel sorry for them sometimes, because outside of partying there’s not much, they don’t have personalities, dreams, they don’t think on their own, they are so ignorant about everything, they don’t even have hobbies. Anyway just wanted to say that.

My girlfriend wants to drink every day when we go on vacation, it’s so annoying to me. Like I want to enjoy our time together with my brain intact at least sometimes

I can’t even go downstairs to the kitchen or to use the bathroom because of my disgusting brother. He hasn’t stopped with his fucking fapping. I’ve been only ordering takeout for the past month just to avoid going downstairs. I’m in my room 24/7. I hate this. I hate him.

He's doing it out in the open? Wtf. What does your dad have to say about this? Beyond FUCKED you have to deal with that...

I don’t get it. I don’t. Why do young men think it’s okay to worship a man who tells them to beat women? A man who r@pes, a man who has sex trafficking charges he ran to Romania to avoid. Why. Young kids are even starting to get the “men are better than females” mentality and it’s sick. How can people be ok with a violent misogynist teaching kids these things??? It’s sad hearing it everyday in school, seeing teachers be told that they aren’t worth listening to and “they’re women and their job is just the kitchen”. It’s fucking wrong. I cant really handle this anymore, and I’m scared for a whole generation of boys to grow up. It’s horrible. Please, if you have young boys like 9+, please don’t let them get addicted to the drug that is @ndrew t@te.

Young men need guidance, and leadership that the world is sorely lacking. Unfortunately they turn to these internet “alpha males” dude is a scum bag. As are majority of these internet pick up artists/mens “insert what ever here” I don’t know much about this guy, but from the little I’ve found absolutely pos

I see a lot of videos of people proposing at weddings. And while some may think that’s cute, I think it’s rude as hell. Like, the couple getting married, it’s supposed to be their special day. One they’ll remember for the rest of their lives. They’ve spent thousands of dollars, poured countless hours and months into planning and when the day finally arrives, you decide to steal the spotlight from them? When you go to a wedding, you’re supposed to be celebrating the couples love for each other. It’s THEIR day. Not yours. Quite frankly, I wouldn’t even want to be proposed to at a wedding. To me, that’s like “oh well I couldn’t think of something romantic so I’ll just propose at the wedding cause everything romantic is already set up.” I’m sorry but if you propose at my wedding, you’re getting shown the door. I don’t care who you are. It’s extremely disrespectful, and you’re not gonna steal the spotlight from me and my husband. Everyone’s here to see us get married, not to see you propose to your girlfriend/boyfriend.

if someome proposes at my wedding i will give birth at the same timr as them and die at their funeral

Trigger warning: obviously death, also drug use. So, I don't really have anyone to talk about this with irl, but I think venting will help. I'm a delivery driver. Yesterday I was having a good day. All of my deliveries were local and a co-worker had taken about 1/3 of my packages so I was going to get out really early and enjoy the day. I hadn't had any problems at all, it was just going good. Then, I get back to my van, just singing and texting and being happy, and I'd just gotten in when a woman runs up to my window screaming for help. She's screaming for me to call 911 and that her boyfriend is dead. I was actually a little sceptical at first. She's running, trying to get me to follow her towards an abandoned-looking building, we're in an area with a lot of crime, and she has "meth face" so my first assumption was that she was trying to get me away from my van and distracted. I follow her from a distance really not believing her and I call 911. It takes them FOREVER to answer, so by the time they did I had gotten close to the building and even from the sidewalk I could smell it. So, finally 911 answers and I'm going up the stairway to this building. It's one of those twisted outside stairways. There's trash everywhere. Needles, empty pill bottles, condoms, bottles full of pee, dirty clothes. They'd been living there. The operator wanted me to verify that the guy was dead but I wasn't trying to go all the way up there so I asked the woman if he was warm and she said he was completely cold. But the operator insisted I needed to describe what he looked like (I assume to get a second opinion that he was dead besides just from the screaming woman) so I went up and there he was. I was expecting someone who had just died. So, who mostly looked alive but just...not. That was not the case. This man has clearly been dead for a while. I don't know how pale he was before, but he was unnaturally white. The woman had lifted him up a little against her, and I could see his back was completely covered in a large, purple-red blotch. There was a trail of dried blood under his nose. At this point at was around 1 pm, I'm guessing he'd died early morning. The smell alone... It was in the 90s yesterday, and that smell from him being in that heat was just horrible. I was also expecting someone who looked like the woman. She had the face of someone who had been using for a long, long time. He didn't. He looked young and "healthy". She said he was 32, I would have put him in his 20s. His cheeks weren't sunken, he was a normal-looking weight. His face was shaved and his hair looked taken care of. The woman told the cops that he used every drug that he could get his hands on, even more than her. I guess not everyone shows it. So, the cops made me hang out for a while. They interrogated the woman, it seemed like they needed to rule out that I was involved before they could let me go, so I was there for a little over an hour, just standing there in the heat listening to this woman wail. She kept looking at me but I didn't know what to say to her. I'm not great at sad situations. Eventually I did tell her that I was really sorry for her loss. I let her use my phone and gave her my water bottle. When they finally let me leave she was still there being grilled by the cops about where the drugs came from. They really didn't seem to care that she'd just lost her boyfriend. I get it but she's still a human, I would have at least given her a few minutes in some shade or something. I called my boss and asked if he had anyone who could take the rest of my packages. He got 2 of my coworkers to call me, but it was pretty obvious that they didn't really want to and I only had a couple of hours worth of driving left so I just went ahead and finished my shift. But even tho I was really careful not to touch anything, I swear the smell got on me. I could still smell it when I clocked out. I wish I had just ditched the packages back at the store and gone home to shower. When I picked my daughter up from the sitter on the way home we were talking about her day at school and I usually ask her if anything interesting happened so she asked me if anything interesting happened at work. I told her nope, just boring work stuff. If only. Anyways, rest in peace Davie. I'll be thinking about you

Hey man , thanks for sharing your story here. Sorry you had to lie to your kid. I hope you get a chance to talk to a friend or someone all about it, so you can really let it all out. Peace to you.

It doesn't matter how feminine you are, how much makeup you wear, how much Penis you get, or who invited into it, there is absolutely no excuse gay guys are in women's bathrooms. "I'm not attracted to you so relax"-- This isn't about sex or attraction. "My female friends invited me"-- They don't own the female bathrooms and aren't in charge of who to let in. "It's our safe space". It's our safe space! Women's bathrooms are one of very few spaces where I feel comfortable enough to go in, (where women in general feel comfortable) use them and adjust my clothes or do other things that I wouldn't be comfortable doing around a guy, regardless of his sexuality. I have also had alot of bad experiences with men, so my mind is usually on an alert. So it is highly uncomfortable to do anything in the bathrooms. Even if I have to pee myself I can't go. They're usually hanging around and talking or doing other things. Men have their own bathrooms to use! So no there's no excuse or reason as to why I see gay men occupying women's bathrooms. If this post doesn't apply to you scroll on.

Isn’t it weird how a lot of comments are basically saying that a lot of people don’t feel safe in mens restrooms?

The amount of repetitive, unskippable, back-to-back ads im encountering is getting FUCKING. RIDICULOUS.

If you click the I symbol at the bottom, then click stop seeing ad, then click one of them, then click send, it stops the ads

Just that. Saw a video of an asian guy getting attacked by a black guy. Fuck that attacker. But I go to the recent comments and it's just "oh but blm right?". Yeah, BLM. Asian lives too. White lives too. You realize one black guy being an asshole doesn't discredit the entire race, right? If that's your logic, then how do you not also hate all white + asian people? Oh, because you're just a stupid racist with no logic. Yeah. Edit to clarify: I am pro-BLM, and anti-ALM (I think all lives matter, yes, but the ALM movement is done specifically to take away from BLM). THIS DOES NOT MEAN I AGREE WITH EVERYTHING DONE/SAID BY BLM MEMBERS. I am tired of people randomly bringing up BLM when a black person does something bad. I am not anti-black lmao I am half black and my mom comes from a long lineage of Africans who were enslaved. By the way: If you don't like the BLM movement, fine, you can dislike it, that's not my point. My point is if as soon as you see a black person commiting a crime you go "Oh but black lives matter right?" you are being kinda racist.

Honestly. It's become almost an every day thing to watch black people get shot by the police & murdered. Or Asians being murdered in cold blood (like the Asian grandpa who was pushed down and died on the pavement). I'm tired of watching people get murdered. It's horrifying.

Just don’t. Especially if they’re going through a rough time, it’ll make them feel worse and they might suppress their emotions.

Fr this just escalates the issue and makes them feel their emotions are invalid and can make their stress level rise significantly causing outbreaks, isolation, and in worse cases self mutilation or suicide. Edit: this was my case. I had very abusive parents and when I'd cry they would yell at me for crying so much so that I'd scratch myself while being yelled at to stop myself from crying to make it so the yelling wouldn't be as long. 12 years later I still dont cry I'll either bite my lip hard or pull my thumbs down till it hurts.

I painted you two of my largest pet portraits available on my website. I wasted so much time and turned down other commission orders because I was too busy working on yours. Emailed you I was shipping your last portrait later in the after noon not even TWO HOURS after I sent that blessed email you sent me chargebacks from your bank claiming ‘ you never received’ the products. You made the mistake of confirming you received the first portrait and ‘absolutely LOVE it!’ Little did you know your bank is asking me for evidence to dispute your claim. Not only do I have your shipping receipt, your admission that you HAVE IT IN YOUR POSSESSION. IN. WRITING. You’re not getting your money back. Your last portrait never made it to the post office because you sent those charge backs and you can bet your ass that portrait is staying with me until it is either ruled in my favor. You a hoe Hannah.

HANNAH IS A BITCH ASS HOE

I'm so fucking pissed at this and I just want to scream. For months I've been angry my sister was fucking cremated. I know the process, I know how selfish the crematorium staff were even when they feigned sympathy and gave me shitty platitudes, I hate it. I've looked everywhere to try to find comfort in all this bullshit so I decided to finally try and wear this ugly locket with some of the ashes in it. So I put it on today. And then when I took it off to get in the shower the chain broke and the locket fell and it smashes then all this ugly grey sandy dusty shit fell out. And I'm fuming. This is what my fucking sister is now. This is what's left of her. Fuck the disgusting machines her little body was processed in. Fuck the cremation people, especially the one who kept telling me how heartbreaking her job was FOR HER and whining all throughout her funeral. They're so stuck up their own ass it makes me sick. And they're all cunts. I hate having this ugly dust. I would say that this isn't my sister, but fuck that, it is her. And I'm mad about it.

Be as mad as you need to be. I’m sorry

Hi so to start out I live in a sober living home also called a halfway house. I am fresh in recovery and so far have been sober off Xanax and fentanyl for around 2 months. I have 2 other roommates in my bedroom and let’s just call them Kevin and Jerry for anonymous purposes. Jerry is very obese. Like when I say obese I mean morbidly obese. Not like the biggest person in the world but pretty big. Jerry is a really nice guy. Like even though he’s big and intimidating I’ve never seen get remotely mad about anything and he always compliments me and tries to cheer me up when he sees I’m down and in my thoughts. Kevin is also nice to me and we haven’t had any problems either. Kevin seems a little off sometimes like he’s really thinking something all the time but otherwise he’s cool. One thing I noticed about Jerry was he always snores in his sleep. But I’m not talking about a normal snore, like an extremely loud snore to the point I thought he was overdosing on fentanyl the first night I slept with him. It literally sounds like he'd gasping for air when he snores. This morning, Jerry seemed really tired for some reason. He was sleeping on the couch sitting up, and then finally went to his room and laid on bed to go to take a nap. I go in there as well and lay on my bed on my phone and scroll Tik tok. Jerry starts snoring as usual and I think nothing of it. Jerry wakes up a few times but falls back asleep. I keep scrolling my phone and my roommate Kevin walks in. He asks me, how long has jerry been on the ground? I didn’t know what he was talking about but I look over and see half of Jerry’s body laying on the ground from the bed. Me and Kevin try to wake jerry up, but he won’t wake up. We call the house manager and immediately narcan him 2 times then another time when he doesn’t respond. Still no reaction to the narcan. We call 911 and me and the house manager start taking turns doing chest compressions on him. For 15 minutes we do chest compressions until the paramedics get here. I watch as they attach cords and stuff to his body and then say their going to use the defibrillator to try to start his heart again. I’m escorted out of the room, and 10 minutes later they come out to tell me he’s passed. He didn’t make it. I don’t know why he died, and the paramedics don’t tell me anything about why he did. I can’t help but feel if I would’ve noticed he fell off the bed I could’ve called 911 sooner, started chest compressions and maybe he would still be alive. I try to call my mom about what I went through but she says she didn’t want to talk to me and maybe he died because “the program your in is shit”. I have nobody I can talk to about what I went through and I just feel alone at this point. A large part of me wants to go out and get some Xanax right now to calm my nerves. I still have to live in the same bedroom he died in and I feel miserable and horrible like the feeling of death is still here, like I can smell it in the air. I think honestly just typing all this out on here helped a little bit, even if nobody reads it. Thanks

Sounds to me like he had sleep apnea.. the loud snoring is the body trying to get air... and unfortunately sometimes people stop breathing due to those issues and they WILL HAVE to do an autopsy becuase it's considered a unattended death which basically means he wasn't under doctors care when he passed. And just becuase someone passes in a rehab does NOT mean it was an OD.... and to the OP don't blame yourself sweetheart there would have been nothing you could have done. Keep focusing on your recovery and know that your friend is with you in your heart so talk to him often and just listen he will answer you... stay strong you got this... one day at a time my friend

AHAHAHAHAHA DUMB MOTHER FUCKER! WHERE THE FUCK IS YOUR MASK NOW! AHAHAHAJAJAH!

Why doesn't he inject disinfectant? That would kill the virus and he'd be healthy in a minute. /s

So recently I dyed my hair dark blue, I also got this cute rouge lingerie gown and I went up to him while he was playing games and he literally turned around and said “you remind me of thing 1 and thing 2 from cat in the hat.” I immediately frowned and got dressed in regular clothes. It’s literally the dumbest thing to be upset about but now im so god damn self conscious about it, this isn’t even a joke.

Bro wtf

I had an interview with robinhood and my god, they were so fucking rude Everyone I interviewed with had that classic Silicon Valley superiority complex. They acted like they were the chosen few who had ascended to the rank of a silicon valley engineer. They constantly commented about how I'm gonna like silicon valley because it's "where everyone wants to be". They're like "where are you from?" and I say "Boston" and they talk so negatively about it like "ew it's cold there and it's dirty and everyone is ugly and you can't even get bubble tea every block why would you live there?" They also had that annoying af "california nice" type of thing where they pretend to be nice and caring but are actually mean, selfish people who act above you. It's hard to even describe. It's like if your car broke down and you asked them for a jump they'd be like "oh my god 🙁I'm sorry that must be so hard! I can't even imagine what it'd be like to not have a car here!", "so like... you gonna give me a jump or nah" "nooo I'm too busy but I wish you the best!" I don't think anyone has been so rude during an interview either. They asked one question, "we're making a family-friendly chat app! How would you make it?". First of all what the fuck does "family friendly" mean in this context? What am I going so far as to blur out the swears? Excluding media upload because it could be inappropriate for kids? So I ask him and he's like "I dunno you tell me 😇". I kept asking questions and he kept just giving non-answers. I ask him what he's even asking me to do and he's just like "oh you know, how would you approach making this app?", which is vague af and I can't work with, like dude we have 30 minutes, scope it the fuck down. So I start gathering scope which is fucking impossible with him literally not giving a yes or no answer to anything. >Me: What's the value proposition of this app? What's its selling point? Like what is family friendly? What criteria will make it considered family friendly? They can only contact people they personally know? Maybe only authorized contacts can contact someone? Like what's the scope? > >Them: Um I dunno maybe I guess. You know, it's just a family friendly chat app It is so goddamn irritating that I just switch to doing shit and asking if it's okay. "Okay so in this app they can send text-based messages only to known contacts, is that an okay feature set? Does that meet the criteria for an MVP" "yeah, I mean... I guess... 🙄". "So... do you want more features or...? Am I missing features?" "no, I mean, I guess this is fine". So then I ask "so we have the features... what now?" and he's like "design the app", so I say "you mean like... architect it technologically?" and he's like "yeah sure", so I draw out an interface and mark up the components and he's like "what are you doing?" and I'm like "uh... scoping out the interface of the app?" and he's like "why are you doing that?", and I'm like "... what are you expecting to see exactly...?" and he doesn't say a single helpful thing again and just tells me to continue. Then I start drawing out some data structures on the backend as I'm working on the interface and he's like "focus! You either do UI or you do backend!" and I'm like "wait do you want me to do a frontend or backend? You haven't told me" and he said "both, but focus on one or the other at a time, you're supposed to focus" and I'm like "uhh... okay?" then I do them separately. I'm also applying for a frontend position so this is some bullshit At the end he tells me "you need to focus more you think wrong". Like dude, what the actual fuck? You haven't answered a single fucking question this whole time and gave me a single sentence to work off of, what the fuck do you want? Anyway, they're rude and I'm not surprised to see this rebellion against them recently

Lmao you absolutely dodged a bullet my dude

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this guy walked by me, looked at me, and said “fucking redsk*n” first of all i’m asian, second of all i don’t know if i should laugh or be offended. after it processed in my head i laughed, now i’m just hella confused edit: to whoever commented “ok jussie” and then deleted it, shut yo dum dum bubble gum lookin ass the fuck up

Laugh at how ignorant people are lol

They're not hurting anyone by being virgins, and yet they insist on hurting them for being virgins. People who choose to be virgins should not be shamed, and neither should those who never had a choice. Stop making them feel like there's something wrong with them simply because they haven't participated in an overrated, and sometimes dangerous, few minutes of novelty for a few minutes of pleasure. And stop trying to make it seem like they're immature or childish for it either.

Same thing for adults always pressuring their kids to bring someone home to get introduced. Like chill, let ppl live at their own pace

My friend of 5 years called me 10 days ago and asked to borrow 20k to make a minimum payment. He said that American Express froze all his bank account because he owes them about 90k in credit card debt. He asked for me to borrow 20k and promise to pay it back in 3 days because he has a check from a client around 35k. The client cannot pay him anytime sooner. He only gave me 30 mins to think about it and I said no. He hung the phone on me. Today at 2am, I woke up to a text from him saying this: **"Here is proof that I will pay you back (attached is a picture of a 35k check). Now I know you dont trust me and you not letting me borrow 20k shows you dont trust me. I now know you're not a good friend to me and I wish to no longer speak with you. You have hurt me by not trusting me and it's better that I know now than later"** I am still processing this.

Yeah, you would have never seen that money again.

Not only is it toxic as hell but they gaslight you every single chance they can and when you try to defend yourself you’re disrespectful towards them. Absolutely jealous of western culture and the amount of liberty y’all have. Don’t even get me started on the physical/emotional/verbal abuse, that’s the norm here since we live under their house they think they have the right to abuse us.

I totally agree, having Japanese parents they really compare me a lot to other kids and have high expectations for everything. They were abusive verbally and mentally.

I usually take about 20 minute showers, I have really long and thick hair and I have a whole routine for my hair and my face I do in the shower, so it’s around $100 per shower. I work 2 jobs to pay for gas and to save up for college and when I move out. for one of them I work 8-9 hour shifts at about $9.00/hour. The other one is usually around 5 hour shifts at $9.50/hour, so after work if I take a shower, that shift didn’t mean anything and I have lost money. I just want to be clean, I was particularly gross today after a 9 hour shift, so I took a 25 minute shower, that cost me $125, I just want to be clean man. They also charge me for time spent in the bathroom, so if I brush my teeth after getting out of the shower then that’s additional money lost. Both my parents are teachers, and I have two siblings. I am the only child who they charge to shower. My parents make enough money to cover the water bill and then some, we live an upper middle class lifestyle. Edit 1 before I go to sleep: thank you all for the replies, whether you’re giving advice or just sympathizing, it really helps. I will be sure to update as the situation continues and I am trying my hardest to reply to every comment, thank you ❤️ Edit 2: I have a free membership at planet fitness because of their free for teens thing in the summer, and once that ends I have a free membership because I work at the YMCA. I’ve seen a lot of people suggest showering there and I think that might be my best option

This is very strange. If you could not pay them, would they deny you a shower? That sounds low-key abusive.

~~thank you for listening.~~

Same

Yeah. And she had the nerve to tell me that im the other woman, when we were together for a year, since January of 2023, and she started talking to him in june of 2023… i feel like im gonna die. Im pregnant and I haven’t told anyone yet and i dont know what to do

Get receipts bc you know one day she’ll post a “story time” to twist the narrative either by calling you his crazy ex, playing innocent, or crying victim when he cheats on her too.

The clit is extremely sensitive. Extremely. Like tip of the penis sensitive. I don't care if you vice grip your dong and squeeze it to death, you don't do that with a clit. Unless someone specifically tells you to do it. You treat it nice and delicate. You don't poke it for fun like you'd poke someone's side. It fucking hurts. It's extremely painful and you will lose trust. As many of you know, allowing someone to touch and look at your body requires a lot of trust. You poking it hard, squeezing it, sucking too hard, biting it, or even licking it too hard will lose that trust and hurt the person you say you love. Why the hell would you even hurt someone you love??? It isn't funny. Play fighting is one thing. But you don't do it to someone's genitals. Just be fucking gentle and listen to her. Fuck man like what is the deal????? I fucking hate porn for this reason. Making it act like we want you to rub it so hard like sand paper. Bitch no I love my clitoris and I love the pleasure it can give me. You don't get to ruin that for me. Get a fucking clue. Think outside of yourself. Be gentle ya fucking assholes. If you are a gentle clit rubbing fiend... you deserve a good dick sucking. Good job. Keep it up.

Because of the first comment i feel the need to say that it is the purpose of this sub to vent. So what you have to say is legit. Also don't know how to say it, but sorry that your partner or partners didn't listen to you. Maybe your vent can help younger people to not treat their partner's clitoris like a toy.

I was raped by my neighbour. I was too young to notice was he did to me and now I realised it and just can’t get over it. I felt like it was all my fault and didn’t have the courage to tell my parents. He moved out after a few years. &#x200B; It started when me and him were playing by the corridor. He told me he wanted to play a game as he slowly unbuckled his belt. I was too young to understand so I just said yes. He attempted to do it on me but I tried to open my house door, it was locked. My parents locked my out because I had a habit of going in and out. He forced himself on me and I just went along with it thinking it was part of the \*game\*. He moved out after a few years and now I realised what he did and became depressed. I hate physical touch now and don’t allow my friends to touch my or anything. I just lock myself in the bathroom and stay in there for lunch.

I'm so sorry, this happened to my wife as well. She still suffers from it. I hope you get some solace from this.

Why are my parents mad at me for gaining muscle / weight? I'm a 19 year old woman and I've been going to the gym for more than a year now. Before I went to the gym, I was at 57kg and now after 1 year of hard workout I'm at 62kg. I wanted to tell my mom about my gains because I was actually really proud of them after realizing how much progress I made. After I told her she consistently insulted me and said things like: "I can tell that you gained weight by looking at your face" "You're gonna ruin your body" "You're a girl why do you want to gain muscle or weight" "Why are you happy about gaining weight???" Later on my dad joined and said similar things such as: "You're gonna look so ugly" "You're a girl you should look like one" They we're screaming at me and they acted so disgusted of me. I really tried explaining to them that I feel more comfortable like this. And I also tried to explain how muscle growth works, because I figured that they don't really know much about it. They for example don't know that muscles are heavier than fat. I will continue pushing through the gym, but the things they said really stuck with me for some reason and it really hurt me. It really damaged my self esteem in a way and it's hard to look at myslef the same way again. (Edit: Guys thank you so much for all the kind words it really helped me. Thank you guys so so much 🫶. I also want to upadte on the situation with my parents... My mom apologized to me and explained that she was just triggered by the fact that I was happy about gaining muscle weight. She herself has trouble loosing weight and it's a big problem to her. I forgave her cause my mom is actually a kind person... and lets be real.. everyone acts like an ass at some point even tho they shouldn't... My dad didn't apologize tho... he never does... I barely talked to him since yesterday... I don't know if thats a valid thing but I just don't feel like talking to him)

Your parents sounds very misogynistic. Don't listen to then and keep doing what make you happy! And btw, this is a great gain and something you should be proud of! Keep on the good work!

I, 22 cis male, saw a nurse today who asked if I was really a male… I told her I was and in my mind that should’ve been the end of the story, but she literally asked “are you sure?” Ummm… I am gay with a higher pitched voice and skinny with hair that is a bit longer with it going to like the middle of my neck, but I wear normal men’s clothing and don’t try to look or be perceived as a woman. Sure, I like skinny jeans sometimes and my hair are both on the more feminine side, but I’m not trying to be a woman. I responded to her awkwardly “yes, I’m sure” and she said something like “I’m surprised” Edit: I want to add that I genuinely don’t think she was trying to be mean. She seemed very dumb tbh and unaware of how rude what she said was. Also, I didn’t whip anything out to prove anything because I have enough on my plate with health stuff that I don’t need a lawsuit too lol.

Reply with “are you really a nurse? Did you sign a document stating you’d adhere to professional standards?” When she says yes, just reply with “I’m surprised “

I was around 15 years old when I went to a huge party with half of my school there. When I got there they starting offering beer and lean (typical high school party) The real problem started when I got drunk. My buddy decided it would be funny to put his dick in my mouth when I blacked out and take a picture. A week after the party everyone thought I was gay and I was called dick lover in the hallways at schools. I saw my locker where people have drawn dicks on it. I have been getting bullied ever since. I am seriously afraid of going to school and I hate my self.

You need to report him, that’s sexual assault.

When I go swimming, I just want to swim. That's it. I fucking hate the mere *idea* of people (especially guys) checking me out or some shit. So I hate bikinis. I tried to find a sports bikini type thing, but they're all so goddamn lacy and shit. And full-body swimsuits are so revealing. I hate it. So instead I decided to get swimming shorts and a top, plus one of the few sports bikinis I could find. But the **moment** you add "women's" to a search bar, it's all so goddamn **sexualised** and lacy. Like what?? Apparently the moment you're a AFAB you're destined to be sexualised, and have the material in your clothes cut in half to show off your tits or legs or some shit. And I can't even get men's shorts to swim in because they won't fit properly with my hips and stuff. **I DON'T WANT TO BE SEXUALISED.** I get some people like to show themselves off and enjoy being admired, good for them! **BUT I DO NOT.** I find it physically repulsing to think anyone is looking at me in that sort of sexualised way (probably at least partially because I'm ace). If people look at me for what I'm wearing, I want it to be due to my aesthetics or some shit, NOT BECAUSE THEY WANNA FUCK ME. (Posting this on my ThrowAway account since I don't like having stuff that can obviously show my gender, etc. on my main) **==========================** Edit: I'm not saying men don't get sexualised too, they do and it sucks. No one deserves to feel that uncomfortable. My point was that when I was searching for swimwear, the men's stuff tends to be much baggier, no cuts to accentuate your chest or whatever. And men can just throw on a tshirt to swim, whether having lumps of fat on your chest has been sexualised, so I have to find something else to cover them in case my shirt rides up. This also means I'm way too hot in summer because if I don't wear enough layers, I feel so uncomfortable due to all the sexualisation - and even if I'm wearing a hoodie, there's still a chance I'll get catcalled. Even in my school uniform, I'm not safe. So yes, men experience it too - feel free to rant or whatever in the comments, but please try not to phrase it as "*men get it too, stop complaining*" because that's not the point here. I'm talking about my own extreme discomfort, and it feels very invalidating to see those comments. I sympathise so much, let's be sympathetic and kind, not try to one-up each other with how uncomfortable we are.

I HEAR YOU. My dad lived right next to a beach and so every summer it was inevitable for me and my brothers to go swimming almost daily. Whenever we would go shop for new swimwear I felt so repulsed entering the women’s section because everything showed way too much of my ass and boobs for comfort! I would opt to wear guys board shorts and a simple swimming T-shirt. Didn’t look flattering in the slightest but damn I felt comfortable and didn’t get leered at by anyone else

Biting me FOUR FUCKING TIMES. ONCE ON EVERY FUCKING LIMB MF. WHEN IM TRYNA SLEEP TOO. IM SO GLAD I SMACKED THE SHIT OUT OF YOU SO HARD MY FUCKING CEILING VIBRATED. I HOPE I SENT YOU TO HELL WITH A FUCKING SHOCKWAVE YOU LITTLE SHIT. BITCH ASS MF.

talk your shit man, mosquitoes got no fucking business doing this shit. fucking hate them

I fucking hate people who are late all the fucking time, how fucking little do you respect people if every time your meant to meet you are over an hour late. Fucking piece of shit. Is my time worth nothing to you? The fact you asked me for something because you can’t do it yourself and when I get it done for you you can’t even turn up on time. I hope being late is worth the fucking friendships you lose. Edit: I don’t mean people who are a little late, shit happens and traffics a bitch. But people who are always more than half hour late to everything for no reason.

I have a friend who is habitually late and no matter how many times I complain he jokes and says that’s part of his personality. No, no it’s not. You just don’t find MY time valuable and think it’s ok to go do whatever until you’re ready to leave. I invited him to dinner and was going to pick him up. 30 minutes before I get there he says oh I’m in my uber getting back from a long run so I have to shower and will need more time. I FUCKING TOLD YOU WHAT TIME I WAS GOING TO BE THERE and the LEAST he could have done was cut his fucking run short OR go earlier in the day! I’m getting to the point where if I invite him with others we are not going to wait for him anymore. I’ve started telling him the meet up or reservation is 30-60 minutes earlier than it actually is just so he shows up on time. No, it’s not cute and it’s extremely disrespectful.

We have one life, yet for most of it we have to work 30+ hours a week, come home after the day is over, feel too tired to do anything other than eat and sleep, then repeat, until we get too old to work or do the things we’ve always wanted to do, and then we die, I mean yea in between we make memories but still, for the majority of our lives we spend it just … slaving away, for a company that doesn’t give a shit about us, or a job we don’t really care less for, but we do it because we need money to live, damn it’s so depressing, we miss time with loved ones and partners, for something we just “do” because at some point in history someone’s decided that’s what everyone needed to do, damn what’s even the point in life? I genuinely don’t even want to be alive anymore, I just don’t see the purpose of it Ps. I know people say this is why you have to do something you “love” but even at that, you’ll eventually see the job you love as a “chore” at-least I would, because it would not longer be a simply novelty for down time but “work”

I felt this way too, then I got a work from home job. I decorated my home office how I liked, made it cozy with candles, lamps, plants, etc. I can kiss my husband and cat throughout the day/on my breaks. I agree with what you’re saying 100%, but working 40 hours a week from the comfort of my home and family with me, makes it a little bit easier.

I don’t do porn anymore. Kind of silly of me to think I can do porn and keep it from the world. Someone at school found me on Pornhub and sent the link out to everyone at school. I was a bit embarrassed at first but I play it cool now. I tell them hey you know a pornstar, how sick is that. However, someone who confessed their feelings for me whom I rejected has found my porn and they told my family. I’m at a I-really-don’t-give-a-fuck-what-anyone thinks-point in my life now. Life’s just great. Edit: I’m in college. Edit 2: My family had my back and told the guy to fuck off. I let them know I no longer do porn, so maybe that gave them some peace of mind. I’m lucky and grateful my family accepts me for who I am. Also, the guy sent me a text saying he watched my porn to get over me. I imagine that finished in lots of tears and cum. No, I’m not posting the link. Happy Holidays!

Did your family confront you about it? How did they react? I hope it wasn't too bad.

I don't know why, and if I ask her now my mother will deny she's ever done this. At this point I'm done looking for an explanation from her. Regardless of whatever braindead excuse she'd ever conjure, my mother would force me to watch gore/shock videos starting when I was around 7 years old. Cartel, ISIS, car crash, child abuse, you name it I've seen it through her phone or laptop. She would stop periodically, but it would only end after I turned 17 and grew the balls I needed to just say no and walk away. Im 22 now. I've been treated and diagnosed with PTSD due to physical, sexual, and emotional abuse spanning multiple years. I've been to plenty doctors, therapists, chaplains, you name it, but I've yet to find anyone who can even understand the concept, let alone treat someone who was forced to watch gore as a child. I suppose it would fall under emotional/psychological abuse or whatever, but the act itself is apparently new to most professionals. Every time I've mentioned it, people seem baffled at the idea of a mother showing her daughter videos of people or animals being killed. It's at the point where I just don't bring it up, because it annoys me to have to explain: 1. No, it wasn't a movie. 2. No I had no interest, nor did I ASK her to show me these things. 3. Yes, I'm absolutely fucking sure it wasn't a fucking movie. My favorite scenario that I find myself in (and by "favorite" I mean infuriating) is when I'm at work or in some sort of group-setting where gore or shock videos are brought up. It's happened a few times where people I know will - without warning- show me a shock video, and instead of reacting the way they want I just blink and tell them "yeah, I've seen that one." Or "My ma showed me that one." Or something similar. Somehow, this makes me a "bummer" to be around. I'm sorry, fuck you? It fucking boggles my mind that YOU show ME a video of someone getting their head blown off with a fucking shot-gun unpromted in the workplace but IM the fucking bummer? You know what? It is a fucking bummer. It still makes me angry and I despise how it's followed me into adulthood. It's like I can't ever escape this constant stream of death directly fucking my eye holes constantly and it started with someone I trusted my entire being to, not that I had a choice. My mother, in her infinite fucking wisdom thought it would be a great idea to desensitize me to the worst violence imaginable and then punish me physically if I showed any signs of mental disturbance or aggression. Honestly though, I don't even agree with the term "desensitized". I always had a visceral reaction to these kinds videos, but wouldn't show it out of fear. If I looked away or cried when I was little, mother would smack me, so now when I see gore I get this awful tingling and I simply shut down and mutter something mildly disturbing or trauma- dumpy that I won't remember unless someone tells me about it later. Afterwards, I feel angry and that anger lasts a lot longer than what's convenient. It's fucking exhausting. I guess maybe I'm not as well adjusted as I like to think, but I'm at a loss. I don't have anyone to talk to about this, and I'm just driving myself crazy. I'm just so angry all the time and I still have nightmares about death and rotting and bugs. I feel like I'm rotting from the inside out. Barely fucking human. Sorry for the novel or whatever. TL;DR My ma made me watch gore as a kid. It fucked me up, and I just wanna rant about it.

People at work shouldn’t be showing you gore vids randomly. I honestly can’t remember the last time I’ve seen one of those, and don’t think I’ve ever been shown them without warning. Soooo whoever’s doing that is messed up and weird.

i’m 15m and it’s 4am i was drinkjng alcohol with my 20f friend not long ago. i trusted her but she kept putting her hand on me and i pushed it away but she said it’s a joke so we kept watchkng netflix. 5 mins after that she sat on top of me i feel stupid because i tried to push her off but i couldn’t. then she just basically used me even though i told her to stop it a few times and when she was done she kept telling me thst i enjoyed it even though i didn’t and that i’m lucky because she doesn’t give everyone a chance. i messaged my brother about it and he said it’s not rape because i didn’t stop her even though i tried to i had no energy but idk what counts as rape. so i left her house and now i’m jsut sitting on a bench because i have nowhere else to go and i feel stupid and tired

it’s 5:30am now and a police guy came up to me about 10 mins ago and he asked me what i’m doing, i told him what happened but i don’t think he likes me because of things i’ve done before, he just told me to tell my dad and then he left me which didn’t feel great because i can’t even go home and i know my dad won’t care so i’ll have to wait until school opens which is in a few hours but i’m tired, thank you for the comments they make me feel less alone right now

I have a group of friends since school, we always live close to each other but a few years ago one of our friends came out transsexual, we all support and continue our friendship As we live close to each other, we always get together for RPG sessions, and last week when we got together, at the end of the night my trans friend started flirting with me, in person and by text message last night, at the end of our rpg session, after everyone left, she insisted on staying a little longer to talk, and i was embarrassed to refuse and let her stay a little longer in my house So she started trying to kiss me and touch me, and when I refused she got angry and started saying that I wouldn't have sex with her because she is a trans woman I denied it, and said it was just because I didn't see her that way, and I didn't want to have sex with her She then started saying that she was going to tell everyone about me being transphobic, and then she left I'm worried, what if she says false things to our friends and everyone walks away from me? I don't know what to do in this situation Edit: I talked about it with my friends and received their support, apparently she hasn't done or said anything yet. But if she does, we’ll all work it out. Thank you for the reassuring messages, I wish you people all the best.

You do not owe anyone sex, ever.

Dear parents and future parents, let this be known now that if you raise your child to be a r@pist I will not hesitate to raise my child to be a murderer. I am 19 years old. I developed much earlier than other children my age, when I was in 3rd grade I wore a 34C in bra size. When people looked at me they would never look at my eyes or my face first. I am scared to be a woman. Why? Because today I was almost r@ped or probably worse for saying NO. It was around 7:53pm. I just walked out of Kroger with bags in my hands when a man stalked me out of the store begging for my number. I think he may have stalked me around the store as well. When I said "No thank you I have a boyfriend" he gets mad. Then he lifts my skirt up and I panicked. I screamed. Luckily I was around some very kind men who protected me from this man and even walked me home because I was shaken up. (I live very close to Kroger.) I am scared to think about what would have happened if they were not there. But you wanna know what got me? What got me was when he was pulled away by the kind people who came to my rescue he screamed “YOU ARE A F*CKING WOMAN. KNOW YOUR PLACE B*TCH. YOU WANTED ME AND YOU KNOW IT. I miss the days where we could r@pe you with no complaints!” And many more hurtful slurs that I do not want to type. Did it fucking look like I begged for it?

No, you absolutely didn't want it and didn't deserve it. My condolences for what happened to you. No one should ever experience something like that. It must have been scary as hell and hurtful. My best advice is to get some sort of mechanism for self-defense, a spray, taser, etc. I hope you can make this guy receive the punishment it deserves

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There is a lady in my hometown who has been getting absolutely destroyed on Facebook this weekend. Someone posted that she abandoned 2 dogs on the side of the road with pictures of her car. People are sending her death threats. Everyone just believed the post and won’t listen to the truth. She had pulled over to the side of the road to use her cell phone. 2 dogs ran up to her car and belonged to whoever owned the property. The person who made the post actually picked the dogs up and took them to the pound. So not only did they accuse this woman of abandoning the dogs, they also kidnapped someone’s dogs off of their property.